Chefs & Customers Who Linger After Hours
I have always been curious as to how chefs feel about customers who walk into their restaurant half an hour before closing and stay an hour after closing. Admittedly, more than once I have been said customer, and each time I felt a slight pang of guilt. The last time I did this was at a hole in the wall southern italian restaurant in San Jose, and the vibe was a little weird. Although, the only customers left were my family, so perhaps that is why. I have it in my head that chefs like most employed people, don't want to have to work longer than is necessary. And it would probably annoy me if someone came to eat only minutes before the kitchen was supposed to close. On the other hand paying customers, no matter if they walk in five minutes before closing, are still paying customers. Either way, I'd love to know what you serious eaters out there have to say on the subject.
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IF you go just before closing expect to have your meal rushed out to you and your service to be prompt. They want to get you out of there. Sorry, it's true. Make sure you tip well too.
arm1970 at 6:45AM on 06/29/09
@arm - very true! on sunday nights during the winter we'd close at 9pm, and we'd get a guy - well his nick-name became the "five to nine" guy. when he pulled into the parking lot the servers would draw lots on who was to wait on him, in the kitchen the words "the five to nine guy is here" would ring out ..... well the five to nine guy would then proceed to have a few cocktails, an appetizer, a salad, an entree an after-dinner drink and a dessert. he was a very nice man .... and i really don't think he realized that we closed at 9pm on sundays.... it's all part of the fun!
pooch at 7:12AM on 06/29/09
Yeah, after a 10 hour shift, the last thing anyone wants is a single table to babysit for 15%.
michichan at 8:35AM on 06/29/09
I am afraid that I would never knowingly do that to a restaurant. If I did stumble in at closing time, I would hope that someone would tell me - I would not think it impolite or bad business to put up a sign 15 minutes before closing stating that a full dinner could no longer be served - then if several people came in, the chef and staff could ascertain if the money would be worth extending their shift - it is like @michichan says.
bareneed at 9:14AM on 06/29/09
I'm not a chef, and I've never been a server either, but when I was a barista at Starbucks, I dreaded these customers. It was a little different there - we could kick our customers out at closing time (they were welcome to stay at the tables outside as long as they wanted), but it was extremely annoying when people would come in five minutes before close, and half the store (ie: espresso machines, frap blenders, pastry case, etc.) had already been cleaned and shut down. Of course it was even worse when an entire group came in. I know sometimes it can't be helped, but most of the time, it can. I try to avoid doing it whenever possible.
kimberlymac at 9:20AM on 06/29/09
Oh, HATE it. Especially when I'm the last server on duty. As they come in I'll warn them that the kitchen's closing, we can only do one order. Customers will frequently say, "hey no prob, we'll be quick" and then linger for an HOUR after closing.
This is especially great when they leave 12%, it's 11pm, and I have to get up at 330am for my next job. Ugh.
If you're coming in at closing, either tip WELL or just ask for takeout. Please.
mikaque at 10:36AM on 06/29/09
We usually walk away from a restaurant when we see that it's 45 minutes before closing...unless it's our usual place we eat pho. We know that we're ordering our food, eating, and paying within 30-35 minutes. They ask if we're having the usual, we nod, so they don't give us a menu. I have seen them turn customers away before, however.
We've been denied entry to a restaurant 45 minutes before closing because the kitchen was closed at 9:00 p.m. We hadn't realized it closed so early on certain days -- you know, the kind of restaurant that has 4 different hours of operation every day of the week.
We once walked in 2 hours before a restaurant closed. By the time we were served our entree 20 minutes later, half the lights were turned off and the staff was vacuuming (electric) the carpet. We could not hear ourselves talk. I'm sure the 5 other tables felt weird too.
I think people may be a little more forgiving in this economic climate. None of the restaurants I frequent have closed, but based on some of your posts in a different thread on this topic, closings have been significant. I don't see a successful restaurant bending over backwards though -- then again, maybe they do and that's why they are successful...?
Cassaendra at 10:51AM on 06/29/09
Two years ago, my daughter got her associates degree and she really wanted to 'take the walk'. We made plans to go to a nice restaurant that my husband and I had dined at and really liked near the graduation site. We didn't make reservations since we weren't sure when the ceremony would be over, but we didn't anticipate that it would be as long as it did. When we got out we called the restaurant and explained our situation and wondered if it wasn't too late. They told us to come right over and we had such a great meal. By the time we were done everyone else was gone and the chef and his parents came out and congratulated our daughter and we chatted through dessert. They were lovely and I imagine that since there was five of us and that some of us had four courses didn't hurt.
I say call and let them decline before showing up and putting them on the spot. A phone refusal is easier than in person and they should have the right to refuse someone under these types of circumstances.
janaatwg at 12:16PM on 06/29/09
I won't do this unless I'm absolutely starving, and usually then it's the only option available and you gotta jump on it. My mom and I got so turned around in Caesar's when we went to Vegas a few weeks ago that by the time we figured out where we were/had gotten lost, there was pretty much only a few restaurants open, and when one place told us they were closed for the night, we were thrilled the place next door let us sit. The hostess's attitude was effing UNREAL - you don't roll your eyes when seating someone - but the server was really nice and we made sure to get in and get out as we were also practically falling asleep ourselves.
I only waited tables in 24-hour joints (classy, I know), but I always tip well to begin with, so I always keep their quality of life in mind when I do end up doing this, and I have no problem getting take out back to my house or even just a table or bench down the street.
However, in the opposite direction, my bf and I were out at our favorite Indian restaurant back in Pittsburgh when I still lived there, and we walked in around midnight, which actually wasn't bad since the place was open until 1. About 20 til 1, we were basically asked to pay our bill and leave, being hassled the whole time about how they close at 1 so they want to leave at 1. Worst server attitude of my LIFE, with absolutely no basis to the harassment. The most absurd part of that incident, though was that we hadn't received the check yet. We were still eating but close to done, and it took another 10 minutes after the harassment for them to bring the check, which we had to ask for.
joyyy at 12:32PM on 06/29/09
I'm a cook in an open kitchen of a corporate restaurant with a policy of against being "unwelcoming" to customers near close. If they walk in at 5 to close and want 3 courses plus dessert, we have to stay and pretend we're thrilled they've come.
You can bet we're all talking about the interesting ways we could kill them and chop them into the cobb salad.
unarata at 12:49PM on 06/29/09
I think that the level of acceptance of late customers depends a lot on whether a person is an owner (or otherwise shares in the profits) or is an employee. An owner would be more likely to want to bend over backwards to make the customer happy. But a chef who is just a chef and not an owner doesn't get any additional pay for staying later.
It might also depend on how far along they are with cleaning up after the last people ordered. If you walk in and there's no one there, they've probably started a lot of cleanup, and are hoping to get out early. If you walk in and there are plenty of customers, and everyone was just served, and you can order quickly, it's not as bad.
I'd rather have a place tell me what time the kitchen closes than what time they lock the doors. And if I am a late diner, I'd have no problem with them telling me that certain things aren't available because those sections are shut down. If the problem is that I'm really hungry in an unfamiliar city, I'd be fine with them making me a cold sandwich.
dbcurrie at 1:23PM on 06/29/09
Like most of you, I couldn't enjoy my meal in such a situation. I've noticed in areas populated with tourists, who often keep unfamiliar hours, there is a greater tolerance of this, but I can't fathom walking into a neighborhood 'joint' and deliberately dining long past closing hours (I don't mean dining and dashing like @Cassanendra)
HeartofGlass at 2:56PM on 06/29/09
I've worked with chef-owners and my parents owned restaurants and I can honestly say the professional will NOT let you know that it totally sucks that someone came in 10 minutes before closing and they are only ones in the entire place an hour or two after closing. We will ALWAYS make you feel welcome and provide a great dining experience--hello, it's called the hospitality industry for a reason. But, hey we are people, too. I know people who work 9-5 jobs who start packing up at 4:45, I could be IM-ing with my sister, but at 4:50 she's signing off. Likewise, when it gets close to closing time, breaking down the line, the bar, the service area, etc. starts or has started. The customers are not or rather should not be aware of this, but the staff has already started closing duties--it's not just that workers want to go home, but the owners and managers don't want to keep 20-30 people on the clock any longer than necessary.
You said On the other hand paying customers, no matter if they walk in five minutes before closing, are still paying customers. Of course that's true, but there's a difference between a $400 dinner tab and a $75 tab. If you can't avoid being the last people at least spend some money the entire time you're in the restaurant and tip well. Don't linger after you've told the server that you're done. If you want to keep talking with your datefamily/colleague/client/mistress, go get an after dinner drink somewhere else, if you know that everythng is closed then take that as a sign.
Oh, and that chef-owner I worked for, would smile at the late-comers, welcome them, make the food, disappear into the back office and periodically poke his head out to ask the server "have they gone yet?"
wookie at 4:15PM on 06/29/09
I don't think @Cassanendra is actually "dining and dashing", is she???? She seems so nice...
Cary at 4:16PM on 06/29/09
Of course if you're Johnny Depp you know how to take care of your server when you stay way past closing.
wookie at 4:23PM on 06/29/09
FOH manangers and chefs have to at least pretend to welcome the douchebags who saunter in at 5 to close, but the linecooks and servers who actually have to deal with these poeple instead of getting the hell out for the night HATE HATE HATE them. Having to haul out and tear into my nicely wrapped and put away mis and dirty up my grill is a huge pain in the ass. And being a cook, there is zero incentive for me to stay late. A server can look forward to pocketing another tip, but I'm just gonna miss my bus, or be late to meet friends or a date.
sailordave at 6:36PM on 06/29/09
@Cary--I meant that Cassaendra was eating quickly enough (within a half-hour), with the owner's knowledge, so that the crew could get out when the place was supposed to close--as opposed to someone lingering an hour after the restaurant locked its doors.
I wonder if people who do this in a really over the top and annoying way, like @sailordave said, coming in 5 minutes before the place closed, then staying for hours, have a kind of 'self-indulgent' mentality, and are doing it more to feel 'special' rather than because they need to.
HeartofGlass at 6:51PM on 06/29/09
I would not like it unless it was a mega huge party and tipped well, yes I have been there, done that and it was well worth the wait, gave me time to prep for the next day while waiting. But for 2 people no i would not be happy. But I would never do that, if they say they are closing in 5 minutes and last call has already been called I will get food to go.
pjracz10 at 8:01PM on 06/29/09
if you're in the industry you'd understand..... the worse case scenario is, and i hate to say this ladies, because i'm a lady myself.... the two women who ask for water with lemon, share an entree - share a dessert and then sit there until you have to turn the music off, or dim the lights to give them the message..... i always hated having to say, "we're closing...." but sometimes people just didn't get it.
this is great, restaurant group therapy.
pooch at 10:06PM on 06/29/09
oh, it would take them forever to split the bill and figure out the usually light tip they'd leave.....
pooch at 10:12PM on 06/29/09
OH is a chef and is sooo sensitive to the needs of the kitchen when we go out. If it's an hour before close, he'll ask the staff if it's ok if we order. He would rather go hungry than be "That Guy."
I think he's a bit excessive, but ultimately right. It's not nice to show up at the last minute.
@janaatwg had the best idea. Call and give the restaurant the opportunity to accept or decline.
Kerosena at 3:51PM on 06/30/09
Wow, it would seem that many of you are speaking from experience. It's great to see so many expressed opinions.
I can see where everyone is coming from, and like @pooch said, if you were in the industry you'd understand. So because I am not in the industry, I became curious about this topic. I feel like even though it is a restaurants job to be hositable to their customers, customers should be equally polite and keep the workers in mind too. People often forget that servers and cooks and human too.
I agree that if you're going to go somewhere to eat and it's five minutes to closing you should make it worth the restaurant's time and effort; tip well and maybe even order a dessert. @wookie had a very good point, I said that a paying customer is still a paying customer, but it's true that there is a difference between a large tab and a small one.
@dbcurrie had a good point too, it really does depend if the chef is the owner or just a chef. The level of incentive to make the customer feel welcome is very different for each role.
Also, @cassaendra, I agree that what with the current state of economy people are likely to be a little more forgiving. For me, I've had to give up eating out at much as I usually like to and I'm sure that I am not the only person who has needed to do so.
Oh, @pooch, your comment this is great, restaurant group therapy, made me laugh.
SaltyDonuts at 5:41PM on 06/30/09
I disagree with the theory that you should "order more to make it worth the staff's time". Order something that is quick (NOT the 7 course tasting menu) eat it, pay your bill, and leave. Trust me when I tell you that when you order that $40 dollar cote-de-boeuf for two well done (cooking time 45 minutes) five minutes before close, and you hear slightly muted (or not muted at all) moans and curse words coming from the kitchen. Those moans and curse words ARE directed at you. DO NOT confuse them as moans of elation, or imagine them to be the line cooks saying "WOW, we get to cook something fabulous for these nice folks!"
If you think for a second, the people who are preparing your food are happy to mess up their stations when they should have been walking out the door to go do "that thing." THEY ARE NOT! Most people have the luxury of knowing when they are getting out of work, or when their employer wants them to work overtime... Line cooks do not, and you could make the argument that they chose their profession, and you would be right. But they will also be picking out and cooking the food you will be eating, with extreme malice and discontent.
The word is courtesy... don't at all costs, be an asshole... these good folks are cooking the food that you are going to eat. Order something easy (the fewer courses the better, and even better, something they don't have to break into their mise for, maybe soup or a sandwich) thank the staff for doing you the favor of staying open late FOR YOU because YOU.... don't own a watch... can't tell time... have no regard for other people's time.... are rude and insensitive.... Then tip them well, and leave. Keeping in mind the tipping will never mean anything to the kitchen staff.
I would never be one of those people. The management will never tell you you are being rude, hell they love it! But if you imagine the line cooks will give 2 pinches of rat shit that you get the garbage they wouldn't serve the rest of the night when you order 5 minutes to close... you would be sorely mistaken!
Pavlov at 6:08AM on 07/01/09
If the sign on the door says that you close at a specific time then you should accept customers until then.
If the sign on the door says that you stop serving or seating a certain time before you close then customers will walk away never expecting service.
Businesses should communicate with their customers. No reasonable customer is going to expect that 5 minutes before close that the entire menu will be available especially if they are well informed.
Customers aren't always right, but this is surely a situation when being jerks to them isn't any good.
dbisping at 7:49PM on 07/03/09
Many years ago, my wife and I flew to London with our 2-year-old (our one and only trip to Europe, alas) and then met some friends at a country inn in Kent. An attraction of the inn was a small but splendid restaurant. Our friends, Nancy and Rob, were stationed in France at the time, and they had ferried their 2 young children and their au pair across the Channel in 2 automobiles to meet us. The inn was our base for exploring the south of England before we returned to France with them. One day, our 2 vehicles were involved in a mishap in a roundabout, in which 1 of the vehicles was rendered inoperable. My wife, Rob, and the au pair used the operable vehicle to return with the 3 children to the inn, and I stayed behind with Nancy to attend to the damaged car and secure a rental car. The mishap occurred late in the afternoon of the Saturday before Easter, which complicated matters considerably because most repair shops were closed for the long weekend. It also was raining. When we finally returned to the inn, it was very late. But the innkeeper was waiting for us, having learned of our predicament from the other members of our group, and he had 2 snifters of Scotch in hand. And then he informed us that he had asked the chef to stay late in order to serve us dinner, long after all the other customers had departed. Twenty-five years later, I have no idea what we ate, but the extraordinary thoughtfulness of the innkeeper still brings tears to my eyes. Perhaps the chef was cursing us (and the innkeeper) all the while, but perhaps not.
jackalan at 9:25PM on 07/03/09
@jackalan - what a nice story - human kindness is always remembered and savored as much as any great meal.....
pooch at 9:44PM on 07/03/09
@dbisping, I wish all restaurants would have signs that say when they stop serving. Because although a sign can say when a place closes, some places stop serving early. I agree that it's important to communicate with customers.
@jackalan that was a lovely story.
SaltyDonuts at 7:19PM on 07/04/09
Please do not go to a restaurant if you cannot finish your meal and leave by closing time. I could make a very cogent argument for my position. However, like most things, you either have the civility to understand it or you don't. And, if you don't, I'll see you just before close and be so nice to you you will think I'm extremely glad you came in. I will treat you just as well as someone who has the courtesy and respect to be considerate of others.
twosavoie at 8:46PM on 07/04/09
I think a lot of people don't understand that when a restaurant lists a closing time, that's when they want you out. They think that's the last seating time, or the last minute you can walk in. So they see nothing wrong with popping in 15 minutes before closing. Not in a malicious way, they just don't know.
But it's not just restaurants. I used to own a retail store and people would come in 5 minutes before closing and browse. Half-hour later, they'd leave without buying anything and I'd be muttering under my breath. It was bad enough when it was just me at closing but if it was an hourly employee, now collecting overtime...grrrrr...
Then again, I went to a restaurant that listed a late closing time, but the kitchen closed much earlier. The late close was for drinking, but if you thought you could pop in at 10 pm and get a pizza, you were out of luck. A little clarity on the restaurant's part would have been nice.
dbcurrie at 9:52PM on 07/04/09
I am a line cook in a restaurant with an open kitchen, and frequently get hit with the late night diners. I can tell you right now, the kitchen staff HATES them. Granted, its the job we chose, we simply don't want to be stuck at work any longer then we have to, we don't get overtime and we don't get tipped by the people... like someone said earlier, no one wants to have to rip into there nicely wrapped mise or go back into the cooler right before they were about to leave.
lets see if i can break this down... ever make a really big dinner for family or friends and just got done cleaning up your kitchen, only to have someone else show up and eat only to have to reclean it all again? It'll drive you mad...
dyem4pb at 7:27PM on 07/06/09
I remember one time I was working at a chain sandwich counter at the college I was attending, and we would get customers who would wander over and stare at the menu on the wall (completely ignoring the fact that the the meat counter was empty, the vegetable counter was closed and cleaned, everything put away and I'm sweeping the floor) and then order something, and look all dissapointed and try to wheedle a sandwhich out of me when I told them we were closed.
I was in the habit of stashing a sandwich for myself under the counter just before closing and was sitting on my milk crate thoroughly enjoying my sandwich after closing time when a customer appeared, and as usual asked if we were open, and I told him no, to which the usual reply of wheedling and whining came, this time about him having mean teachers that kept him late in class, etc. After my last repetition of "no, we're
Chocolatesa at 5:13PM on 07/07/09
argh, hit the submit button by accident.
to continue: After my last repetition of "no, we're CLOSED" accompanied by a pointed stare, I just couldn't resist taking a big bite of my sandwich and going "mmmmm" just to rub it in. His jaw dropped, and he stammered for a bit and then managed to say "you b***h!" before walking off. I know it was really mean, but at the time after having put up with so many of those clients, it was just too easy and damn did it feel good to do that for once!! loll.
Chocolatesa at 5:22PM on 07/07/09
Worst treatment I got near closing resulted in a firing. My husband and his best friend and I went into a Bennigan's near closing time (I can't remember just how close it was) and we were the only customers. The staff was hanging out around the bar. Instead of telling us they were no longer serving, they seated us. Then they ignored us. I'm not even sure if we got drinks or menus. We stayed for maybe 10 or 15 minutes then left. As we were leaving some smart ass in the group at the bar started clapping. We were pissed, of course, and made our way to the car and another restaurant.
The friend called the manager the next day and told him/her what happened. The smart ass got fired. I'm assuming that was not his first offense and sadly that kind of poor service is prolific in the Bennigan's organization, at least in my area.
I do appreciate it when restaurants post their last service time. If I'm arriving near closing time I ALWAYS ask if I/we can still be served and then get out as quickly as possible. I related it to the assholes that email me at 3:50 asking for something to be done - I'm done at 4- and invariably the task will take longer than 10 minutes to complete. Sometimes I play nice, sometimes I pretend I didn't see it and I go home.
AuntJone at 3:54PM on 07/09/09