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Website: http://cassaendra.blogspot.com/

Location: Northeast/Midwest US

About: I love food.

Favorite foods: Japanese, Okinawan, Vietnamese, Thai, Korean, Indian, Greek, German, Hawaiian, Cajun, ... umm yeah, you get the point. I just don't eat raw onions, cilantro, and raw garlic.

Last bite on earth:

The Ten Most Recent Comments By Cassaendra

From Talk

Cause and Effect

1. Distance has never affected where we shop for groceries. We have 3 local and regional chain grocery stores within 5 minutes drive, but do not go to them. Infrequently, we go to a farmer's market that is 5 minutes away. We shop frequently at grocery stores that are 15 - 45 minutes away, that are regional and national chain grocery stores.
2. Our organic purchases are based on items that are most affected by pesticides, i.e., grapes, bell peppers, lettuce, celery, potatoes, peaches, as well as milk (regular milk gives me diarrhea).
3. N/A
4. Presume increase in food prices -- not affected.
5. N/A
6. OH

From Talk

What do you bring to lunch to eat at your desk?


I always eat in my office alone, unless I go out to eat with coworkers (really rare), mainly because I enjoy the down time by reading SE and other sites/forums and I don't want to smell other people's food nor do I want people asking me what I am eating.

Most of what I eat is in the thread Chiff linked above.

Once, I made a Thai Kitchen noodle soup thing at work. I think it was hot and sour soup with lemongrass and rice noodles. Someone walked by after I was finished with lunch and opened my door, and thought electronics were frying in my office. I guess it was the lemongrass?? :O

Oh well, it tasted good.

Working where I do, I'm fortunate to a degree. The company invests in health, so in our cafeteria we have Canyon Ranch resort section serving hot and cold dishes, sushi, vegetarian section, large salad bar, fresh made sandwiches of your choice, made to order fruit smoothies, fresh teas. You just pay a premium price for healthy food. Lunch is easily $10.

I'm better off saving that $10 and applying it to the yoga classes offered 3 times a week for $20/session. :)

From Talk

A Party for The Graduate

For my high school graduation party, I paid for it working at McDonald's on weekends for 3 months (1980s). We had ~75 people at my house between relatives and friends for dinner -- graduation is typically held in the early evening.

The centerpiece was catered. It was a boat of sashimi that we refilled several times, along with several types of sushi and tempura. They gave us, free of charge, a large, whole grilled tai (sea bream) platter, a customary gift for a celebratory occasion - my mother knew the owner. My mother and I made some sushi to accompany the catered ones.

My mother also made some other Japanese side dishes to complement the rest of the food.
- tofu with shaved bonito and shoyu
- seaweed, sliced carrots and shiitake simmered in shoyu and sake
- chicken teriyaki
- additional shrimp tempura
There were other dishes, but I don't remember what else!

Dessert was mitsumame, a Japanese fruit cocktail served chilled. Whole azuki beans, various fruits, and kanten (agar agar -- think Jello, but practically unsweetened). It's very refreshing and not very sweet.

Doesn't count in the cost -- My mom bought a half sheet cake. It was a yellow cake with a boston creme layer in the middle and sliced kiwi and strawberries stack-layered on top from edge to edge, with a thin gelatin layer over the fruits.

All in all, I think I spent only $500. The cost was probably kept low because we served no alcoholic beverages, just juice, Calpico, and soda.

From Talk

What are you known for?

At work...

- pad thai
- fruit salad (only because I don't use canned fruits, but fresh cut fruits with contrasting colors, e.g., kiwi, mango/persimmons, blueberries, lychee, raspberries, ...)
- yakisoba
- roasted veggies (red peppers, yellow squash, zucchini, portobello mushrooms, asparagus, spinach, and fresh basil with olive oil and black pepper)

From Talk

Tuna. In a Can. Love it or Hate it?

How much is 365 canned tuna vs Sunkist/Chicken of the Sea? We'll probably be out and about shopping all day today, I may stop by Whole Foods. We need to restock our fridge anyway. >.>

From Talk

Take to work lunches!

Hell, I never use the work fridge, so all the lunches I take sit in my office until I am hungry enough to take lunch (some time between 11:30 am - 3:30 pm). I usually get to work at around 7, my commute is around 10-15 minutes.

I won't vouch for healthy, though...

- yakisoba (Japanese fried noodles...kinda like lo mein but really different sauce that's distinctly Japanese) -- I usually use shrimp, mustard cabbage, egg, spinach, and sticks of Spam. Really, anything you want. I usually make it that morning, and it takes me 15 minutes from prep to in the container. I rarely ever (99.99% of the time) use oil to cook.

- chili with rice...the rice is because I'm from Hawaii. :P The rice won't go bad if it's not boiling in your office and cooked 5 days ago (ok, I exaggerate...24 hours ago). You can always eat chili with linguini. I'll do that when I'm in the mood for it, but with the linguini, I have this thing where a tsp of ketchup needs to be added. It's weird, I can't explain it. Oh, this is typically leftovers from the previous night.

- soup that's not really runny. When I make soup, it's really, really hearty, so I don't have a problem of leakage. I also put the soup in the container first, place plastic wrap around the container, leaving a bit of room to add rice on top so it doesn't get soggy throughout the day, and cover. 1 container meal. I don't like rattling around 500 empty containers back to the car on the way home.

- cop out meal that's quite filling...bring your own noodles/rice + a can of ready-made soup. Make sure it has a flip top lid or you'll go crazy clawing at the can with your fingernails...since can openers have legs. They really do! My favorite soups to do this with are Wolfgang Puck's:
- organic hearty lentil and vegetable
- chicken tortilla
- pot roast
- NE clam chowder

- We have a hot water dispenser at work and my stepmother sends me a lot of stuff from Japan on her trips there every few months, so I'll bring instant food to rehydrate to work. Yeah, it's not healthy, but it's fun. What I don't like is people asking me what I'm heating up.

I'm not sure how strong your stomach is, but I've been leaving my food out for lunch without refrigeration for 25 years - from school 'til present.

I'm a really strong opponent of frozen food because there is always some @#$@#$ person before me, regardless of time of day, who is defrosting their frozen solid meal for 10 minutes. Partly due to the directions, and they tend to be the kind of people who take the meal out every minute and mumble, "still not hot enough," put it back in the microwave oven, take it out, put it back in...

If I wouldn't catch hell, I'd take that lunch, open the window, fling it outside, and scream, "There! Is it hot enough for you now?!?" (only effective during the summer).

From Talk

Oh no, I have no food!

"I have no food!" when I open the fridge means that there's nothing I want to eat in there -- ranging from when I see only condiments, milk, and some veggies, to wall to wall packed with leftovers. Some days, it means everything in there requires more work than my hunger dictates.

The worst was probably when we had eggs only on the top shelf. Condiments (dressings, the usual suspects, Asian sauces, etc.) and various pickled vegetables on the second self. Lychee gelatin cups on the bottom shelf. Old veggies, tortillas, tub of miso, tofu, and shirataki in the crisper drawer.

No rice or meat. *bawl* It was a crime that we got ourselves that low...

From Talk

Mother's Day and the Restaurant Experience...

The last Mother's Day meal I actually celebrated was ~15 years ago.

When I was a kid, I would make simple things for my mother on Mother's Day like a grilled cheese sandwich for breakfast, since she loved them.

My mother preferred to go out because that was one less mess she had to clean up, re-shelve, or later find out she needed to restock since I used it all and didn't say anything. She really did not like anyone in her kitchen. Everything had its place, and she couldn't stand when things were out of order. I'm the same way now. o.O

Since my mother ate at a lot at different restaurants with her friends frequently, she was recognized when we walked in, so we never had issues with bad service. Ofttimes if the manager came out and saw the two of us, s/he would comp our meal...so it was pretty nifty. =)

From Talk

Last minute gifts for Mother's Day?

LOL - the suggested links just above my post and below yours have ideas for Mother's Day gifts (at the time of this post). :P

Depends on what she likes, her health, and if you're delivering it yourself or boxing it up to be shipped.

Chocolates suck to ship, since they typically undergo vast changes in temperatures during delivery unless.

Flowers are always nice -- I always go to flowerbud.com for all of my floral needs (we have no family w/in a thousand miles)...but this is a food blog so I guess we stick with food.

A 'gourmet' food basket would be nice too, if she's into that...s'pose you can tailor it to what she likes. If she's into soups, fresh veggies, fruits, wine, etc. in a picnic basket, whatever.

There are always gift cards, if you can't find anything but know which store(s) she frequents...heck maybe even a gas card.

From Talk

Mothers' Day eats

When I lived at home, the last time I did anything for Mother's Day *on* Mother's Day, was take my mother to a restaurant of her choice. I don't even remember where anymore.

I haven't mailed my Mother's Day gifts to my stepmother or mother-in-law yet, even though we bought the gifts last weekend. I've been lackadaisical this year because my stepmother is out of the country and my MIL is really laid back.

On Sunday, we're going out with friends to an Indian restaurant for lunch.

Mmmm Jello!

Responses to Comments by Cassaendra

From Talk

Mother's Day and the Restaurant Experience...

@brittj8585- I feel your pain! While I can't say all of the customers were an issue yesterday, there was an unusual excess of screaming children and, I work at a wine bar. Young children who go out on these holidays typically don't know how to behave on account of the fact that they don't go out very much at all. In some cases, I think this is why parents can be unequipped to control them. The majority of adults had a great deal of patience because they know it is busy on a holiday; the minority complained about the children and under-tipped for not having a "perfect" experience. Not sure if it applies to your restaurant, but children simply don't belong in grown up establishments and holidays should not be an exception.

From Talk

A Party for The Graduate

I recently went to a graduation that had a shish kebab bar - there were a number of meats and veggies cut and laid out on a table inside, and you went through (with a pair of tongs) and created your own shish kebab to bring out to the host, who was outside waiting at the grill to prepare them. There were also a number of salads (pasta, veggie, and fruit) and a sandwich bar with different types of breads, deli meats, and roasted vegetables. Everything was a hit!

From Talk

Take to work lunches!

I've been obsessed with the Bento/Laptop Lunch groups on Flickr and there are always good ideas on how to/what to pack lunches there. Today I brought cold tortelloni from last nights dinner (no sauce), 4 dates, green pepper slices with a little bit of ranch for dipping, and 5 melba toast crackers with a little hunk of St Andre for speading. I eat SO much better when I actually pack my lunches. Much better than bringing those frozen meals...

@Cassaendra: I'm always stuck behind the same person at the microwave! Except mine will always turn around and say "Oh, guess I beat you today" and proceed to putter around the office kitchen while their meal will take 10 minutes to cook. I've been tempted to pour my split pea soup over their head when they say that.

From Talk

Food Priorities--how do you prioritize these factors?

That's okay, Sieseye. Sometimes there's just a lot to say. :)

I'm actually a Libra. And yes - we do have our mood swings. But then again, each astrological sign has their particular focal points that are positive or negative.
Probably you just don't like this particular guy. Shame he has to ruin the good mood of the Farmer's Market by hanging around it.

Your notes about balance being missing so much today, particularly in food, are so true. But I do think that if one searches back through history, the same lack of balance exists in some way, in some factors, with our food in an overall sense. Whether it was the historic factor of the better food going to the wealthy as it has for so much of time (still does, but we have a larger middle ground) or whether it be the issue of contaminants or ways to extend the amount of food there has always been something going on. So in that way I have to give a nod of the head to some sort of "progress".

Actually, this entire topic would seem to be something entirely astonishing and unbelievable to most people through times past - for pretty much the only thing that ran through their heads about food was: How do we get enough of it?! And of course: How can we make something delicious out of what is right in front of us? So in that sense, simply to be able to ask ourselves these questions posed by HeartofGlass is a very real gift. :)

Gordon Ramsay in real life has promoted women cooks to higher positions, so in that way one can be sure he's not a sexist pig. Ha, ha! Also the persona on TV is pushed to the limits for entertainment value.
In my own experience I've seen both men and women be equally helpful, not helpful, able to perform or not able to perform in the kitchen. There is no one style that makes it work - but if the chef is able to work with people rather than doing the towering over them with a whip sort of thing it can definitely make the work more pleasant, just as in any sort of workplace with any boss or leader.

As far as people being turned off by the idea of vegetarianism there's two things. First, it's "different". People often do not respond positively to "different" just because it is different. No good reason, really. Just people being people. Secondly there's the self-righteousness that some vegetarians or vegans carry as their swords in life - pushing the idea forward like a merit badge that nobody really wants to see. That creates a feeling of not wanting to be interested or supportive among those not really all that interested in the idea in the first place.:)

The great thing is that as we do have the gift to be able to prioritize our food choices there's much more within food to discover in lots of ways - both in reality and in how and what we think of it conceptually.

And it is easier than people to figure out, thank goodness. There's a great quote by someone (too early in the morning to figure out who) that says "What I like about cooking is that if you put a chop in the pan, it will cook ."

So at least something in life is under control. Ha, ha!

From Talk

What are you known for?

1. chocolate chip butterscotch oatmeal cookies
2. couscous salad
3. Brownie chocolate trifle
4. Cassoulet
5. Lemon Chicken

From Talk

Mother's Day and the Restaurant Experience...

^5 @ psychsarah! Sounds like a terrific day. Glad it went as smoothly as it did. You must have eaten at a very well run restaurant that didn't overbook and underestimate meal timing.

During the text exchange between my daughter and me, I told her, "Be patient! It's going to be a non-stop day." She responded, "Mom, that's EVERY day here..." So she was prepared for the throng. Our neighbors across the street went to Olive Garden and I'm curious to know how that went.

@foodiemama - congrats on a great MD!

BF cooked dinner and wanted me to take it easy in front of the TV. Eventually he needed a tiny bit of help with the phyllo/manchego/mushroom pastries.

Me: "Would you like some help?
BF: "That depends...you want to eat today?"

(ROFLMAO)

It was a good day, despite the potential for it being very difficult for me.

From Talk

Cause and Effect

1. frank's market, associated {but i rarely shop there, i shop near my office on union square or on the UWS}
2. i go out of my way to purchase organic whenever possible, so i mostly shop at whole foods, fairway upstairs, trader joe's or the greenmarket, and sometimes zabar's
3. n/a
4. i try to buy certain things at places that i know have the best quality for the best prices. for instance i always buy cheese and olive oil at zabar's or fairway and butter, yogurt, goat milk, nuts and dried fruit at trader joe's

5. hudson heights {washington heights west of broadway above 181}

From Talk

Mother's Day and the Restaurant Experience...

I hate Mothers Day, Easter, and Valentines Day, all because I am a server. The people that come out on those days are the people who never go out any other time, so it seems as if everything is new to them, from ordering drinks when asked, to how to tip. I had one table leave cash and a coupon from another restaurant, along with a 10% tip on the discounted price. The tip wasn't even enough to cover the coupon mistake which I had to pay for. Another table let their 5 kids (under the age of five) sit at a table all by themselves. The kids threw everything from broccoli to whole hamburgers on the floor. They also screamed very loudly when taken to the bathroom, so loudly you could hear them from every corner of the place. I am requesting off next year.

From Talk

Mother's Day and the Restaurant Experience...


Unfortunately, there's several hundred miles between my mother and I. Usually MD was a chance for me to wow her with some fantastic breakfast recipe and we would spend the day just enjoying each other's company--going to a movie, etc. We rarely, if ever, went out that I can remember. Anyway, this year I sent her some quince de membrillo, which I know she will love, and called. It's not the same, but I think the expression of love and appreciation, however you do it, is what counts the most. It's not a black and white 'restaurant or home-cooked meal question'.

From Talk

What do you bring to lunch to eat at your desk?

I have a big problem with always eating leftovers. Because I usually skip breakfast (I know, naughty-naughty) I can't stand to eat the same thing 2 meals in a row.

Right now I'm working off of the idea that justbento is running with. I have time in the morning to actually cook a few simple items and load them into a bento box. I spend sundays doing some minor prep. It does take time, planning, and effort, but I love to cook and eat so it's worth it. Check out justbento for the idea.