Do you love to cook or to eat?
I just finished reading "Comfort Food" by Kate Jacobs (great book btw). Anyway, one of the questions posed by her main character is "Do you really love to cook or to eat?" - meaning that each of us who loves food has a preference deep down.
I thought it was a great question, and one I'd never thought of.
So.....cooking or eating?? Me, I'm a cooker (but will never turn down good food - lol). Cooking calms me, and I love to feed the people in my life.
Cheers!
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42 Comments:
Cooking! I make many things that I myself don't eat. It's a love thing for my friends and family and also a creative outlet. My husband is certainly all about the eating. My sons--right now a bit of both, but I have a feeling my younger one will be all about the cooking as he gets older and I as I learn not to be the control freak kitchen diva!
dhorst at 7:49PM on 03/27/09
I am all about the cooking. Nothing makes me happier than to see people enjoying the food I prepare. I eat a little, but rarely do I sit down and eat a full meal after I have presented it.
izatryt at 7:52PM on 03/27/09
Both! But I like to cook so much that I can't eat all of what I like to make, so cooking probably wins out if you want to overanalyze it. That said I might not have started cooking like I did unless I moved somewhere that had a lacking food scene (by my high personal standards, at least).
joyyy at 8:19PM on 03/27/09
I feel the same was as joyyy. Although I want to say both I know deep down I'm really an eater since I mostly cook so I can eat the things I really want.
swampyankee at 8:22PM on 03/27/09
Both. Sometimes I want to eat and cooking is just a way of doing that. But sometimes I want to cook - put together ingredients and stir things around in the pan even if I don't feel like eating them. If I'm really hungry, then yeah there's a preference, but I don't really feel like the question works for me.
tangledgray at 8:28PM on 03/27/09
My first thought was both, but really I love to cook to see my friends enjoy what I've made. I love to plan and create a holiday or party meal. Very often on nights when I'm alone I'll have a piece of toast or a bowl of yogurt, and that's all I need.
ride&cook at 8:45PM on 03/27/09
I love to eat, first and foremost. I've loved to eat since I was a baby, apparently I inhaled everything too eagerly and too quickly since day one.
I was raised with a lot of different things on my plate and taught how to enjoy it.
I enjoy cooking, too, but I'm really pretty new at it.
I'm learning to cook bit by bit. Gotta carry on my mom's phenomenal talent at the stove and my dad's enthusiasm for good eats.
fuuchan at 8:46PM on 03/27/09
I don't know if you can really love to cook until you REALLY love to eat.
bessfour at 9:08PM on 03/27/09
Both, but I love to eat more. =)
caramel at 9:15PM on 03/27/09
Both, but I'm perfectly happy to cook things for other people that I don't eat much of myself (except for tasting, which is usually part of the cooking.) If I was only cooking for myself, I'm sure my cooking and presentation would be much simpler.
dbcurrie at 9:35PM on 03/27/09
I love to cook, but often have no interest in eating. It's not as extreme a dichotomy as with a friend of mine, though: she was a long-time vegetarian who downright enjoyed preparing big cuts of meats for everyone else. Never could understand that.
annatr at 9:39PM on 03/27/09
Eat. I'll cook because it leads to food I want, but if someone else wants to cook for me, I have no complaints.
cycorider at 10:33PM on 03/27/09
Cook. I actually did not like eating, in general, for a very long time, probably until my late teens. Yet, I've loved cooking pretty much all my life. Even now, if I were single, I would be perfectly happy with most my meals consisting of either cheese, fruit and wine or a slice of bread with something (and wine). I may forget to eat altogether. Don't get me wrong, I do love and enjoy good food and exquisite meals (and how:-)). But if I were to choose between cooking and eating, it would be a no-brainer for me.
Nothing in the world feels better than cooking for people I love, and seeing them enjoy the food I've cooked for them.
brooke29 at 10:51PM on 03/27/09
Cook. I love food, don't get me wrong, and eating an amazing meal is, well, it can be life changing. But for me, eating takes a back seat to being able to provide that life-changing moment for others. If you can do that, you can whip yourself up an amazing meal anytime, right?
sailordave at 10:52PM on 03/27/09
I loooooove to eat. Which is why I've learned to love to cook, too. But like many others have said, I also love seeing other people enjoy what I've cooked for them.
buffy at 10:57PM on 03/27/09
Cooking--which makes it hard now that my children have grown up and moved from home. Nothing gives me more pleasure than planning and preparing a big meal. I start working on Christmas somewhere around Labor Day!
smallblondemom at 12:07AM on 03/28/09
I think they go hand in hand. However, I think people who love to eat make the BEST cooks!
gourmetgal at 12:13AM on 03/28/09
I love to eat, and in order to have the food I love eating, I need to cook. Example, if I would like a tasty bowl of chicken soup, I refuse to open a can of Campbell's. I have to make it myself, as I love eating a steaming bowl of homemade chicken soup. My family is very happy I love to eat, as they know what to expect when they come to visit. I cook for my family, but is is a result of loving to eat and secondarily sharing the good stuff with my family.
Suzzanne at 1:25AM on 03/28/09
I like to eat - no one else in my family likes to cook. So I cook - eat - cook some more - grocery shop - establish menus - basically run my kitchen like it's a small restaurant.
To answer your question - I like to do both.
Ribster at 3:47AM on 03/28/09
Of course I love to eat but I tend to love to cook more and most of the time don't even eat that much of what I cook. I cook for my husband and daughter and really prefer their reactions to my cooking over my own.
arm1970 at 6:34AM on 03/28/09
YES !!
NanaJoie at 7:54AM on 03/28/09
I love to cook. My love of cooking came from my love of eating at first. It has evolved into my love to feed people. My family always comes first, but times are rough for many and sometimes a home cooked meal is just the thing to brighten their day.
finsbigfan at 9:00AM on 03/28/09
I love to cook if it was just me I doubt I'd do much but live on protein shakes and crackers. Most of the cooking I do is forSO, when he was away in feb I had to go to the store once for soy milk and dog food. However I do love good food and thats one of the reasons I rarely eat out, in hee haw hell there are just not enough resteraunts that serve good food, never mind food I feel I couldnt make at home for 1/3 the price.
huneybumper at 9:05AM on 03/28/09
I love both and don't quite get the concept of loving one and not the other. If I just loved to eat and not cook, then I'd be at the mercy of outside sources whenever I wanted something tasty to eat, and correspondingly, if I didn't love to eat, why would I want to rattle all them pots and pans? I mean, I love to cook for other people, but I'll usually go to just as much effort when I'm only cooking for me. I'm a firm believer in "Tonite Lucelllus dines with Lucellus."
chisai at 9:36AM on 03/28/09
I'm definitely a cooker. Of course, I love eating, or I probably wouldn't have learned to cook well. But there is something very special about the act of feeding someone something delicious. I live for the days we have company and I can put together a big meal that makes everyone happy. I thrive in those moments when I learn a guest has a food allergy and I have to come up with an alternative.
So on second thought, I am neither a cooker or an eater. I am a feeder.
ErikaWaz at 10:06AM on 03/28/09
Both!
hmw0029 at 10:23AM on 03/28/09
If forced by threat of bamboo under fingernails, I'd pick cooking first...but just by a nose. I thoroughly enjoy eating but there's something about the blissful face of a person who's just consumed food I prepared that squeaks out ahead of my own personal pleasure.
therealchiffonade at 10:35AM on 03/28/09
I cook a lot I don't eat as much as I cook and I often cook things I don't like. Cooking and baking are my art form. So I cook therefore I am. (this also holds true for shopping lol)
JerzeeTomato at 11:18AM on 03/28/09
i have that book on my shelf but haven't read it. i'll pull it out and read it this weekend!
cybercita at 11:47AM on 03/28/09
Both equally , but neither under pressure - time or otherwise.
And I like to cook alone - I can lose my focus too easily with others watching.
moibec at 2:44PM on 03/28/09
I'm pretty much both as like many before me. But sometimes I feel myself leaning toward more of the "eat" side.
Sounds like a great book. I'll have to check that out next time i'm out a barnes and noble.
sunscaper at 3:17PM on 03/28/09
Eating. I enjoy the zen and creativity of cooking, but when I eat out the food is much, much better than what I can cook
CanadianFoodieGirl at 4:07PM on 03/28/09
cooking wins over eating. although i do love to eat as well. but i really enjoy cooking even if i'm making something that i personally won't eat, like meat.
vanillapudding99 at 4:26PM on 03/28/09
Embrace the power of "and" -- this is not an either-or question.
thepictsie at 5:04PM on 03/28/09
like @dhorst, I love to cook things which I might not even eat. I get a bug in my head for a certain recipe, and go for it. I just don't have a big appetite. I do love to eat, but not much. Luckily I have a very hungry husband and 15 year old son which will gladly eat everything in sight!!!
lamora at 1:30AM on 03/29/09
Now that I've thought about it, I've got to say that a lot of my cooking is also based on my desire to recreate something that I'm craving. When it comes to sweets, though, I might be perfectly happy with creating it and tasting it and then I'm done. I've satisfied the cooking and the eating cravings, and I end up giving the rest away.
And sometimes I make things just to see if I can. So that's just about cooking/
I do love to eat, though. And honestly, there are times when I'm hungry but there's nothing worth eating, and I'd rather be hungry until I can have something that I really want to eat.
dbcurrie at 3:19AM on 03/29/09
Cooking! I'm another one that will have just cereal when alone - or if I'm feeling gourmet, cambozola with fig jam on whole wheat bread and a glass of red wine.
cowprintrabbit at 3:57AM on 03/29/09
I grew up in a non-cooking household. My interest in food began as a desire to get healthy, improve my sucky athletic performance and enjoyment of my body, and general disgust with my addiction to junk food--or not so much junk food, but sweets.
I am single, so I don't have lots of experience cooking for a crowd, and as other have observed it's not as much fun cooking elaborate food for yourself.
I would say what I enjoy the most is selecting good food that is good for me, but I don't really have enough cooking experience to put cooking first. The people around me have such different tastes whom I would cook for regularly it wouldn't be that much fun to cook for them--my father likes really oily, cheesy, fishy food and is the type to pour a half a jar of Costo mustard on something before he tastes it, and loving food means eating a lot to him, and that's not the type of eater I wish to go back to being.
I guess I am a selfish eater, since my health is the number one priority in my cooking and preparation.
HeartofGlass at 5:15AM on 03/29/09
I agree with everyone who said people who LOVE to eat make the BEST cooks!!
caramel at 1:07PM on 03/29/09
Yes.
BananaMonkey at 4:00PM on 03/30/09
Both. In my kitchen, I'm first a cook and rarely eat simply because by the time I get done tasting, reseasoning, tasting, repeat....once I get it just right, I'm over it. But my family sure does appreciate it.
Now, if you'r cooking or I'm going out to eat....it's all about the food. I'm still not a big eater though, but I love the food so much, I always want one bite of everything just to try it. I get bored very easily with a big plate of one thing.
jcrisco at 4:12PM on 03/30/09
Both, but really its eating. It makes me sad that there are so many of you that don't take the pleasure of eating the great food you spend so much time and energy preparing. I understand the satisfaction of cooking for others (I like it too), but why miss out on the additional enjoyment of eating it yourself? I don't think I'll ever understand this mindset, just like I'll never understand people who don't like chocolate or dogs.
Embackus at 4:24PM on 03/30/09