Food "gifts." Is this tacky?
I was thinking about giving some of my home-made vinegar to a bunch of co-workers, but I haven't found any decent small bottles that aren't going to cost me an arm and a leg if I give them away to a lot of people. And I'd rather offer the vinegar to everyone at our weekly meeting rather than singling out a few.
So...would it be horribly tacky for me to send an email around and say that if anyone wants to try the vinegar, they should bring me a small empty food-appropriate bottle?
Besides saving me the cash, it would also mean that I'd be giving the vinegar to people who really wanted it enough to make an effort to bring a bottle.
And FYI, I've searched the local kitchen and craft stores for bottles. I can get fairly cheap ones with corks, but I don't trust that the corks would stay put when the bottles are filled and traveling. I found bottles that I thought would be lovely, but they were eight bucks each, which would be fine for a few special people, but not in quantity. Cheapest sealable option would be small canning jars, but bottles make more sense for vinegar.
So...mason jar, bring-your-own-bottle, or...?
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29 Comments:
That sounds reasonable to me. I think your situation is more of food "sharing" than food gifts because you're not really giving it away for a special occassion. I bet your coworkers will love the idea.
runnereater at 1:47PM on 03/23/09
What if you chose the ones with cork tops and covered them with melted wax/ canning wax? Then they'd be fine for transport, and the cork wouldn't really be an issue once the bottle was safely in the recipient's kitchen.
Second choice would be the mason jar.
Kerosena at 1:49PM on 03/23/09
I certainly don't think that it sounds tacky. If it were me giving the vinegar, though, I would worry that people who really wanted to try it wouldn't have their own empty bottles to bring. Of course, then I suppose if they really wanted to try it they'd go to the trouble to find one, right? ;)
mollykate678 at 2:12PM on 03/23/09
Ehh....
ehhh...
Would you kill me if I said I'd be put off by having to bring my own empty bottle for a gift?
HeartofGlass at 2:16PM on 03/23/09
I'm with HeartofGlass. It's not very gifty if you have to provide your own container. I like the mason jar suggestion. You can get small canning jars at your supermarket and their pretty cheap.
emgroff at 2:23PM on 03/23/09
Is it a "gift" or are you simply sharing your homemade vinegar? If you send out an email saying you made homemade vinegar and offer to let people try it, I think that's perfectly fine. You're giving out free food...no one can complain! But if you bill it as a gift, I think you need to find jars.
cycorider at 2:24PM on 03/23/09
I think it's great that you're sharing your vinegar, and even better that your bring-a-bottle solution is earth-friendly =) I don't think it's tacky at all! You could also try leaving a bottle of it in the company kitchen so that people who bring salads in can try it out...
Wan Yan Ling at 2:26PM on 03/23/09
I have to say that I love Kerosena's idea. I'm guessing that the wax wouldn't add too much to the production cost, and it's got a bit of the handmade about it, making the gift (if it is more of a gift than a food-share) that much more thoughtful.
Adam Kuban at 2:44PM on 03/23/09
Grolsch glass beer bottles, they have a cork attached, and you can enjoy a few cold ones for yourself :-)
erinlovestoeat at 2:48PM on 03/23/09
I have to say that I would not want someone dispensing vinegar in my workplace. I think its a great idea but no don't bring bottles in and open that smell up to the general office population smell acrid.
Some of the people you work with will LOVE the idea of a homemade vinegar and some not so much. I also like Kerosena's idea. Often if you buy a nice bottle of oil or vinegar they are nicely corked and waxed.
JerzeeTomato at 3:15PM on 03/23/09
I think erinlovestoeat is onto something. Check your local wine/beer craft store or e-tailer and order a dozen flip-top bottles.
If it were me, I'd love to try your vinegar, but the likelihood of me finding and remembering a bottle on vinegar day is very slim.
popcornfordinner at 3:19PM on 03/23/09
What about Cost Plus World Market? That is if they didn't close the ones nearest you. All of mine closed, but I bought all my spice jars there CHEAP.
MaresyDotes at 3:24PM on 03/23/09
I have to agree with heartofglass ... I'd probably be a bit put off too.
caramel at 4:06PM on 03/23/09
@Jerzee, I wasn't thinking of doing the dispensing on-site (ick! I agree.), I was thinking that anyone who wanted some could bring a bottle, and I'd bring them back the next week. And if they forgot, they could bring a bottle the next week. Probably give them a choice of red or white, too, if I have sufficient quantities.
@Heart, that's what I'm curious about -- I'm not offended at all.
It's not usual for me to bring treats from my kitchen, and it's not unusual for people to walk out of meetings with cookies or candies wrapped in whatever is on hand. And most of them are leaving the meeting and going home, so it's not like they're just carrying the stuff to their desks. The vinegar is kind of like that, except we won't be sampling it at lunch and you can't just wrap it in a napkin to take it home.
Another woman will sometimes bring citrus that she gets from her MIL's tree in CA. People stuff lemons and oranges in their purses and pockets to take home.
I've still got time to hunt up some containers. I do need a few for pretty presentations, so maybe I'll hit the jackpot somewhere. There's a World Market not too far from here. I bought some jars there a while back for other stuff, but don't recall what I paid. I'll give that a try next time I'm headed that way.
dbcurrie at 4:07PM on 03/23/09
There are some wholesale options online - www.sks-bottle.com, is just one example. It would certainly be a cost-effective way to go, but the choices might be disappointing aesthetically.
GregWA at 1:32AM on 03/24/09
Sharing as opposed to gift, I think it's fine that you ask for bottles, though I'd do the actually filling of them at home. Better than fine, really. It's ecologically friendly and the vinegar only goes to those who actually want it. Also, it's really nice of you to be doing this.
So, now that I've been so helpful, if you'd just send me your address, I'll zip a bottle to you in the mail. :-)
chisai at 6:07AM on 03/24/09
Sorry db ~ I am going with tacky here.
izatryt at 9:05AM on 03/24/09
Sorry, I'm with @Heart and @iz here. Most likely, I simply wouldn't bring my own bottle, even if I were interested in sampling your homemade vinegar. The fact that you only meet once a week makes it all the more awkward.
But I wouldn't mind at all getting that vinegar in a mason jar. Since it's not a "food gift" per se, but rather "food sharing", there is absolutely nothing wrong with giving it in whatever vessels are handy/convenient and not going all out for pretty bottles.
brooke29 at 9:13AM on 03/24/09
Also sorry db - I too am going with tacky. I would suggest online; there are a ton more options than any local store, not matter how well stocked. Also, with so many places going out of busiiness, options are limitless and prices are unusually low.
My only suggestion would be to make sure the container is food safe. A lot of those containers at Cost Plus, etc. are decorative or for non-food uses, although they look like they would be a food safe item.
Finally, another advantage I see to bottling your own is that if you ever decide to retail your vinegar, you would have a great headstart on packaging options, label ideas, shelf space, breakability in transport, etc. It might be a great way to do what you love, what you are great at, and earn extra $$$. Best of luck!
serious1 at 10:29AM on 03/24/09
Try specialtybottle.com. They have tons of beautiful bottles for super cheap (like under $1), with no minimum order. I bought stuff there for wedding favors and loved their service and quality.
AnaPowell at 12:18PM on 03/24/09
I'd have to agree with HeartofGlass - I would be put off by being asked to bring my own container. If this is truly a gift, you should bottle it yourself and give it out freely. Go here for good, cheap bottles in various shapes and sizes:
http://www.specialtybottle.com/
Look under Glass Bottles -> Sauce Bottles.
MollieBeth at 12:47PM on 03/24/09
@AnaPowell -- thanks! Now, if shipping is reasonable, I'm set! I was googling for bottles online and this place never came up.
I was on the fence as to whether asking for bottles was tacky or not, but since so many reasonable people here thought it was, I'll have to assume that some of my co-workers will feel the same way. Of course, they wouldn't tell me, but you (all) will. Thanks!
As far as eco-friendly bottle re-use, the good thing is that we have good recycling programs here, so I'm not so worried. And if I go with prettier bottles, people might keep them. Personally, I repurpose a lot of bottles for my own use, and I was considering doling out the vinegar in some of those bottles, but that seemed just a little tacky to me, too. I don't mind spending a dollar or two per bottle, but when I was looking at eight bucks a bottle for nothing very fancy, it was insane.
dbcurrie at 1:12PM on 03/24/09
I was going to suggest specialtybottle.com too. I ordered small bottles from them to distribute holy water we'd brought back from The Vatican. They were inexpensive and good quality.
jmoilanen at 1:39PM on 03/24/09
If you have an Ikea near you, I got a cheap vinegar bottle there a couple years ago. I am not sure if they still carry the same one or not.
I know they carry the bottles with the stopper attached with wire that snaps closed.
I would be happy just to get some homemade vinegar, it wouldn't matter to me if it was in a mason jar etc. I could always put it in my own vinegar jar at home. But if you are making it more of a gift, you could still use a mason jar or something similar. Cover the top with a scrap of fabric and tie a piece of raffia or twine around it ito hold it on with a little tag that says "dbcurrie's kickin' vinegar" or whatever. That would make it more gift-like.
mandylynn902 at 1:48PM on 03/24/09
I'm with the "gift" vs. "sharing" crowd here. If it's a gift, it should come in pretty packaging (even a small mason jar would be sufficient.) If you're just being nice enough to share something yummy you made, then asking people to bring a container is perfectly fine. Perhaps your recipients would mind less needing to supply a container if you were careful to phrase the offer in terms of sharing your bounty/talent, and avoid saying 'I made you something but you need to get me a jar for it.'
Or, you could just use the mason jars and let your recipients put the vinegar into whatever else they wish once they get it home. The vinegar is the gift, not the bottle. (Mason makes it clear that you made it, not bought it)
AliceBlue at 2:55PM on 03/24/09
I agree with heart of glass. I think this is somewhat "tacky". How about these nice looking cheaper bottles you can buy online? http://www.specialtybottle.com/index.asp?PageAction=Custom&ID=9
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Chew on That at 2:32PM on 03/25/09
My vote is also TACKY, yes!
How about the little wine bottles from the 6 packs of single serving table wine. They usually have screw tops!
brigittesm at 2:39PM on 03/25/09
Okay, this is funny. I decided to buy some bottles when I'm ready to give some vinegar away, but in the meantime, I asked a friend (not part of the co-worker group) if she wanted some homemade vinegar when it was done brewing. The first thing she said? "I'll bring you a bottle." I said no problem, I'll have plenty of bottles when the time comes. I'm still laughing.
dbcurrie at 3:46PM on 03/26/09
Don't call it a gift.. call it SHARING.. then no problem. I'd bring you an empty bottle in a heartbeat.
TeriN at 3:57PM on 03/26/09