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Having dumpstered at Traders a bit in my time, I can tell you that it's real easy to tell whether or not something has shit or vomit all over it. If it looks or smells weird, THEN YOU DON'T EAT IT. Wild. It's not as if you're required to eat every thing you find. I always cook everything thoroughly (and don't eat meat anyways) and I've never gotten ill. There's a tremendous amount of food at Trader Joe's where most goods are very packaged and perfectly good stuff gets returned all the time because people didn't like it.
It's amazing how angry people can get, though, over something that they've already thrown away. A man once yelled at us that he works hard for his money, to feed his family, he doesn't just expect someone to hand him food. Then he went on to tell us how disgusting we were for eating trash. It's either food or trash, sir, make up your mind. It's the same kind of belly-quaking irrational anger racists or homophobes have when people of their class sacrifice privilege to be "low".

This tiny place in Chicago called Yummy Yummy makes a smoky, crispy Twice Cooked Wheat Gluten dish that is near perfection.

In all seriousness, chocolate fondue. Kind of kitschy, a little sticky and oh-so-intimate. Also, chocolate and berries and cake? Also, back when I ate meat, I found that a seared tuna steak was sexier and sat better than a rich cream sauce or a big chunk of red meat.

I really like the way chisai put it (and a couple of other posters touched on it as well), that a conflict over food just keeps coming up. I think I could tolerate our totally divergent tastes in music, because that only comes up every other day or so when we are in a car together. But he will not eat any vegetables except spinach cooked until it is dark, he doesn't like any type of Asian or long noodle, he won't eat yogurt, he doesn't like baked or mashed potatoes, tomatoes, avocado, olives, beans or tofu (and I am a vegetarian), he doesn't eat fruit and doesn't like "fruit in desserts" (he turned his nose up at a lemon cake!). I'm getting really tired of making pigs in a blanket, macaroni and cheese and gnocchi.
The other night I made barbecue tofu, buttermilk biscuits, a simple green salad with a vinaigrette and roasted baby brussel sprouts. He ate four biscuits.
Any ideas of what I can feed him?

I'm struggling with this right now as well, I fantasize about food constantly, hate ordering the same thing at a restaurant, ever, and read cookbooks while I eat. He would be happy eating frozen pizzas or going to the same diner every night. I don't think he'd believe me if I told him that was the reason we had to break up.