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What are you canning this season?
I would really like to start canning but don't know how. Is there a website or book that would teach me how to at least get started?
What are your coffee shop expectations?
I agree with Tokyorosa's comments, especially about the jerks camping out with their computers! Go home!
How do you make the perfect ham sandwich?
Boar's Head imported sliced paper thin, New Yorker American, Gulden's spice mustard, jewish rye.(jewish pickle sliced on top).
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weird sandwich making rituals
I also have to spread the mayo or mustard evenly over the entire sandwich touching all sides, but one or the other, never mustard and mayo together, that's just wrong. Also, and I guess this is pretty weird, I love tomatoes but detest the seeds, they're slimy and gross, so I have to completely deseed a tomato before it goes on my sandwich.
What are you canning this season?
I would really like to start canning but don't know how. Is there a website or book that would teach me how to at least get started?
What are your coffee shop expectations?
I agree with Tokyorosa's comments, especially about the jerks camping out with their computers! Go home!
How do you make the perfect ham sandwich?
Boar's Head imported sliced paper thin, New Yorker American, Gulden's spice mustard, jewish rye.(jewish pickle sliced on top).
OVER THE TOP Paula Deen's flirtatiousness!!!!!
I agree with ChelleyD01completely! I can't watch Paula Deen or the Neelys, they are so obnoxious and have absolutely no class!
Cole slaw!
Thanks to everyone, not sure which one I'm going to make yet but I'm making ribs tomorrow night and making the cole slaw to go with it!!! I hope my mom likes its, thanks so much!
Anyone else peek at the spoilers for TNFNS?
I haven't watched for two weeks and don't intend to watch tonight, it's horrid.
The Neely's have ANOTHER show..WTH??
I absolutely cannot stand to listen to that woman speak, the way she goes on in that ridiculous way of hers makes me want to vomit, if I happen to put on FN and its THEM I immediately turn it off.
Not So Good.
Lasagna, meat balls, marinara.....I keep trying and keep failing...
Cookout Dessert
@sadiepix, can you post the recipe for your Anzac buscuit? It sounds yummy! I usually make a chocolate caramel torte.
Sandra Lee
Well, okay then, I knew I'd get the low-down from you guys. Thanks for warning me as I've never seen her show before! And thanks for all the great tips and advice I read on this great website!!! Stephie
Do you eat a bed-time snack? What is it?
Lately for some reason it anything and everything, especially ice cream, candy, doritos, pistachios, cookies, no rhyme or reason really, just really yummy and really fattening............if I get up in the middle of the night (which is a lot) I HAVE to have oreos and milk, I've been doing that almost my whole life and I don't know why...
Snickerdoodle Cookie Recipes
I never had a snickerdoodle (my mom only made chocolate chips) what are they and what's the recipe?
The Next Food Network Star - are we watching?
This is my first time watching this show, I was never really interested before, I agree with everyone's comments thought about that goofball Lisa and all the others, I thought it was hysterical the way Giada looked at that annoyingly cute girl! And I just love to watch Bobby Flay....
What's the chintziest food that you love to eat?
a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, put Herr's potato chips on it and smash together......yummy....
A great meatball recipe?
thanks for the great sounding recipes, I'm going to try today, just wondering, can I put any kind of good grated cheese in the meatballs?
Cheese!
Thanks everyone for the great cheese advice, (and no wookie, no Italian in-laws!!!), just trying to improve my cooking with all of you great cooks out there! Thanks.
Ah the ignorance of youth...strange food beliefs as a child...
I have the greatest mom in the world, however, it wasn't until I started eating other people's food that I found out that rice is not a mound of mush (but I still don't care for rice) that you could cook chicken in a lot of other ways than boil it (yuck, no flavor) that vegetables actually tasted great when not boiled beyond recognition, that meatballs tasted pretty good when mixed with spices and things and not just ground meat balled up, etc....(I used to hang around my friend's mom who was Italian and hoped to be asked to dinner) I love you mom! p.s. my mom made killer BIG dinners like roast beef, roasted potatoes, turkey dinners, & pork roasts.
Cause and Effect
Not to interrupt this very good post but, what and where is Whole Foods? Also, just out of curiosity blankplate, please share with me how you feed 3 people for a week for $60, I live in Philadelphia, not too far from you, and I must be doing something wrong.
MOST favorite cookbook in collection
Thanks everyone! I don't know which to buy first, (I'd honestly like to get them all) they all sound great! I have a feeling cookbooks will quickly become my new passion.
What is more of a 'deal breaker'--food or books?
I agree wholeheartedly with Karen Resta, while I love both food and books, I am of the opinion that the heart and soul of a person determines their worth.
Mission - Mac 'n Cheese
Thanks feriorrenna, just got home from work and I'm going back out to get the ingredients to make it tomorrow! WOW, all that cheese, it sounds awesome!
Mission - Mac 'n Cheese
I can't get to the recipe, can you paste it for me here? It sounds great!
Recipes for ham
I am preparing ham salad for lunch, sounds yummy! Thanks everyone!
MOST favorite cookbook in collection
Hands down, my favorite cookbook of all time is Essentials of Classic Italian Cooking by Marcella Hazan. It is brilliant, completely useful in everyday life and with one single exeption (the pear cake thing) every thing I've made from it has come out great. And I've made almost everything in it over the years. It is what I give new brides. It is what I give the young people I know who are starting out on their own.
MOST favorite cookbook in collection
If you're conserving "real estate" in your home, here are a few suggestions...
Martha Stewart's Cooking School
I'd also get books of your favorite ethnicities. They round out a cookbook collection nicely.
Bottom line - get books you'll USE. I love baking bread and have several books on the subject but if you're not interested in baking bread, skip it. I like Italian baking as well and have books by Nick Malgeri on the subject. (Baking w/Julia is an "all around" baking book it has a little bit of everything from some of the brilliant minds in baking.)
You might visit a library and/or bookstore and thumb through some to get an idea if you'll like them. Don't forget to visit USED book sites. Some things strike readers as "out of my league" so they bail and sell the book with nary a splat of olive oil on it. I beefed up my cookbook collection via used book sites.
Happy shopping!
MOST favorite cookbook in collection
Kenny Shopsin's Eat Me: The Food and Philosophy of Kenny Shopsin, hands down. Really changed how I think about cooking.
MOST favorite cookbook in collection
I would have to say Professional Cooking...the massive amount of info in it is amazing! lots of step by step pictires and detail instructions. Although you have to know some professional terminology to use it. Measurements both in metric and u.s.
The Neely's have ANOTHER show..WTH??
Well I've read all the comments and It sounds like to me that maybe there is a little predjudice going on! Noone seems to like the two shows that feature african american cooks as the host but on the same note, I personally don't really like the Neely's show either. I thought I was the only one that thought Gina's voice was annoying. Her personaility is too over the top and the slick references to sex as they are cooking is a bit too much. You almost don't want your kids to watch the show. He's not really a cook, he just does most of the chooping and order taking! She is too controlling. FN needs to can this show. My favorite is Paula Dean. She is so realistic and her husband is such a cute big ole teddy bear.
What are your coffee shop expectations?
Hi Vicki..I am an Iowa girl. but have lived in the Southwest a long time..so glad to hear that you are located there:) It is so beautiful in Iowa inJune and July...minus the humidity of course!! I grew up outside of Dubuque-You?
Here's an update for you-for some reason the food issue lessened a bit when I wrote "No Outside Food Please" on the large whiteboard sign at the entrance of our cafe. We have had signs on each table since we opened 3 years ago but find that folks ignore them...see last posting, right?!
Anyway, we have no walls separating us from the rest of the library..oh how we wish we did. So it seems that while the Library staff here (who are valued regular customers and truly wonderful folks) support our no food policy, they allow or overlook food and drinks in other Library areas. Hard to draw a line on the floor and say "See? This is the Library and THIS is the cafe..Food is okay here but not over THERE." And there is our food dilemma-even with Library support.
Also, to make our lives more interesting, the Library is under renovation for the next year...80 computers were available and now that is down to 30...and 2 of these 30 sit in the cafe. Again, the way we are constructed means that people waiting for these 2 computers (reserved at the reference desk) sit at our tables and do not purchase any cafe items.
Then, our safe is far away from my office where I do the money managing everyday...I now have to make my way thru these folks carrying the money bags...imagine how secure that feels.
The lady in the office next to mine is a grant writer and organizes the use of our large meeting room. Oftentimes, she is on a teleconference or hosting a "webinar". Throngs of people outside our offices waiting for their computer times are NOT conducive to business. Because you know Mr. Youtube and his teenage buddies are all using the same computer and commenting or playing the latest rap video without considering the others around them. Also, people walk into our offices (Labeled STAFF ONLY!!!) looking for the printers tied to these 2 computers.
I was told today that these 2 computers would be removed from the Cafe-hooray-can't happen soon enough. So, one difficulty down...just the food and messy people to go! Hope you are hanging in there! Have a great weekend-Julie
What are your coffee shop expectations?
Julie,
Sorry it's taken so long to post here!
I had a meeting with our library board and they are in total support of our coffee shop.
They are also understanding of the public's desire to have a place at the library for family eating.
While they had planned for folks to come to the library and buy items from the cafe and eat or drink at the available tables, they did not plan for people bringing their own food. Since this is a public library they would like to accommodate their patrons.
I think they have decided to amend our lease, with no extra cost to us, to include the 6 tables in the entryway. The four tables outside are to be for public use.
This really works for me as I figure the outside tables are least profitable. Here in Iowa they are not used at all during winter and later this summer it will be to hot to sit outside. The tables are metal. I have also stopped maintaining those tables to discourage people from using them! Since they are not part of the lease I feel it's not my responsibility to clean off the bird poop, except for my customers who want to use them, of course!
I highly recommend you meet with your foundation people, they support your shop, yes? and find out what their expectations are for your space. Let them know how detrimental to your business the practice of customers bringing food and beverage into your coffee shop. I know you said you chase them to outside tables, that is good and you must continue to do this. I would encourage you to put signage on your tables letting people know which tables are for coffee shop use exclusively (with the support of the library) and which can be used for the public (hopefully none of them) and be very vocal about enforcing this decision.
I personally told a lady unloading her fast food onto a table the other day that she needed to take it outside. She replied that it was raining (it wasn't!) so I told her she needed to take it inside and she did. I let her know those are my tables and to move on!
Yes the table had signage that said tables reserved for our customers!
Once you let people take over your space they will continue to do so. Most customers appreciate the signs and feel people bringing food in are rude.
Get the support of your library and enforce it!
By the by, I spoke with another library coffee shop and they pay a bit less rent that I do but they only rent the counter and the space behind it so the serving portion of the shop is library property but they still maintain it and ask people to leave if they are busy. They said while they allow people to bring in food and drink it is rare and they really hate it when people leave their trash to be cleaned up! Can you imagine?
Look forward to hearing how you're doing
Vicki
What are your coffee shop expectations?
Vicki-Pleeeease share any suggestions your friend can pass along! Yesterday, two young men came into our cafe toting a large green cooler and TOLD me (they did not ask for assistance or request my permission) that they were going to be leaving their large cooler in the cafe while they were studying in the library for most of the day. WHAT? We find that more and more folks consider the library as a dining destination -bringing their own food and drinks, or provisions in the case of these two men.
SIlly me, but my first thought when I leave KFC (as if!) with my dinner bucket IS NOT "Hey, let's eat this in the Connections Cafe at the Tempe Library!" Help-any comments and suggestions are welcomed!
As for sanitizing...yeah, we know:) -makes us better consumers if that's all that it does. Continued good luck to you and your exciting venture-do keep me posted...I'll be sending the picnic folks packing til we chat again!! Julie
What are your coffee shop expectations?
Julie,
Thanks for all your comments. I too have used the health department to discourage folks from bringing in outside items. However, when I checked with them the other day I learned they HAVE NO REGULATIONS regarding restaurant seating and tables. They recommend that the tables are cleaned and sanitized a minimum of every 4 hours! Consumers beware! Can you believe that? Behind that counter I practically have to wash my hands every minute and sanitize everything with bleach water after each use, but hey after it leaves the counter you all are on your own! It also turns out that my insurance already covers the outdoor and indoor seating areas so I will meet with the library to see how I can get those tables in the lease for as little money as possible. They are extremely interested in our success and I think are somewhat disappointed in the folks who said "if you build it we will be there". Not that we are struggling but I think that allowing people to bring in food and drink is very detrimental to what I'm trying to accomplish here. I will meet with them next week and keep you posted. For the most part if I ask people to leave they do so as they consider the library tables are something of a picnic ground. They do not know that I pay the library rent, how else would it work? There is another library coffee shop not far away and I know the owner, she has the same problem and I'm going to give her a call and see how she is handling this situation.
TTFN
Vicki
What are your coffee shop expectations?
Hi Vicki-Oh boy do I have a few comments about the outside food and drink!! Since we are located inside the public library there are food and drink restrictions already in place re: maintaining clean surfaces for computer use, books, and study areas. However, once some folks enter the cafe space all bets seem to be off! We have had entire families come in toting their Taco Bell items, fried chicken and even a 6pack of brewskies! We do have signs posted that are pretty blunt in stating "No outside food please" but ...?! I do try to gently remind folks that the Maricopa County Board of Health makes the rules and we must follow them. I do offer these folks a table on outdoor patio but as we approach the AZ summer weather that becomes less of an option. Perhaps that solves a bit of the problem for us. Making the Board of Health the"bad guy" does seem to work with most folks.....so far!
Our Library is beginning to undergo renovation of the lower level which houses, among other things, the entire children's area. This area has been relocated to just near our Cafe and means that we now have to become more family-friendly...and that opens up other cans of worms...but also, how do I handle the mom of the toddler with the little box of Cheerios? That IS outside foood, right? I am a mother myself so I have compassion for the situation...best thing for us is to create a "Kid's Cafe" area with smaller furniture and a kid's menu from the items we already stock...or at least that's the idea so far.
To answer your question about our business structure, I can tell you that we are funded by the Friends of the Tempe Library-see their website also. I do know that we also have grant monies from the Virginia Piper trust...but never enough!!! We do also have non-profit status but I am not sure how those details work.
I hope this info is helpful-got a little long winded! Have a great weekend! J.
What are your coffee shop expectations?
Julie, I did check your site and congratulate you on your success. I am interested in how your business is structured. Currently I pay rent to the library and have to pay insurance, to the tune of $1600 + per year, on the space that I rent which is less than 600 square feet. There are six tables just outside my facility and 4 tables outdoors that are not included in the rent. Several times since opening people have brought in food and drinks that have been purchased outside of my business. Lately I have put signs on the tables stating that they are for Cafe del Sol Coffee & Tea patrons only and that product from other sources can be consumed inside the library. I have had a positive response to these signs as customers think it is rude for people to bring food and drinks into areas that I maintain. I have also asked people to take their food elsewhere. Legally I have no right to do this as these are not included in the rent. To include them would be a huge increase, possibly not in rent, but in insurance cost. I feel food and drink being brought to tables that I maintain is rude and extremely detrimental to my business as I offer these items also. Any thoughts or comments on this?
What are your coffee shop expectations?
Vicki-Glad to hear from you. Log on to our website at www.tempeconnections.org to see our menu, etc. I currently have a staff of 9 super people of all ages and backgrounds but with great customer service skills in common. We have been in operation for 3 years on May 19th and welcome any suggestions for ways to celebrate beyond a big old cake and coffee special:) Keep the questions coming! J.
What are your coffee shop expectations?
Julie,
Vicki here! I would be very interested to know what you serve in your coffee shop. We have good loyal customers and all say they appreciate our being there. How many people do you have on staff? To many questions!
Vicki
What are your coffee shop expectations?
Just found this site and wanted to respond to the folks opening a coffee shop in the public library. I have been managing our Cafe inside the Tempe Public Library, Tempe AZ since August 2008. Maybe you have moved on in your business and decided to try other things...may not even see my comments ...wanted you to know that we have had great success and hear from our friendly customers daily how appreciative they are that we are here in the Library and wish others would consider doing the same thing. Good luck!
What are your coffee shop expectations?
It sounds like it's a small place, but for me, my advice would be to invest in good staff. Just because a 16 year old can pull some espresso, doesn't mean he or she can interact with the customers. I don't want flaky service, I don't want giggling employees who nominally pay attention to me while talking with each other. I love the idea of a daily quiz, first five people who answer correctly receive a free cup of coffee, or something to that effect. Hire genuinely friendly people without attitudes who are knowledgeable about coffee and not pretentious, and you'll have people coming back time and again.
What are your coffee shop expectations?
I know this sounds obvious, but some places only serve milk in their coffee and I hate milk. It has to be light cream or half and half or I will not go back. Also, if you have a self serve station to put in your own cream/sugar, please make sure it's well stocked. I hate going into a place and not a drop of cream is left for me to put into my cup.
What are your coffee shop expectations?
This coffee shop is my business. Yesterday a meal, none of it purchased from me, was consumed at tables that I clean and maintain, also sandwiches were consumed and several people walked in with beverages purchased elsewhere. I serve all of these products that could easily have been procured at our location. Now, lets pretend you HeartofGlass, are the owner of my place. You pay employees minimum wage (yes they do need tips). I have just come into your place with a friend and my friend gets a cookie for $1 and I have brought in my own PB & J sandwich, which you can also make for me. I sit there with my friend and use your table, your internet, your napkins and ask you for a glass of ice water to go. How long can you stay in business when you have rent to pay and $50,000 in equipment as well as product to purchase that you hope to sell and employees to pay, utilities etc. After I have lingered a few hours using the net, I decide to leave and now you have clean up the table I used and sweep up the crumbs from the floor where I dropped my sandwich. By the way I also used your bathroom so you need to go clean that up also.
I would be interested in knowing how you keep this business viable.
Vicki
What are your coffee shop expectations?
This is the Internet so I will be honest:
1. You say you will evict people who make negligible purchases. What if I don't want something, but I am with a friend who does? You will lose my friend's business if we both decide not to come in, as a result of your no freeloading policy. Also, what if I just buy a cookie one day or plain coffee because my friend wants a sandwich but I have my own pbj--do I not get kicked out but a single person with a coffee does? Do you kick out me but not my friend? What if I want a sandwich one day, a cookie the next--if I get kicked out because my purchase is deemed negligible I am not coming back for anything.
This is a coffee shop, not a restaurant.
2. I hate tip cups with cute phrases like 'money for tuition.'
What are your coffee shop expectations?
I'm thinking also of adopting a waitress/waiter style for awhile. Put menus on the tables and have approach customers at tables to see what they'd like to order. I think they'd get the message. Since our place is so small delivering the order to the table is no problem.
Also, lately the tips have been poor. We need a campy statement to put on the tip jar (ex. Tips for poorly paid baristas!) Something to get attention. By waiting on tables more tips might be left.
Vicki
FYI: We will make you a fresh drip coffee any time. I use the melitta cones. (This for chardonnay who might request this at the current coffee shop) Right now we just place then on top of the cups but if we overfill we don't notice. I know I can get a drip station but they are obnoxiously expensive, take up a lot of room and usually require drainage.
What are your coffee shop expectations?
Even more effective might be a sign on the door or near the entrance that says "no outside food and drink". I know this seems a little off-putting, but in my experience, if someone has already walked in and found a table they want to sit at, they will ignore table tent signs. Good luck with this!
What are your coffee shop expectations?
@Vicki...yes, I would put table tents or some other signage indicating that at least the tables inside the shop are for shop patrons. You may have to 'police' the area for a bit...but after awhile people will get used to it. If they need further explanation, perhaps pointing out to them that if you don't make any money the tables will not be available because the doors to your coffee shop will be closed may be necessary.
Good luck!
What are your coffee shop expectations?
Even though it's been posted several times already, good fresh hot coffee. The last 3 times that I have been out to eat my coffee was served to me luke warm. It's such a turn off. I usually have my lunch around 3 pm and it seems that after the lunch rush places just either forget to make fresh coffee or they just don't care.
What are your coffee shop expectations?
Update on the new location!
Thought I'd pop in with an update on how things are going.
Most of the suggestions above had and will continue to be implemented. We opened the first part of December 2008. Business is continuing to grow and we intend to offer afternoon tea on Sundays.
While nearly all is good the one major dilemma I must now deal with is freeloading. The footprint of my shop is very small, less than 600 square feet. The library provides outside seating and seating in the lobby outside my shop. I maintain tables that the library provides for me. My only responsibility to those areas are keeping the tables clean.
The dilemma comes with people bringing their own food into ALL of the space.
Let me go back a bit. When coffee shops became popular they were something of a unique phenomena. Now we have gourmet coffee being served at every convenience store (similar to mine? NO!) Pushing a button on a machine and having every ingredient magically appear in the cup is not what we do here! Starbucks and Caribou on every corner and all good restaurants in town serving great product, mostly ours! Competition has increased within the business so I feel the need to offer more. We do offer fresh baked goods every day, they are purchased in frozen batter form and we bake them. Also have smoothies, ice cream and we do make fresh sandwiches and soup. Will stop the soup soon and make salads.
People bring in their own food and drinks and use the tables inside and outside that I maintain, they even bring their stuff into my small space. Sometimes no purchase is made and many times the purchase is insignificant (water, a cookies)
Would it be prudent for me to place signs on the tables stating that they are for coffee shop patrons?
People are allowed to take food and drinks into the library and they can play card games or majong (sorry, spelling!) at the tables inside the library.
Help is requested please!
Vicki
Sandra Lee
She's a hack and a snake-oil salesman. Sometimes her "russipees" do have potential, but then she'll add something ridiculous to them, making them sickeningly inedible.
But I have to watch. I don't hate her per se - I just see her for what she is and watch her for the snark value. That's pretty much all her show is worth.
Sandra Lee
I just found this site and am glad I found other people who can't stand her show. I have only seen a few episodes but from what I've seen it's all tripe. When she does finish something she says "Your family will LOVE this!" but doesn't even taste her own food!! Every other food show I watch (and I am addicted to Food Network) the cook always tastes their cooking. The ONLY thing I've seen her taste is her drinks!
I've looked at her recipes and I have never tried them because they look and sound disgusting and when a cook can't even stand by their cooking to even taste it and pretend they're not trying to vomit, then why should I bother giving them ratings?
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I also have to spread the mayo or mustard evenly over the entire sandwich touching all sides, but one or the other, never mustard and mayo together, that's just wrong. Also, and I guess this is pretty weird, I love tomatoes but detest the seeds, they're slimy and gross, so I have to completely deseed a tomato before it goes on my sandwich.