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Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
I can't speak for everyone, but I get a little nervous when figuring the tip. Presumably, the amount reflects my satisfaction with the server's performance, but it makes me feel like my performance as a restaurant guest/dining companion is being evaluated, too. I wouldn't mind it at all if the service charge were to be automatically included.
Passover Puff Pastry?
Here's a link to Smitten Kitchen's 17 Passover dessert ideas. Ignore anything that suggests peanuts/peanut butter, though, as some of your guests might not eat legumes during Passover.
http://smittenkitchen.com/2008/04/17-passover-dessert-ideas/#more-487
Passover pasta rules?
Quinoa is kosher for Passover, but I don't know whether quinoa flour would make good pasta.
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She Who Shall Not Be Named...
She's not giving demos at the local WIC center, she's doing a show on the Food Network. The people who will watch the show are paying for the preferred cable package. You could argue that that is a bad financial decision in and of itself, but I think it's silly to suggest that she is somehow harming the poor. There's a fine line between love and hate. I think that some people who complain about Sandra Lee secretly love her, because they clearly spend a lot of time thinking about her.
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
I can't speak for everyone, but I get a little nervous when figuring the tip. Presumably, the amount reflects my satisfaction with the server's performance, but it makes me feel like my performance as a restaurant guest/dining companion is being evaluated, too. I wouldn't mind it at all if the service charge were to be automatically included.
Passover Puff Pastry?
Here's a link to Smitten Kitchen's 17 Passover dessert ideas. Ignore anything that suggests peanuts/peanut butter, though, as some of your guests might not eat legumes during Passover.
http://smittenkitchen.com/2008/04/17-passover-dessert-ideas/#more-487
Passover pasta rules?
Quinoa is kosher for Passover, but I don't know whether quinoa flour would make good pasta.
Rant: 10% Tax on restaurant meals in D.C.!
DC's income tax base is small. Thousands of people come into the District just to work, shop, and dine, and the District has to have some way to fund the services they provide. You could argue that they don't do a good job providing services, but that's a topic for a different blog.
Bissinger's Chocolate Inside a Real Hen's Egg for Easter
I'm guessing that they make pinholes at the top and bottom to remove the yolk and white, then pipe in melted chocolate.
Jacques Torres: 'M&M's and Snickers Bars Rule'
I'd like to meet whoever came up with the Dagoba Beaucoup Berries bar.
'So You're Saying People Will "Tweet" What They Eat for Breakfast?'
No, you're not alone, dineomite.
Oral Surgery - What the heck do I eat?
Oops! Forgot split pea soup and celery root bisque, two soups that I enjoy even when I'm not under doctor's orders.
Oral Surgery - What the heck do I eat?
Last year, I had enough procedures to buy my dentist and periodontist a yacht, so I feel your pain! I was on mush for quite a long time, and after one particularly painful surgical procedure, I was told to keep food particles away from the wound. My standbys included:
Breakfast: Yogurt, ricotta with cinnamon and honey, oatmeal, almond butter off the spoon.
Lunch and dinner: Soft scrambled eggs, applesauce, membrillo (quince paste), brie/other soft cheeses, and pureed soups (tomato, broccoli-cheese, curried cauliflower-chickpea, peanut, pumpkin, maple-chipotle root vegetable, carrot-ginger, mushroom, zucchini-garlic). And, of course, ice cream.
Hope you're feeling better soon!
Did Ina mispronounce something.....
Yes, she mispronounced it sometimes and correctly pronounced it at other times. I also say "en dive" even though I studied French for eight years. I say "mawv" and "tawp" instead of "mohv" and "tohp," too. Some words have become a part of the English language and I pronounce them as such. Since paella is a national dish of Spain, I figure it should be pronounced as it is in Spanish. Just one woman's opinion.
Anyone ever use the Martha Stewart Cast Iron Pot?
I have that very one. I bought it at Macy's when they were selling it for half price, and I bought the display model, so another 10% off (final price $45.00). It works just fine. I wish the lid fit a little more tightly, and I'd prefer a metal handle, but for the price I paid, it seems like an excellent value. In fact, I have a pot of soup going right now.
Fear of Broiling in Gas Oven
I wish I had one that's on the top, like on Rachael Ray's 30 Minute Meals set. When I open the broiler door, it sits right on the floor. It's really difficult to see what's happening, even if I'm on my knees. I rarely use it.
Chef Tell -- does anyone remember him?
Forgot to mention -- he did segments on Evening Magazine, which I believe was called PM Magazine in some television markets.
Chef Tell -- does anyone remember him?
Sure, I remember him. He always recommended eating "vedge-TEB-bles" with "a little salt and a little pebba."
Girl Scout Cookies - New Cookie - Dulce De Leche
@dbcurrie, you have leftover Thin Mints? I thought that was an oxymoron!
Cook the Book: Le Bernardin’s 'Crab Cakes' with Shaved Cauliflower and Dijon Mustard Emulsion
I was thinking that it's in quotes because it isn't actually formed into a cake.
Cook the Book: 'On the Line'
Crabs, steamed, with Old Bay
As spring approaches, what do you crave?
Pencil-thin asparagus and green garlic.
Valentine's Day Giveaway: Macarons from Itzy Bitzy Patisserie
Chocolate with caramel filling
Seriously Delicious Holiday Giveaway: Two Peter Luger Steaks
NY strip, definitely!
Seriously Delicious Holiday Food Giveaway: Russ & Daughters
Scrambled eggs with lox and onions
Presumptuous
It's not about the food. If you order wine in a crowd of Pabst Blue Ribbon-drinkers, they will think you're passing judgment on them for drinking beer. If you say, "I'll call you when I get home from the gym," you're passing judgment on those who don't work out. Many people are extremely insecure and will find a way to take offense at things that have nothing to do with them. It's not your fault, but your boyfriend may have been stewing over a series of "insults" and decided he just couldn't hold back anymore. The merits of his argument (if there are any) are beside the point. Maybe he just needs some reassurance that you're not looking down on him and his family because they're not foodies.
What childhood food do you wish they still made?
Oh, man, I thought I had blocked out my Gatorade Gum cravings!
What childhood food do you wish they still made?
I miss bbq munchos, planters cheeseballs (there is another brand available now in a large container that are good but...) and morton raspberry filled powdered donuts. Oh, those were the days.
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
So I didn't see the last post, and I haven't read all the comments, but it's a topic that depends on the situation, imo. If it was a large group of people, I would ask again, because that does eat up a lot of one waitress's time. I dined at a nice little place with a friend a few months back, and it was my second time there (pretty sure the waiters recognized me). I had tipped well the first time, as it was a great experience, and the second time, my friend and I completely miscalculated the tip. My waiter came back around and asked us if everything was ok. It was a bit awkward, but I'm glad he did ask, because he deserved more than the $3 we had somehow managed to leave.
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
I think the whole idea of tipping is ridiculous: do you tip the toll collector for taking your money? Do you tip the gas man for reading your meter? Do you tip your IT guy for fixing your computer? Of course not. Now, obviously, they don't live on tips. GUESS WHAT: NEITHER SHOULD WAITERS! How insane is it that a customer has to pay basically twice: for the food and for the service? Can you imagine if we had to tip UPS person for delivering the package to your house? Here's another tidbit: are the dishes heavier at T.G.I. Fridays than they are in a fancy steakhouse with $100+ dishes? Where do you come off with a sense of entitlement to a $20 tip just because the food was $100, whereas at Fridays a $20 plate would only get a $4 tip? If restaurant you work at charges that much for food, let them pay you! Enough is enough!
Is Chocolate a Health Food?
I can only speak from my own experience. Been eating dark chocolate 70%++ for about a year now. My cholesterol level came way down. Don't know if dark chocolate is "the" key factor. But it might have helped. At least, it can't hurt!
Oral Surgery - What the heck do I eat?
i just got all four wisdom teeth taken out yesterday and i made a zucchini casserole without the cracker crust for supper last night. it was really good and surprisingly easy to eat without that gross mushy taste.. just make sure you bowl the squash/zucchini nice and soft don't over cook it in the oven. the more cheese, the better!
tonight for dinner i'm planning on making either hamburger pie (hamburger, mashed potatoes, green beans, etc.) with really finely ground hamburger or a bubble up pizza, which is a pizza made with soft thick bread and tons of cheese. if either one doesn't work i'll let you know, but so far i'm definately not stuck with soup and jello and the only thing that's been painful to eat was mint chocolate chip ice cream. you just gotta do a little research. : ]
get better soon everybody!
victoriaa.
Skyr yogurt
I love Fage, but I am trying to be objective.
So I bought Skyr and found it too creamy and sour. Fage is more cheesy and firm.
I tried to buy Siggi's, but it's $2.39 at Whole Foods, while Skyr is $1.99. Whole Foods couldn't tell me why. So could you tell me why Siggi's is actually worth 40 cents more than either Skyr or Fage? Thanks!
What childhood food do you wish they still made?
does anyone else remember "Milkshake" candy bars. Tasted like a chocolate malt.Also a Japanese hard candy in a round red tin. We used to call it umeboshi candy.
Anyone ever use the Martha Stewart Cast Iron Pot?
Mine just chipped last night. I've had it since Christmas and have probably used it 15 times or so. I'm very nice to it; no high heat, hand wash, no other pots are stored in it, wooden utensils. I noticed under the ratings that a few others have had the same issue. It was so nice before this. It has a limited lifetime warranty, so I'll try and get a new one.
In Videos: Elyse Sewell Eating Live Octopus in Seoul
i love live octopus.. but like janough... i only like the cut up pieces.. put it in some vinegar hot pepper paste.... and u'r set to go... i think they might serve this at places in Flushing....
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
Tip is left for service which means full-service, as opposed to self-service, right? Even if the server is not what you want or expect, if he/she walked back and forth so you can just sit at your table, shouldn't the server get the minimum 15% unless there are mistakes on the server's part (not the kitchen's)? We expect so much from servers at restaurants, yet accept lousy service everywhere else.
San Francisco Restaurant Charges for Water Filtration
How little people know! A simple filtration, carbonation and chilling unit for a small restaurant that will take the crap out of your water and leave it fresh tasting with all of its minerals intact costs about $500 a month (with additional charges for bottles or carafes beyond a certain amount that are supplied with the unit). The unit cost for a restaurant that sells 500 bottles a month will be a dollar per bottle, and this does not include the labor involved in washing and sanitizing the bottles or carafes for reuse, for storing the bottles ready for use and for filling the bottles on demand (which takes about 15 seconds per bottle). Additionally there is the space that the unit will take up (about the size of a two group espresso machine), the space that the bottles will take up, the cost of UV bulb replacement, the cost of CO2 for carbonation and the cost for electricity to chill the water.
IN view of the above the idea that this, because it is merely water, should come free is absurd and is the product of a culture that still has not come to grips with the precious and tenuous nature of our relationships with the environment and each other. On the other hand, no establishemnt should deny a patron a glass of filthy and unhealthy tap water if that is the patron's preference.
Kosher-for-Passover Coke and Pepsi Are Back!
I was so excited when my husband told me he saw Pepsi throwback in our local supermarket. I just bought a bottle at Walgreen's. It is awesome! Since me and my husband don't eat anything with HFCS i was really missing soda, and this gave me a chance to have some! I really hope i can find more....as i hope to get a few extra to keep for when i have a soda craving! Thanks to Pepsi and Coke for making these....not only for our Jewish friends, but for people like me who refrain from eating HFCS!
She Who Shall Not Be Named...
I'm allergic to soy. I can't eat any of her recipes anyhow. I do, however, appreciate her marketing - very smart.
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
I just wanted to offer some appreciation for this post. I have had a similar experience, where, after paying, my tip would have been $1 on a $60+ order. I returned the dollar "change" to the table even though they said "no change," and they were shocked and shelled out more money. It happens, and I see no reason why someone shouldn't approach their table if they believe that a mistake has happened.
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
WOW, I feel seriously misinformed. Although, I always tip good, even when I shouldn't, this is what I thought happened in most restaurants. I thought everyone got minimum wage. I thought all the tips were collected and split between all the staff ie; dishwasher, cook etc. I never thought this was good because, a good server deserves more than a bad server, and this spliting up the tips, to me, didn't seem condusive to make a better server out of some of them. Where did I get this idea? Also, do you as a server have to claim tips, and pay taxes on them? This doesn't seem fair to me either, if it's true. I would love some real answers to these myths.
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
I'm glad there's no rules about gratuity, I've had some great service, then i've had some nightmare services. I love it when the server knows his food, wine, and even gives us some of his personal recommendations from the menu.
Then there's the flip side, clueless servers, and you can tell they are dying to go home. I have been waited on with the server talking on his CELL PHONE! Yeah, I'm going to tip you for talking to your friend during service. NO WAY! We have witnessed arguing about who's tables are getting people between staff (yes in front of customers), whine about how tired they are, has a short-term memory, and look miserable to be at work in general. No, uh uh, no reward for that. If I behaved like that at my job, I'd be fired! It's not a pleasant experience so why should I even bother tipping.
Honey attracts more bees, even if you gotta fake it. For an awesome service all around, I don't mind overtipping, I have given 25-30%. But for a mediocre service, why bother.
The best service is the waitstaff that take their job seriously, and know their stuff! Because how you feel about your job always reflects your performance.
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
I find this whole debate rather interesting. I do not think that the tip should be added in to the bill. Traditionally a tip is something extra that is given for good service. Unfortunately too often, it is expected, there is a sense of entitlement to the tip. As a former server, I was initially trained on how to serve properly. It always amazes me when a server never returns to see who the meal was? There are some servers who will only return larger bills instead of breaking down the change. Give and you shall receive. If your performance is outstanding you will be rewarded as such. However I firmly believe that tipping for bad service is akin to rewarding for bad behavior.
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
Your article reminded me of the time I went to a restaurant a few years ago when I left $0.00 tip on a $200+ bill. I am usually a good tipper (at least 15%, more if service was extraordinarily good). But the combination of my alcohol-induced haze, my general deer-in-headlights feeling when it comes to money, and my friend trying to explain something to me about the tip...made me think that gratuity was already included, or that my friends had already taken care of it.
I didn't realize my mistake until weeks later. I didn't take care of it then and then, when I read your column last week, it hit me like a smack in the face. I am guilt-ridden about the fact that our poor waitress got squat when she didn't do anything wrong. I am attempting to track her down now, and though I don't know how feasible it would be, in retrospect, I would have LOVED if she confronted me about the tip.
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
Tipping is never optional. A 10% tip is mandated by federal law:
http://bit.ly/C7xKC
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
I absolutely agree that tipping well and graciously is a mandatory aspect of eating out. However, if my server ever had the audacity to approach me about what I left, I would never return to that restaurant. Honestly, I wish every restaurant added gratuity so that the debate could end. Kudos to the French.
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
Many, many years ago (30 + years) I was on both ends, waitress and patron. At this time in my life most of my friends in Philly owned the 3-5 star restaurant, so I knew a lot about the industry. I’m going to agree that I really does have a lot to do with class. You could almost tell by the way someone was dressed, the over the top shiny knock-off’s that even they do not seem to know are knock-off’s or perhaps thinks that is looks close enough to be the real thing so it’s OK. Your choices are either NO tip or a tip that is so small it can barley be seen. A guy and his girl came into the restaurant looking very shiny and the guy flagged me over he wanted to know why he and his friends were treated so badly in restaurants. I took a look at what he ordered and asked what they planned to tip. He replied “What tip?” So I went and got my current pay stub, in short the guy was appalled that 40 hours of work equaled $23. I explained that the rest of my salary came from tips. He now understood and would also spread the word to his peeps.
On the flip side in the 90’s when tip jars started to show up everywhere, I can see why people no longer tip any more or better said why now people are questioning “tipping” in general. So unlike in the 70’s and 80’s where I think it was more about class now I think it’s because of over kill of the “tip jar”
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
I would not criticize Hannah for her actions for questioning the customers for her low tip if she can report on any incidence in which she ran after a customer who left a very large tip a)to thank them profusely for a very generous tip or b)to ascertain they did not make a mathematical error and offer to refund some part of the tip. I will always remember the following two incidences: 1) After a great home-style meal in the 70's, we chose to leave a $20 tip (50%) because the meal was so good and reasonable in price and the immigrant waitress was so attentative - she came running out of the resaurant to thank us with many bows. 2) We couldn't figure out why a waiter in a very expensive restuarant turned so friendly after giving us just barely adequate service during a meal. When I finally looked at our receipt, I realized my mathematically challenged ex-husband, having had a couple drinks, calculated a 40% tip!
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
I work at a nail salon every summer and I absolutely hate working there because I work for tips. I get paid about 5 dollars an hour and I seriously curse people when they tip me less than 15%. I work my butt off, run around like a headless chicken for 11 hours a day, six or seven days a week and I deserve that tip.
Whenever I'm out, I tip minimum 25% if service was bad and 35% if great because I know how hard they must work. Amount of tip should definitely reflect the quality of service but I believe it should start somewhere around 20 because minimum wage is ridiculous as it is.
Served: Why Tipping Makes Everyone Uncomfortable
You know what's funny? I never tip less than 30-35% (15-20% always seem inadequate to me, provided that there was nothing extraordinarily wrong with our dinner, in which case, I will make a point of calculating 15% - it's happened once in my life so far. I'm 35). That said, the line It’s your job to tip graciously at the end of your meal, unless service is included, or you're at a take-out joint, etc. made me feel very resentful. No, it's not my job, it's my choice. Big, big difference.
I work hard (at my real job) and I go out to relax, have fun and yes, enjoy being served by somebody else for a change. And make no mistake, I appreciate it tremendously, which is why, like I said, I never tip less than 30-35%. But it's not my job. My job is to make sure the audits I submit to my employer are correct.
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She's not giving demos at the local WIC center, she's doing a show on the Food Network. The people who will watch the show are paying for the preferred cable package. You could argue that that is a bad financial decision in and of itself, but I think it's silly to suggest that she is somehow harming the poor. There's a fine line between love and hate. I think that some people who complain about Sandra Lee secretly love her, because they clearly spend a lot of time thinking about her.