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Dinner Tonight: Patty Melt
Friendly's, people. Friendly's. Best patty melt ever.
Who Likes Grape Soda?
Love, love, love fruit sodas. I've weaned myself off non-diet soda after 39 years, now I'm a Coke Zero drinker.
But when I want a treat? I reach for a Welch's.
And if they still made Strawberry soda, I'd reach for that too.
RIP Welch's Strawberry. You are much missed.
My Pizza Oven: Mark Wilkie, Windsor Terrace, Brooklyn
Oh. My. GOD!!!
Must get husband to DO THIS!!
What an amazing and delightful project! Good for them, I bet the neighborhood smells great!
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Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
I, too, must have crazy salt-needs. My bloody marys involve V8 and beef consomme AND celery salt! A real ankle-sweller, that drink right there.
Lemon juice, Trappey's (no Tabasco in this house, thanks much), Worchestershire (push the mary into The Brown Zone) and metric tons of horseradish round it out. I like a fun garnish. I'll settle for celery (LEAFY PLEEZ!) but squeal at the prospect of a tomolive or a pickled string bean.
When feeling frisky, I'll sub wasabi for the horseradish and lose the Trappy's. Nice zing.
Dinner Tonight: Patty Melt
Friendly's, people. Friendly's. Best patty melt ever.
Who Likes Grape Soda?
Love, love, love fruit sodas. I've weaned myself off non-diet soda after 39 years, now I'm a Coke Zero drinker.
But when I want a treat? I reach for a Welch's.
And if they still made Strawberry soda, I'd reach for that too.
RIP Welch's Strawberry. You are much missed.
My Pizza Oven: Mark Wilkie, Windsor Terrace, Brooklyn
Oh. My. GOD!!!
Must get husband to DO THIS!!
What an amazing and delightful project! Good for them, I bet the neighborhood smells great!
Limited Edition Strawberried Peanut Butter and Coconut M&Ms
Strawberry Peanut Butter? Big no. COCONUT!?
BIG YES!!!
Nutella vs. Gianduia vs. Generic Brand Hazelnut Spreads
I'm a total sucker for Nutella, but I tried all four of Le Pain Quotidien's nut spreads at a hotel recently (seriously: four croissants. Four spreads. LOVES me some continental breakfast!) and I think I've been converted.
Announcing The 2009 Vendy Award Finalists
Forget Rickshaw. Who cares about Rickshaw? ENOUGH with the Rickshaw! Let's talk about the King of Falafel!
It warms my heart to see The King nominated for a Vendy! That chicken/rice platter is to die for-- and huge! But the falafel is simply perfect...and CHEAP! he's a neighborhood staple. Don't know what I'd do without him. GO KING!!
Photo of the Day: The Honey Bear Stare Down
OMG that's the creepiest thing I've ever seen. It's like Chucky but a honeybear. A Chuckybear.
(crap. I've been known to keep PB in the cupboard for upwards of a year...am I going to die? From peanut butter, I mean.)
Pie Lollipops
This is so boos. I have a tone of rhubarb-strawberry pie filling...This is tomorrow's dessert project!
Foie Gras Jelly Doughnut at Le Pigeon, Portland, Oregon
Holy god.
I don't eat fois gras (no reason other than it skeeves me, as does anything made with organs of any sort) but I think I'd make a fried-fat on fried-fat exception.
Whoa.
The Honor System
Oh, sure! The Catskills in NY are full of them. I've got zucchini 5 minutes by bike in one direction and corn five minutes in the other. And after the corn, apples. Big folding tables with a coffee can for cash.
A friend recently discovered a local honor shack sporting homemade gouda! I'm DYING to visit that one!!
Serious Green: Turn Your Lawn Into an Edible Garden
At home in upstate NY we have a pretty massive backyard, although very little of it is flat. My veggie garden is up there, about 40x15. It's failing due to the horrendous weather we've been having, and honestly, the all-day sunshine is in the front.
We've been thinking of taking the veggies forward. No neighbors could possibly mind, and if they did I wouldn't care. We're lazy with lawncare ("lawncare" to us means mowing every two weeks and never watering), so actually they may prefer it!
I'm excited to check out these links! Thanks!
Photo of the Day: Homemade Yogurt With Strawberry-Rhubarb Compote
@dmarina you can definitely make raw milk yogurt, but you have to watch the temperature very closely. I found some instructions online a few months ago.
Egg in Toast: What Do You Call It?
My Mom always called this (my favorite breakfast EVER!) eggy-in-a-hole, but for some reason by the time I was in college I picked up the name "Gaslight Special" from a roommate.
Weird.
In Season: Rhubarb
YAY! Rhubarb! The only edible thing that grows in my garden without ANY assistance from me WHATSOEVER!
SO psyched to see all these recipes here! I already have 10 jars of rhubarb-strawberry vanilla jam under my belt and the damn plant looks as if I never touched it!
I NEED MORE RECIPES!!
Dijon Mustard/Grey Poupon Is Not Elitist
Yellow mustard is for sad people who cry themselves to sleep at night because they don't possess functioning tastebuds.
BOOOOO yellow mustard!
Get down with the brown!
(and Dijon is fine, too)
'F*** Yeah, Cilantro'
I am glad to be genetically predisposed to loving Cilantro. It goes EVERYWHERE!!!!
A Beginner's Guide to Passover Coke
PASSOVER COKE! PASSOVER COKE! It's time for PASSOVER COKE!
As a lifelong New Yorker, I look forward to Passover as much as I look forward to Halloween and Easter.
My only religion is Pure. Cane. Sugar.
Suuuuuugaaarrrrrrrrr.
Fancy Restaurants Should Implement an Early 'Baby Seating'
You're not missing any pages, anwoodward, and in no way do I think that parenting and dining out are mutually exclusive. Nor do I think that anyone here actually believes that childless people are entitled to a higher level of dining comfort than parents.
For you to imply that waiters simply have to suck it up because they made the choice to be waiters but parents don't have to suck it up and forgo restaurants with $40 entrees for a couple of years even though they made the choice to be parents is pretty silly. Hence my follow-up.
Mr. Brooks' post inquires about a seemingly simple solution to a personal problem: dude misses really good restaurants. That's all this is really about.
Your comment, on the other hand, opens the whole can of ugly worms regarding the rights of parents and how they seem to differ from the rights on the childless.
Not touching that any further. Food, restaurants=yes. Modern cultural attitudes toward parenting? No thanks.
Fancy Restaurants Should Implement an Early 'Baby Seating'
To anwoodward: For an answer to your first question, please refer to the answer you gave for your second. That is to say, you've made your choice. And there it is.
Some choose to be waiters.
Some choose to be parents.
Choices have consequences.
Fancy Restaurants Should Implement an Early 'Baby Seating'
Ooof. Touchy subject. As a non-parent and a non-fine-diner I have to say I'm torn. There are good points on both sides. Seemingly, it would be a great way for restaurants tap into a new market, but on the other hand I would absolutely freak out (internally, quietly, glaringly, seethingly) if I had made a reservation at a high end restaurant -- something I never really get to do-- and was seated next a stroller with a screeching baby. I'd be livid in a way I never would be were I eating at, say, Grand Empire Szechuan. There's something about that scale of dining that says "Adults Only". It's a combination of the prices, the type of food (that most little kids wouldn't touch) and the ambiance.
That being said, four-month-olds are pretty quiet critters unless they're crying about something. The kind of something that can likely be solved table-side like wanting to be fed or hugged or changed (okay...that last one isn't for table-side, exactly, but you know what I mean). And the bonus is that they're also small enough to be easily whisked away if crying persists. AND they're too little to leave a Cheerios Trail.
Past six months, though, the babbling and volume-testing starts up, along with the Cheerios. Even though I'll agree that baby babbling is one of the World's Best Sounds, I don't want it near my $$$ dinner.
To the commenter above, before you figure that "...it's only to a restaurant's advantage to do this...", think again: let's say there's a hot new NYC restaurant and I'm a tourist wanting to go to said restaurant so I can go home to wherever and brag about the experience. My hotel is in the neighborhood so I walk by to check it out and make a reservation. It's 5:30 and all I see are strollers. I flip through my Zagat's for a new hot spot.
All I'm saying is it's a risk either way. Few early seatings? Your restaurant is at risk. Strive to fill up with the stroller set, potentially alienating your base? Risk.
Dinner Tonight: Roast Chicken with Spicy Hoisin Glaze
We're all condiment addicts. You can never have enough sauce!
Time for a Drink: Milk Punch
Not waiting till Christmas for this one. I think I'll have one now!
Employee Resigns via Letter Written in Frosting on Cake
That is freakin' fabulous.
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
Many years ago, my husband asked his cousin for his personal recipe for a Bloody Mary because it was the best we had ever tasted. He sent us his recipe on the email and I've been making my version of it ever since.
His had key lime juice, Angostura Bloody Mary seasoning (a liquid like their bitters) and both V-8 juice and Clamato juice in it. I ran out of Clamata awhile back so I've been using V-8 and Sacramento Tomato Juice and they have been really good.
I switch off the hot sauces and try different ones each time. He uses a local one down in FL that we can't get up here without ordering through the internet so I use different favorite ones. I have a whole collection of hot sauces (over 80 bottles at this point) so I try a different one every time.
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
Aquavit - I agree! but not all the time.
Got off of tabasco - and using Frank's hot sauce now.
Definitely olives -- and please no celery, thank you very much
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
Absolut Peppar vodka and plain tomato juice. The vodka adds all the spice needed.
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
HORSERADISH---the strength depends on the age. If it's old , it's weak, fresh, it's strong. I feel you should taste it before using! Strong horseradish in a Bloody Mary is what really makes it! Dave
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
Thanx to all for the Bloody recipes. I haven't had a good one since I quit cruising! RCCL used to have the best ones ever (but I'm sure they came from a "mix"). I'll have to try each one here and find the best. Thanx again!
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
My recipe for the mix:
1TB worcestershire
1TB lemon juice
1/2tsp crystal hot sauce
1/2tsp horseradish
1/2tsp celery seed (NOT celery salt)
8 ounces of V8
season salt for the rim of the glass
add the blended vodka and mix to the glass,
then grind black pepper on top.
stalk of leafy celery for the garnish
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
I, too like Svedka as a reasonably-priced but respectable vodka. The big one goes for $18 at the local Costco. (Or you can pay Jewel $25, if that makes you feel good.)
In this vein, did others see the article in the "Weekend" section of the WSJ that described how many of the makers of premium-priced, designer vodkas produced their pricey masterpieces? They start with a RR tank car or tank-truck load of industrial-grade beverage alcohol (97 proof) from Archer-Daniels-Midland and cut that with some kind of fancy water (melted iceberg ice, anyone?) an arty-farty label, a tricky name, and a price to impress the fashion-conscious.
You know who you are.
I'm gonna try some of the suggestions here, including the horseradish, the Sriracha, the aquavit, the cilantro, the celery salt, and the Clamato.
Maybe not all at once, though.
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
I'll try the cilantro but currently I'm all about:
Veggie juice
Svedka vodka (good quality but not too expensive that it's a shame)
Sodium reduced soy (not so salty)
horseradish
lime
Carribean hot pepper sauce (puts Tobasco to shame)
Cheers to a Sunday morning!
Dinner Tonight: Patty Melt
This is my favorite grilled sandwich!
I used to eat them at Astro's, in Los Angeles. (The one on Santa Monica Blvd.) They do not use Swiss cheese, but as I cannot eat it anyway, that was fine. I ordered them with their unbelievable onion rings...large, homemade, and served in a generous portion.
To make them at home, I'd go to Canter's deli on Fairfax, and get the rye bread from their bakery section, (It wasn't always easy to find a good rye, once upon a time, at least where I was.) and then pretty much make them as instructed above. Mmmmm! :)
For those who mentioned bison, I switched to it several years ago, and buy the meat from a local ranch. I don't care for the pre-ground, so have been grinding all of my own meat since the 80's, and don't find the bison we eat too dry to form into patties which hold together. I use sirloin steaks/roasts the most often, and use a heavy-duty food processor with the metal blade. Perhaps you would have better luck grinding your own, too?
Patty melts are on the menu for Friday....I can barely wait! :)
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
Oh yummy -- all these recipes are making me really want one right now! And I'm in total agreement with the morning/afternoon-only people. I guess it's still afternoon!
I like V-8 or Clamato, but I add my own spice. Worcestershire, Tabasco, lime juice, celery salt, black pepper, no horseradish please. Usually go for a pepper vodka but can't wait to try the gin. Has anyone tried the Tabasco tequila for a Bloody Maria? It's not bad.
Garnishes -- absolutely! We call it "salad" instead. Pickled green beans, pickled okra (guess it's a Louisiana thing), green olives stuffed with ... well ... anything, and a celery stalk with a wide bottom to scoop out the olives. A rim of celery salt or a special Worcestershire/salt mixture adds a kick, too.
BTW, an oyster IN a Bloody Mary is divine! Shrimp, too. Yes, the glasses are enormous!
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
Bloody Mary's are my Saturday gameday staple. I follow a similar recipe, but I include dashes of both lemon and lime juice, go heavy on the horseradish, several dashes of Cholula (so not a Tobasco fan) and a few dashes of celery salt and cayenne, because I like mine extra super spicy. I garnish with a celery stalk, of course, but some olives as well. Oh, and heck no to using V-8 - gross. Real tomato juice all the way.
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
Bloody Mary’s are traditionally "rolled" (pouring the drink from shaker to shaker) instead of shaking due to the viscosity of the tomato juice. This will incorporate all the ingredients without overly aerating the tomato juice.
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
@NorrinRazael--Only because when you're using a shaker, its easier to just go from one glass to the other than it is to stir it. It just takes one time from glass to glass to do the job. And I emphasize the matter because so few bartenders do it this way that I either have to specifically ask them to do it, or spill all over when I order one. And it's especially difficult when the thing is garnished all to hell.
Dinner Tonight: Patty Melt
i think it needs sauerkraut!
Dinner Tonight: Patty Melt
I used to get one whenever I stopped at a HoJo's (used to be plentiful along the nation's highways). I've also had some good ones in local NYC diners. But the best are the ones I make at home! Yum.
Yes, there is nothing to add. they are perfection as-is. I do like to dip mine in ketchup however, dipping as I eat. But since the NYTimes expose on commercially ground meat, I will only eat ground meat I grind myself, so good-bye road-burgers of any kind.
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
I like mine as a Caesar, actually.
Swap out the tomato juice for delicious clamato juice (much more complex savoury flavour) and add a nice rim of celery salt. Keep the 'worster and the tabasco, garnish any way you please (I like olives) and you've got a lovely Sunday morning. In Canada.
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
The best part of a bloody mary is how versatile the basics are. Tomato juice, liquor, seasoning, and spice. in any combo, with some swap outs, and garnishes it's a drink for all occasions.
I make these a lot. My last one was tomato juice, lime, vodka, celery seed, Worcestershire sauce, tabasco, and a beefstick.
I've made it swapping out the worcestershire for clam juice and the beef stick for shrimp. Or swapping tabasco for horseradish and gardinera. There's just so much you can do.
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
One glass to another sounds fine, but if the problem is frothy tomato juice, whatever happened to just stirring vs. shaking? And I mean in the shaker, not the glass in which you're serving the drink.
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
MAN, only this site can make me salivate while i'm home on a saturday night w/ a nasy little stomach bug...i LOVE gin. someone said cilantro - never had it, but me wanty. i live in williamsburg brooklyn and a spot right down the ave from me called Enid's makes theres with a long toothpick full of differnet kinds of wonderful little pickles and olives. WONDERFUL. anything else pickled a bonus. in fact, two long toothpicks full of a variety of pickles. this a fantasy right?! another place called double down saloon on ave A in the east village makes theirs with bacon vodka, and a SLIM JIM swizzle stick. i will also steal the slim jim idea and include it in mine, instead! so that is: gin, cilantro, spicy and horeseradishy/blackpepery, pickle explosion, and a meat stick. a-thank-ayou.
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
Try garnishing with pickled Okra & Green Beans. Had it on Burbon Street! Yummy
Time for a Drink: Bloody Mary
Ooo. Bloody mary with cilantro sounds wonderful! I love a bloody mary with oysters - not in the drink, as a dish to eat with the bloody mary, I mean.
Dinner Tonight: Patty Melt
I just finished making this delicious patty melt.... thanks for the nudge to make an old favorite.
Great, simple recipe.
Dinner Tonight: Patty Melt
Coincidentally, I had my first patty melt last night at IHOP. I don't recall hearing of them before, but perhaps this article got into my subconscious. I didn't notice it with my full conscious until today. And by the way, it was really delicious. Can't imagine how I missed it all these years.
Egg in Toast: What Do You Call It?
A Hole in One!!!! My grandfather used to make these for me when I was a very little girl, visiting him in Lancaster, PA. He was not a golfer. He was first-generation American of Swedish descent, who had grown up in Salt Lake City, Utah.
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I, too, must have crazy salt-needs. My bloody marys involve V8 and beef consomme AND celery salt! A real ankle-sweller, that drink right there.
Lemon juice, Trappey's (no Tabasco in this house, thanks much), Worchestershire (push the mary into The Brown Zone) and metric tons of horseradish round it out. I like a fun garnish. I'll settle for celery (LEAFY PLEEZ!) but squeal at the prospect of a tomolive or a pickled string bean.
When feeling frisky, I'll sub wasabi for the horseradish and lose the Trappy's. Nice zing.