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'Gourmet' Magazine: 1941–2009
For me, I'm sorry to say that Gourmet was irrelevant. And I suspect that a lot of folks secretly agree with me. Take a quiz. What would you rather read? Gourmet or Cook's Illustrated or this website? To me, the former was about glamourizing the art of cooking. Having the right range, the right blender, the right ingredients...it wasn't about cooking. It was about looking good while you thought about cooking. For those who actually spend some time over the hot stove or the grill, give me Cook's Illustrated or this website.
The Detroit Metro Area's Top 25 Pizzas
Hey Digital,
I think you're right, but Cottage Inn really does itself a disservce by (willingly or unwillingly) associating itself with the other co-named stores that sell a mediocre product.
The Detroit Metro Area's Top 25 Pizzas
I'm fairly surprised that Cottage Inn is ranked so high. I would put it on par with Dominos (another chain that calls A2 home). When my wife and I lived in A2, we used to go to the Pizza House (on Church Street). Was it magnificent? No, but it was OK...and in my opinion, much better than anything at Cottage Inn.
Either the Freep is getting some of the rankings wrong, or the Detroit-area pizza scene is really hurting...
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How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
The diner scene in the opening minutes of "Reservoir Dogs" is profane, funny, and on the mark.
'Gourmet' Magazine: 1941–2009
For me, I'm sorry to say that Gourmet was irrelevant. And I suspect that a lot of folks secretly agree with me. Take a quiz. What would you rather read? Gourmet or Cook's Illustrated or this website? To me, the former was about glamourizing the art of cooking. Having the right range, the right blender, the right ingredients...it wasn't about cooking. It was about looking good while you thought about cooking. For those who actually spend some time over the hot stove or the grill, give me Cook's Illustrated or this website.
The Detroit Metro Area's Top 25 Pizzas
Hey Digital,
I think you're right, but Cottage Inn really does itself a disservce by (willingly or unwillingly) associating itself with the other co-named stores that sell a mediocre product.
The Detroit Metro Area's Top 25 Pizzas
I'm fairly surprised that Cottage Inn is ranked so high. I would put it on par with Dominos (another chain that calls A2 home). When my wife and I lived in A2, we used to go to the Pizza House (on Church Street). Was it magnificent? No, but it was OK...and in my opinion, much better than anything at Cottage Inn.
Either the Freep is getting some of the rankings wrong, or the Detroit-area pizza scene is really hurting...
Would You Go to a Chain Restaurant on a First Date?
After having read the comments, I have to say, yes, it is a pretentious topic...and rather academic at that. The comments seem split between the folks in the wholeheartedly pretentious camp and folks in the unpretentiously pretentious camp, I think I've got to side with REDZEROSTAR, the one voice of reason that I saw.
How School Cafeteria Lunches Differ Around the World
I hate to bring some bad news, but even a subsidized $5 (3.80 euro) school lunch would be a budget buster for a lot of parents...especially for those with more than 1 kid in school. I think kapnic's idea of less options and a simple main course has merit to reduce the cost of lunch.
Cookingbooks, I think you're being too harsh on Tri'foodie. It's not obivous to me that "some gov't support" would be a good investment in this case. The kids still have to go home and eat. And whatever good eating habits they learn in school will be obliterated by the culture at home. Good eating habits don't start with "gov't support", but with, as Tri'Foodie hinted, parents who care about what their kids eat. If the parents aren't there or don't care, then "gov't support" isn't going help.
Serious Grape: ZEST, a Simple Mnemonic for Choosing Cookout Wines
In the summer, I think it's not so much about the matching of wine to food, but rather having a refreshing drink. To that end, in addition to the ZEST suggestions, you'll have a happy crowd if you have plenty of ice cold sauvignon blanc or, better yet, cold pitchers of sangria.
Served: Already Nostalgic for My Awesome Job
"Young people are in a condition like permanent intoxication, because youth is sweet and they are growing. " -- Aristotle
Happy Graduation and good luck...
Good eats in Lexington, KY
I went to college in Lexington and would second most of the recommendations. Some comments:
Joe B's: The breadsticks are incredible, and I dream about them to this day. I went back to school last Spring to recruit and took some graduate students out to Joe B's for beer, pizza, and breadsticks. Half of the kids had never been there...let alone had a breadstick! I had to talk with my old professors to see what they were teaching these kids...
Ramsey's: Do they still have meat-and-three? Basically, you pick an entree (eg, pork chop, catfish, pot roast, etc.) and three southern-style sides (fried orka, macaroni and cheese, etc.)...good stuff. Ramsey's has multiple locations now, but when I was in school there was only one location...the one near campus (Woodland and Maxwell?).
Lynaughs: An Irish Pub on Woodland Ave. Didn't see this mentioned on anyone's post. Go for the beer and the O-Round. A great flame-broiled hamburger. Bring your ear-plugs..it could be loud.
Tolly-Ho: A Greasy Spoon Dive. A favorite haunt when I was in graduate school. A Tolly-Ho with Hashbrowns was the de-riguer order at 1am...or 6PM for that matter...basically a frozen hamburger with frozen hashbrowns. I dream about this place too. Don't expect much and your expectations may be met.
The Detroit Metro Area's Top 25 Pizzas
I've eaten some of the greats -- Una Pizza, John's, Grimaldis, Ginos, Home Run -- so i am pretty particular. Supinos is outstanding pizza. Michigander's like square pizza, and you really can't compare it to a thin crust. Tomato apizza is another great pizza.
Now, if you really want square -- Buddy's is great.
Deep Dish -- Pizzapapalis is great.
Alibi is not that great. It suffers from the same problem of many Michigan pizza. You look at the bottom of the crust and you see grid marks from a pan. This leaves a horrible aftertaste in your mouth. But, locals seem to like it.
I'll pass.
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
if you don't anticipate your dinner companion cheaping out, walk out the door and then immediately say 'i think i forgot cell/wallet/something' and go back in to make up the tip.
if you know you are going to eat with someone cheap, drink all the water or something, say you are gonna go to the washroom and find the waiter instead...tell him/her your friend is notoriously cheap but you don't want bring it up at the dinner table, here's part of your tip beforehand.
alternate solution: just let the other person think you are a ridiculously generous tipper.
and also, don't get mad at cheap friends, they are who they are. don't invite them out to eat if it bothers you so much. i just consider it part of the cost of the meal....
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
@climbhighak--how can you throat punch a buddy if his head is up his ass?
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
I've only had one friend with home this was actually an issue, and we're not friends anymore, because, not surprisingly, the bad-tipper-friend has a lot of other selfish and self-entitled issues that made him not pleasant to be around. @A-buddy: is that you, my old ex-buddy?
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
I have a slightly different question: I grew up knowing that tipped employees were paid only a fraction of minimum wage and had a 10% (terrible service) min tip with a 20% (good service) standard, but here in SF wait staff is paid the city minimum wage (higher than the national min wage) and most restaurants add a health care cost surcharge to support the city's universal health care coverage. I really think tipping in excess of 15-20% is extreme in this situation.
Also, many restaurants that add tip have started adding the tip (usually a few percent higher than 15%) to the total bill, not the pre-tax amount. which increases the tip by ~10% or >1.5% of the bill. If the service is especially good I usually add a bit more in addition to the pre-determined amount, but not if the tip is based on something other than the food and beverages ordered.
That being said, whenever I eat out with a friend who i know under-accounts for tip and tax when figuring their share of the bill, I always pay with cash and throw in a few extra bucks. BistroMath never ceases to amaze!
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
I worked at a place where one of my regulars was always eating with various friends whose tips he felt were inadequate. He did a number of things to redress this. The return inside to use the bathroom was always a classic, but then sometimes he'd say that he needed another quick drink of water or a sample from the pastry counter, or, my favorite, because he was a regular, he'd just tell his dining companion that he'd be right back because he needed to say a proper goodbye to me.
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
Thank goodness my friends all love to eat and tip well. When my husband and I eat out, if he foots the bill, I pay the tip. He's European, so rather than have him rant endlessly about why it's not his problem that American businesses take advantage of their workers, I pay the tip and he shuts up.
Also, in our tough economic times as more people use coupons for dining, I also tip on the amount of the full price of the meal, not the reduced price of the meal. I tip on the free meal of the "buy one meal, get one meal free" deals, because I know cheap diners out there will tip only on the amount they're paying. Yes, this is overkill. I've never worked in the service industry, but not everyone has the skills or resources or luck to find a good paying job at all times.
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
Some years ago I was a director at an athletic club. About every six week I would put a sign up sheet for a dinner out with club members. I'd make reservations and we would usually have 12-15 diners. We always had a good time during dinner. There would be drinks, apps, and entres and when it came time to pay there would be a lot of haranguing about who got what and how much they owed. Some times there wasn't even a 10% tip. The wait staff had done a lot of work on our part and deserved 20%. I would ask for more and I might get closer to 12%. Sometimes I would just give in and make up the difference.
I got tired of that after awhile and when the stingy ones asked why I discontinued the dinner I told them that I didn't get paid enough to pay their way through dinner and they were welcomed to go without me.
I can recall only once tipping less that 20% and that was for incredibly poor service.
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
So it is very situational, but if say it is with friends I will make them aware that of my displeasure with an inadequate tip. Though it's not necessarily my place to teach this person about proper tipping as a friend I don't want to be continuously confronted with this situation with them thinking it is okay. Sometimes I'll even bring the server into the discussion sometimes as I don't think it's okay behavior. Now obviously if it is someone that you aren't on equal footing with it can sometimes be easier to somehow discreetly give money to the server. I think the real discussion about tipping is whether you do base it on the before or after tax total. A 20% tip should be considered standard for normal good service.
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
I just say in an offhand way, "Oh, let me put some in," add the cash, close the bill folder, and start talking about something else. If you don't say it judgmentally, no one will even realize that you are "correcting" them.
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
@ Liveto eat and joyy-
Same thing here. Problems calculatiing a simple tip.
"Can people really claim to be so ignorant about how much to tip? Move the decimal over one to the left and double it." or 10%, then double it.
Bill- $45,
10% is $4.50,
double it- $9 dollar tip
Your method is easier, but mine has helped a few math whizzes too.
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As for short tipping- I usally throw extra dollars in to make it 20%. If it's going to be an issue, I either slip money under my plate or excuse myself before the server returns to pick up the bill, catch the hostess and ask them to make sure our server gets "this" (some extra bills).
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
@LiveToEat - many people never master the simple method of math for tipping. In college, I was out with some friends who were engineering students who whipped out their cell phones to calculate the tip! I actually made fun of them (as an English major who hasn't taken a real math class since 11th grade), and walked them through your method. easypeasy.
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
My frequent lunch buddy at work always undertips, mainly because she's never worked in the service industry and otherwise dines with her husband, who manages all their finances and prob knows how to do the math for tipping. We always split the lunch check, but on her $13 bill, she'll leave a dollar. Maybe I'm an overtipper (I've worked in the industry) and this isn't fine dining, but I feel like she should know to leave at least $1.50. Worse yet, another colleague looks to her to see how much she should tip on her lunch bill.
Can people really claim to be so ignorant about how much to tip? Move the decimal over one to the left and double it.
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
Also, another concept that I cannot wrap my head around is picking-and-choosing what you do and do not "tip on" from the check. It's tallied up at the end with taxes added on. My tips are based on the last number on the check, which includes alcohol, parts of the meal served slower than others, "that one entree that tasted not as great as I was hoping" and tax. I'm no Rockefeller, but fair is fair.
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
My mother and grandmother (mom's mom) are painfully bad tippers (it's a symptom of a larger issue, where the tip is perceived as "extra" or more of their hard-earned money). I used to try and and state my case as passionately and eloquently as possible, but I just got annoyed stares and accusations of throwing my money around needlessly. Since neither of them are big on eating at expensive restaurants ("such a waste!") I'll either offer to cover the bill as a way around the issue, or at least offer to cover the tip, as my way of contribution.
@rhinny - there's just no explaining to some people. It is what it is.
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
Arrgh, this is one of my biggest pet peeves. I do make up others' short tips by slipping extra money under a plate or some other way, but believe me, I resent it. I used to go out quite a bit with a good friend when we were still in school. I enjoyed spending time with her, until the check would come. She always managed to avoid the check by being extra engrossed in conversation, going to the bathroom, etc. If directly confronted with her share of the bill, she would pay the bare minimum tip, which someone else would make up. She was a great person, but exceedingly cheap. It's been years and I still resent the fact that she always managed to get someone to cover for her. This is another issue, but she also managed to get fabulous dinners out quite a bit during dates. Essentially, I think people who don't leave a fair tip (taking into consideration egregiously bad service, etc) are cheap and taking advantage of their friends by either expecting them to make up the difference or stiffing the server. If you can't afford the tip, order something cheaper or another option.
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
woops...that's @climbhighak, not @climbinghighak
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
@climbinghighak, you've just given @countchocula a non pg-13 rated name. LOL
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
Oh god! When eating out with a certain family member, I always have to tuck at least 20% in cash under a saucer or the bill folder, but secretly and only just as we get up to leave. I do this even for substandard service, as putting up with her garbage for an entire meal deserves fair payment (when do I get my tip?).
She thinks that it's generous to leave $100 for a $96 meal. Her reasoning is "if servers want to make more than minimum wage, they should get different jobs." This, of course, is ignoring the fact that they have that exact job *because* they (rightly) expect to make more than the minimum wage. ALSO: I have explained the way that tipping out the kitchen and bar works (having been a restaurant bartender in the past and survived off that tip-out myself...), but still, that has no effect. I cringe every time. Some people can see no logic.
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
When we go out with my notoriously high-maintenance and low-tipping mother, I always snag the leather folder after she's done signing the credit card, and I slip extra cash inside. I figure, if she won't let us pay for our meal, my addition to her idea of a tip is just our contribution towards the cost of dinner.
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
I make sure to openly mock those who under tip. An extra few bucks is really that big of a deal to you? If you've ever worked for tips in your life you'd realize what a difference a couple bucks here and there makes.
How Do You Slip the Waiter Extra Tip Money?
Sometimes I do the pre-emptive strike -- like, if we're slow ordering, I'll say (in a jokey tone), "We've kept the server waiting a long time, we need to tip extra well," or something like that.
Among good friends, if we're splitting the bill, we usually calculate 20% off the total and all chip in. If it's just acquaintances, everyone leaves what they think is right; sometimes I'll leave more to make up for any low tips on the other side.
'Gourmet' Magazine: 1941–2009
Meh, it was becoming more foodie lifestyle mag than anything else. I liked the recipes well enough, but the writing was pretty terrible.
The Detroit Metro Area's Top 25 Pizzas
Dolly's pizza is a really good chain, great sauce and a very yeasty dough. It's my current favorite pizza. In fact, I got some tonight.
The Detroit Metro Area's Top 25 Pizzas
Tomatoes in Farmington Hills (two shops, one using a coal-fired oven) is simply the best. It's a New Haven style of pizza (disclaimer: I'm from NY metro) and the crust, tomato sauce and cheese are all first rate. Their sausage is killer, too. Buddy's, of course, is the star of the Detroit style of pizza. A friend of mine took me to the original store in 1981 and I've been a fan ever since.
@figlet: You're right, Sylvio's is the goods. The crust is excellent. Just had a slice there the other day. It's a Napoletana style.
Went to Loui's in Hazel Park and was disappointed. Sauce was way too salty.
NYPD in Ann Arbor has fallen prey to that peculiarly Midwest overcheesing syndrome, the slice thereby losing its balance. I think that that is what happens when you let the kids make the pizza.
Another very decent pizza not mentioned is My Cousin's New York Pizzeria in Bloomfield Hills. Sauce isn't as good as Tomatoes, but it has all the characteristics of a NY slice. One of the owners if from Brooklyn, NY. Hmmm...I'm gettin' hungry.
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The diner scene in the opening minutes of "Reservoir Dogs" is profane, funny, and on the mark.