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Unique Food Trends: Denver, Colorado

THANKS YOU SE!!! While I was living in Denver, I kept wanting it to get some national recognition for... something or other, I didn't really know. But now, living in NY, you totally hit the nail on the head with some of these (although you might mention the ubiquity of Panera and all the independent restaurants with brand name-quality style in Denver AND Boulder...). I miss it all - and Greystone Meadery is the greatest! I second the notion that Colorado deserves some dedicated food blogging!

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

I'm in culinary school, so I'm in a culture where everybody wants to try everything. But I've realized that not only is it gastronomically more interesting to share dishes, it kicks the fun level up a notch. Suddenly it's interactive!

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The Nasty Bits: Lamb's Neck Stew

Yes! Yes! Yes! I know next to nothing about offal, but I'm totally down for the subject... and I get a kick out of the reaction some people have when I mention eating bone marrow. Hurray for your series, I hope it doesn't get discontinued, it's the one I'm most likely to MEMORIZE.

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Fresh Food on TV: Weekend Edition

Might not count as fresh food, but there was this week's Simpsons episode - Homer becomes a "supertaster". http://www.hulu.com/watch/69971/the-simpsons-father-knows-worst#in-playlist

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Unique Food Trends: Denver, Colorado

THANKS YOU SE!!! While I was living in Denver, I kept wanting it to get some national recognition for... something or other, I didn't really know. But now, living in NY, you totally hit the nail on the head with some of these (although you might mention the ubiquity of Panera and all the independent restaurants with brand name-quality style in Denver AND Boulder...). I miss it all - and Greystone Meadery is the greatest! I second the notion that Colorado deserves some dedicated food blogging!

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

I'm in culinary school, so I'm in a culture where everybody wants to try everything. But I've realized that not only is it gastronomically more interesting to share dishes, it kicks the fun level up a notch. Suddenly it's interactive!

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The Nasty Bits: Lamb's Neck Stew

Yes! Yes! Yes! I know next to nothing about offal, but I'm totally down for the subject... and I get a kick out of the reaction some people have when I mention eating bone marrow. Hurray for your series, I hope it doesn't get discontinued, it's the one I'm most likely to MEMORIZE.

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Fresh Food on TV: Weekend Edition

Might not count as fresh food, but there was this week's Simpsons episode - Homer becomes a "supertaster". http://www.hulu.com/watch/69971/the-simpsons-father-knows-worst#in-playlist

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Cook the Book: 'Real Cajun'

All my mom's family is from New Orleans, and her grandparents used to own their own Mexican restaurant. As a kid I'd go down there for the holidays most years for expansive feasts: crawfish boils, my great-grandma's pork tamales, king cakes, mirleton, fig cookies, and po-boys. Sooo much fried fish. Not to mention the muffulettas my dad reverse-engineered from the Central Grocery and went on to make for every Super Bowl party!

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Critic-Turned-Cook Gets Flour Power

I'm in training as a baker at Panera, where the size of the bake is measured in the cost as sold of all the breads, bagels, and sweets that we bake. Under $1600 is slow and easy. Above $2000 keeps ya hoppin', especially since it's usually just the one baker working overnight to bake off almost all the product (souffles and baguettes are the exception - they're prepped to be baked off by the day crew). We're production bakers: the dough is prepped daily at a central facility, and rests as it gets delivered to each store, where we form, proof, score, and finally bake the bread. And since there's so much responsibility and time organization necessary, training takes 5-8 weeks. I worked at Panera in the day crew for 4 1/2 years before that, and worked as a baker and crepe chef, too. The closest thing my Panera baker experience can be compared to is a mad dash 8-9 hour mise en place (since you don't have the pressure of service time; all the pressure is internal), and then sometimes some down time in the end when you know you're gonna make it, you've done all the prepping and all that's left is oven management. I love it.

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Serious Cocktails: Where to Start?

A horse's neck! It puts a touch of art on the cocktail, and it's delicious! I made the mistake of trying martinis as my own intro... I tried about 5 times before I realized I'm just not a martini guy.

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Unique Food Trends: Denver, Colorado

That brewery would be BreckEnridge, not BreckInridge.

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Unique Food Trends: Denver, Colorado

Hate to say this, but Chipotle's is WAY overrated! Everytime I get a burrito it always packed with too much rice and not enough meat and veggies! And the ingredients aren't really flavorful and don't come together when eating.

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Unique Food Trends: Denver, Colorado

Beau Jo's is vile. For a city that's supposedly the healthiest in the country, Beau Jo's pizza is a gutbuster abomination.

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Unique Food Trends: Denver, Colorado

Alexholyk - Agreed. I came upon this article while looking up all of the chains that started in Colorado, and it really is pretty crazy. Chipotle, Qdoba, Einstein Bros, Noodles, Quiznos, Smashburger, Tokyo Joe's (you'll see about this one), etc. I love the denver food scene. Recently there was an article in a local mag about the top 100 dishes in the city, and I'm writing a blog about eating every one of them and my review of each:

www.musteatdenver.com

jko

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

I'm a sharer. With family and some friends I will share any of mine and try any of theirs, often finishing the left over bits or cleaning up other peoples plates. Sometimes I steal food from others without asking, but knowing that those people won't mind. Sharing goes beyond food, and extends to utensils in my family, I know its not for everyone, but it works out great for us.

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

If I'm eating with friends or my boyfriend (which is almost always who I'm eating with when I'm out), then I'll offer a taste of whatever I'm eating, ESPECIALLY if I like it. Share the wealth! I have like-minded friends, so they usually offer back - if they don't, I don't even usually notice. I may ask for a small taste if it's something I really want to try, but I'm not militantly pro- or anti-sharing.

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

sharing does not bother me at all...just DON"T eat from my personal dish in front of me...or try to feed me off your fork/chopsticks..I will leave !!!

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

One of my favorite "shared" meals was at NOPA in SF. All three of us agreed upon three dishes...we would eat and then say switch and we would move the plate to the next person...probably not for everyone but so good for us!!! I love eating with good friends.

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

It seems unnatural for me not to share, but then I grew up in a family where sharing food was the norm. It was very weird one time when I went out with a group of friends to a place I knew had mediocre big portions (I was outvoted on where to go) and asked if anyone wanted to split a dish with me and they all looked at me like I was insane. I shut-up and at the end no one finished their meal.

There are some unspoken rules to polite sharing though. If you ask, make sure you have something to give back. My mom is the queen of breaking this rule, she'll always be like I'm not that hungry I'll just have a bite of yours and of course half the time she's paying so it's not like anyone can say no. It was especially obnoxious when we were in Italy where you're trying to taste as much of everything in the short amount of time you have. I think this stems from when my sister and I were kids and would never finish our meals, but we're not kids anymore.

Another is don't force anyone to order what you want just to share. My littlest sister is famous for doing this and she gets away with it because stepmom wants her to eat. I was amazed at how she dictated what my stepmom and dad would eat and when she turned to me I was just like uh uh I know what I'm getting.

Ask ask ask is the third. There are certain occasions where you don't have to (my sister and I never do when we go out to eat together, but we've been doing that a long time) but always err on the side of asking. It's just good to be polite.

Different occasions call for different types of sharing. Now that I've moved I've got to find new dining companions who like to share.

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

@janaatwg , you or someone close to her should really take your friend aside and tell her that her behavior is alienating her friends. Maybe she is not fully aware.

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

First of all I think one should never 'steal' off another's plate. Silverware incl chopsticks were originally weapons to defend one's food, so permission should be asked before reaching over, unless permission was firmly previously established.
I have a problem with 'plate envy' so I may choose to order the same thing as another, because why order something else, only to then desire the other's plate more than my own. So right on @ksimmy. I usually interview my table mates before I make a choice, unless I had one of those lucky days where I have a craving that the restaurant can fulfill.
I am happy to have you share, and may put the brakes on if you are eating most of mine, and none of yours (which I don't desire either).
I can't stand all that germ phobic behavior of 'you can have that corner, I didn't touch it'. If you are that phobic you are unsuitable for sharing I think.
I love family style because my preference is usually a little taste of everything. Getting Chinese take-out with my mate is a challenge 'cause he just orders and eats his one or two things and doesn't want any of mine. (He is a reluctant sharer-but has been trainable.) So that's makes for less variety. I solve this issue by ordering 3 dishes for me, me, and me and eating the leftovers for lunch over a few days. Problem solved.
Sharing is nice but what is even nicer is respecting people's eating preferences incl wether they share or not (and not incl. someone forbidding for you to order the same as them).

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

Bottom line, there are many factors if you should share or not. They are...
1. The people you are dining with
2. What kind of restaurant you are at
3. how hungry you are
4. how good the dish is that you ordered.

And that rule about ordering the same dish? Order what you want, get what you are craving! Don't deny yourself anything! Especially when you are paying for it!

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

Sharing is the standard for me and my husband. We almost never order the same dish. Usually upon their arrival we each taste both of the dishes. If one of us strongly prefers the other's dish, we switch. If we both really like both dishes, we each eat about half and then switch plates. If we both like the same dish and both really dislike the other (which is infrequent), my husband insists that I eat the better dish. We didn't concoct this rigid-sounding regime - it has simply evolved over many years of wedded bliss. A perfect system (ok, less perfect for him)!

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

I prefer sharing, though I may be a bit neurotic about making sure there is enough for everyone to try everything. After the Mythbusters episode about "double dipping" I'm much less concerned about someone else's fork.

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

I like family style meals and usually like sharing. The only exception to this is when I go to a tapas restaurant...I always feel like there is not enough food and everything is so tasty but there is just so little of it!! I get too stressed out-I just want to ask the server to bring me the rest of whatever I ordered that little taste is NOT enough.

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

In some ways I agree with @beersnob and@redfish, but I can share when asked politely. No stabbing. If I have been to the establishment before and want to order something that I really love then I may not want to give it all away so please order a serving for yourself.

I have a friend that will drive you to distraction as well as myself. We plan a gals night out and she arrives a bit late and announces that she can't really hang out with us and she'll just have a bite of ours. That is beyond the pale of sharing and it is hard because every other part of her is so great. She gets included less and less and that is sad. The rule is to, at the very least, order something that you can share if you are asking for some of someone elses food.

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The Nasty Bits: Lamb's Neck Stew

Being Greek myself it's great to see a really good recipie for lamb neck bones. (luckily they are readily available to me in Pittsburgh). Although you may want to tweak a couple things. The authentic way is to salt and pepper the lamb necks, with sea salt only of course, brown them in the olive oil and then add the tyme and lemon juice, then add the water. Adding the tyme to the oil and lamb fat deepens the flavor. Also, you want to make sure to cover the pot while simmering otherwise the meat won't be as succulently tender. Plus we also throw in a small onion while simmering. Just suggestions...hope this helps. Keep up the great work!!!!

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

Sharing is permissible any time people agree to share.

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

I have one friend for whom most of our eating outs (or occasional takeouts) go thusly: order. eat, eat, eat, eat, switch. eat, eat, eat, eat, switch ... we wind up the meal with both of our plates somewhere near the center of the table as we pick over them ... However, she's about the only person I'll do that with. In my family if we go out we usually ask for a bite, and it's always given ... or we proactively offer a bit of our own as a hint that we want some of theirs.

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

Sharing food is alright, it promotes being at ease with the person. If you dont like to share, thats alright I really dont want to fight off a person who acts like a dog anyway.

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

My boyfriend and I go out to eat often with our two best friends, and we always try to order four different meals, so as to all taste everything. This seems totally normal to me, but at the same time, I would never do it with someone else (even sharing with our families is off limits).

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

Sharing food is beyond tacky. It's something you do as a child, with your family, behind closed doors. The thought of a group of people's dirty cutlery going into my food is enough to make me barf. If you want to try what I'm eating, you should have ordered it. Or better yet, order a different entree next time.

If I'm with a group of people that I know will expect me to share my food, I ask the waitress to split my entree in half and go from there. Otherwise, it's no dice.

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

I grew up with a dad who would take pieces of food he wanted off mom's plate without asking. She is a picky eater and this would drive her absolutely nuts. By proxy, it started to drive me nuts too. She isn't someone who takes pleasure in food, she sees eating as a chore. So if someone takes the one bite she was actually interested in.... Anyway, my husband knows not to take without asking. He learned the hard way when he snatched a fry. I'll share bites, but like others have said I order what I order for a reason.

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

When is it socially acceptable NOT to share food? Assuming everyone's mom taught "sharing is caring", I find it hurtful when people even consider not sharing. You don't share, you don't come to dinners.

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When Is It Socially Acceptable to Share Food?

My husband grew up in a strickly no-sharing household, not even sharing bowls of salsa when eating Mexican food. I grew up in a very "eat-whatever-you-can-reach home." I knew we were getting engaged when he offered me some red beans and rice from his plate :)

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