For several months, I have been googling hand-forged knives. Now I think I really,really need a beautiful Mr. Itou santoku with an abalone handle. I know I'd never let anyone else use it. I don't like it when other people in my family use certain pans or even my KA mixer, but bite my tongue and check their condition later. Am I too possessive of my kitchen tools, or do others also have trouble sharing their toys?