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Racial Tipping point

Good service is good service. Period. We tip according to service only.

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Celebrating birthdays!

We also get to pick out what we want for dinner and dessert for our birthdays. Almost everyone in my family picks out the four-layer dessert. It has a shortbread-like crust, then a cream cheese and powdered sugar layer, then chocolate pudding layer, then topped with Cool Whip. It is light, but good. German Chocolate cakes or Italian Cream cakes are good for birthdays, also!

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It all sounds great! I can't wait to dig in!

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Sounds great! Thanks so much!

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From Talk

Racial Tipping point

Good service is good service. Period. We tip according to service only.

From Talk

Celebrating birthdays!

We also get to pick out what we want for dinner and dessert for our birthdays. Almost everyone in my family picks out the four-layer dessert. It has a shortbread-like crust, then a cream cheese and powdered sugar layer, then chocolate pudding layer, then topped with Cool Whip. It is light, but good. German Chocolate cakes or Italian Cream cakes are good for birthdays, also!

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DC and Arlington, VA

It all sounds great! I can't wait to dig in!

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DC and Arlington, VA

Sounds great! Thanks so much!

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DC and Arlington, VA

We are staying close to Clarendon, and we will be at the Mall during the day. We are renting a car while we are there. Hope this helps with recommendations! Thanks!

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DC and Arlington, VA

Thanks to all who have commented! I am taking my two teenagers on this trip. Does this make a difference on the recommendations that you made?

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What will you have on Christmas Morning?

We get the cheap canned biscuits, and fry them in oil until brown. Drain them, and while still warm, roll them in powdered sugar. They will melt in your mouth. I serve this with bacon, coffee, and O.J. Yum!

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My childhood holiday treat favorites were ____

My mom used to make a Scotcheroos. They have a peanut butter and rice krispie base with a chocolate-butterscotch topping. Yummy!

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What cookbook do you need & can't find the kitchen if missing?

I like the Fannie Farmer cookbook; it has about every recipe known to man!

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My favorite sticky, chewy food is ______

My favorite is a bar cookie known as a Scotcheroo. It is rice krispies with peanut butter and corn syrup topped with a chocolate icing. Also, peanut butter chews for school made with cornflakes are great!

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Racial Tipping point

When I was a waitress in high school, at a kind of touristy restaurant in San Francisco, I would amuse myself by putting on fake accents for a night (a special talent of mine) and then checking the tips. A fake Irish or English accent got the highest tips every time. My normal non-accented voice got the median as did a southern accent. But a Valley girl accent, New York accent, or girl from the 'hood accent got lower tips- by a couple percentage points. Pretty interesting!

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Racial Tipping point

Being African-American (and part Hispanic), I've gotten shoddy service from both blacks and whites. I think it has more to do with training than anything else. I tip for fast yet thoughtful service. I don't tip if I have to ask for something more than once. And don't even think about being rude, let alone being racist.

The worst experience I ever had was when I treated a good friend (white) to a farewell dinner at El Torito on City Line Avenue (since closed). The waiter was totally cold and obnoxious to me and when I gave him my credit card to pay for the meal, when he came back, he gave the card to my friend!?!?!?! "Dude, what IS your problem - that's MY credit card!" I said. Not only did I not tip him, I wrote on my bill, "I'd tip you, but I don't make a habit of tipping bigoted tools such as yourself -- have a good day!". We even waited at the entrance to see his reaction - he wasn't happy.

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Racial Tipping point

I also tip according to service. I was at a restaurant with a friend and had terrible service. I was going to leave without a tip. She had a better idea. She left 2 pennies. That way they knew that we didn't just forget to leave a tip. The wait staff knew we left a bad tip for bad service. I think it is a great idea.

Also, I will speak to the manager if I had great service. I have never been a waitress but I have worked sales and you always hear the bad even if it is the customers that are the problem. So I make sure to let the manager and/or headquarters know when I had great service.

Once I asked a waitress to get the manager. The poor girl was terrified. She didn't think she did anything wrong but I wanted the manager. After I spoke to the manager about how great she was the waitress came back and thanked me and told me about her feelings about getting the manager. She also said that the manager went into the kitchen and announced over the kitchen speaker system that this waitress received a glowing comment. It made the waitresses day and mine.

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Racial Tipping point

having been a waitress, i almost always overtip. i have, as well as evilchefmom/souschef been the victim of age discrimination. going to any restaurant around my college is always a test of whether they treat us like normal patrons or just figure that we are poor college students. i have not received wonderful service in so long that i don't get excited to go out anymore and prefer to just cook myself.

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Racial Tipping point

As a host, I've had waiters tell me not to seat black people in their sections because "they don't tip."

As a barista, I've received good, bad, and no tips from people of every size, race, and color.

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Racial Tipping point

Put it this way. If Barak Obama were either the restautant patron or server would the tips be 2% and 1/4% less?

POP QUIZ:

If Barak were both patron and server, what would the tip be?

Do the math.

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Racial Tipping point

This looks suspiciously like one of those "studies" that starts with a desired supposition and then works backwards, massaging the data and methodology to "prove" the conclusion.

Then again, I may be giving them too much credit? Probably just more:

Lies, Damned Lies & Statistics

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Racial Tipping point

@srhcb - Me either.

@All - I worked as a server years ago in college.(Sounds funny - server - we were called waitress' back in the day) I was treated poorly on more than one occasion by both caucasian and African-American customers. There were just as many low or non-tipping customers on the part of both. I tend to tip on the higher side, always rounding up, especially if the service was exceptional. I have never "stiffed" a server, but I have come pretty close! I will speak with the manager if we have been treated poorly or if the service was lacking. It is up to management to ensure the standard of service in the restaurant.

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Racial Tipping point

I can't recall the last time I saw a "white" cab driver?

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Racial Tipping point

Have we not had race injected into our collective consciences enough already this week? Anyway, I tip between 15 and 20 percent depending on the service. I will say as an African-American that I must admit to coming from a family of cheap tippers! I have no idea whether this is true of others, just my own experience. I have often felt compelled to leave a few extra dollars when dining with my parents to bring the percentage up to 20% or so. I used to try to get my parents to be a bit more generous, but they could be rather tight fisted for reasons they have never explained and I haven't understood. Of my African-American peers, we all tip around the same: 20%.

From Talk

Racial Tipping point

Usually 20%. Less if service is lacking. More for excellence! Spent a few years earlier in my life as a dining room and room service waiter in a upscale hotel and understand the rigors of the food sevice life.

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Racial Tipping point

I always tip a lot - more than 20%, sometimes way more. My husband laughs and says that it is the islandexile scholarship. I often feel that as a woman and now as an older woman, that service at a table I'm hosting is discounted, so to speak. Still an idealist, I'm always hoping to bust a stereotype. If service were really bad, I'd feel obliged to tell the person in charge why the tip was going to reflect that.

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Racial Tipping point

Dear evilchefmom daughter/souschef,
It's terrible you are discriminated for being a teenager. Especially when polite teenagers are a true blessing. I work in the food industry as well and will make conscience to treat teenagers as good as they behave when I serve them.

From Talk

Racial Tipping point

Aghhhh oops that comment posted under my moms name I am not evil chef mom just one of her sous chefs.

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Racial Tipping point

I tip based on service, but waiters usually treat me with less importance because I'm a teenager. I hate how no matter how polite my freinds and I are we still receive terrible service. We tip accordingly. Never less then 15% but certainly not at 20%.

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Racial Tipping point

Beth, I've had the same thing happen to me. My husband and I have gone in restaurants (I'm Japanese, he's German) and not gotten either any service or not seated at restaurants -- Chinese, Korean, Japanese, and an American fare restaurant. We were not dressed any differently from anyone in the restaurant.

After waiting 10 minutes in front of the host at a Chinese restaurant, they seated the (white) couple who had just walked in to the restaurant standing behind us, and continued to ignore us after they were seated. Of course, we walked out.

I don't tip by anything but service. I've left nothing as a tip many times when I've thought that I received really subpar service - cold food, hair in my food, server coughing on my food, live bugs in my food, onions or whatever I specifically repeat 3x to exclude from my food, or just 0 service, e.g., waiting for 15 minutes after we've been seated for water and a menu when the restaurant has only 2 other customers. This is coming from someone who tips 20% at *certain* buffets, so you know it really has to be bad.

As for the restaurant that served us live bugs in our food (which we didn't order!), we were told we had to pay for our food, even though we didn't even eat any of it because we were so disgusted, or they'd call the cops. So we had to pay for our entire meal that we didn't eat. Of course, no tip - and we've never returned. I've actually written comments about my experience at 4-5 food sites, but they've all miraculously vanished. :P

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Racial Tipping point

I feel like I tip the same every time (about 20%), unrelated to how the service was or who served me. I rarely have service that's outstanding, nor service that's really horrible; it's just all...normal? There was one time I had really good waiters and felt bad for not tipping more, but I didn't realize this until after I left the restaurant. :\

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Racial Tipping point

We tip based on 20% of our total bill. If the service was particularly good, we may tip more (or less, if the service is bad). However, the theory you posted could be based on a variety of factors like how the server interacts with the customer. One or the other may not communicate with the other for a variety of reasons besides prejudice. Could the customer have received poor service based on his/her race (this has happened to me at both Denny's and Krystal, when the staff ignored us in favor of customers of the employee's own race). How did the author of the article conduct his/her research? Was is anecdotal? Were both customers and service providers asked to record their tips/tabs/and races involved?

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Racial Tipping point

I tip based solely on service, but who knows, we all do little things that are influenced by subliminal thoughts that we are unaware of, and it very well may be that I tip certain waiters a few percentage points lower than I do others. (And I will admit that I tip attractive scruffy dark-haired male waiters more than I tip model/actress-wannabe waitresses. That's just how it is.)

From Talk

Racial Tipping point

Having dated my share of waiters I tend to overtip. However I have left nothing for abysmal service. As recently as a few months ago I was in vegas in which the food, the wait staff, and the busers/runners were all abysmal. What I found interesting is my friends from California could not leave without giving a tip - however small it was.

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Celebrating birthdays!

sustarz - here you go - there are no actual directions so I would recommend the traditional creaming, then adding dry and wet ingred alternately then folding in the whites at the end. It should make a 9x13 sheet cake or two 9" layers. 350 degrees for 30 min. (less if layers)

Graham Cracker Cake

1/2 cup shortening
1 cup sugar
3 egg yolks
2 cups fine graham cracker crumbs
2 T. flour
1/4 t. salt
2 t. baking powder
1 cup milk
1 t. vanilla
1/2 - 1 cup finely chopped nuts (usually walnut, but you could use pecans)
3 stiffly beaten egg whites

You can make life simple by dusting with powder sugar, ice with chocolate ganache or my all-time favorite for this cake is the fluffy 7 minute icing.
If you do the cooked icing, hook yourself up with some chocolate covererd caramels and melt them to drizzle over the top in beautiful big globs then throw some more chopped nuts on top and enjoy compliments of me and my mommie.
P.S. This is also easily doubled for large events. I can remember mom doing that and baking in a large broiler pan for parties.

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Celebrating birthdays!

i made two cakes for my birthday last year {it was a milestone birthday and i deserved it.} pumpkin spice and a new york style cheesecake. this year i think i'll make banana.

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Celebrating birthdays!

you've got it sustarz - I promise I will look for it tomorrow. Mom and Gram's cookbooks are packed up in the basement. I've never had anything like it. The cake could be a derivative of the Hungarian Dobos Torte but without the extra effort of all the layers. This is really bad, I'm talking myself into making it now.
The other family favorite that was made for my Dad and I made for my kids' birthdays was the Hershey's Chocolatetown Special cake with buttermilk. Very moist and flavorful.
I must admit that I and my group of girlfriends cannot pass on wedding cake. That white cake with the almondy, slightly coconuty flavor and scent is absolutely cakegasmic. I sometimes make candles and I found "wedding cake" scent on a candlemaking website. I could not resist. When we met before Christmas for dinner I took the candles in gift bags and made them sniff before they looked or opened. Their eyes all rolled back in their heads and sigh.... Anyone else have that wedding cake weakness?

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Celebrating birthdays!

Strawberry shortcake, made with angel food cake, in real layers like real cake with fresh whipped cream and sliced lightly sweetened strawberries. Light as a feather and delicious.

I like regular cake, but I hate, hate, hate frosting and methodically remove every spec of it when I find myself in situations when I have to at least take a bite of it. The only exception to this is the frosting on the lemon cupcakes at Buttercup Bakery in Manhattan.

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