The workplace potluck/carry-in: like or loathe?
We had a carry-in this week to say farewell to a co-worker. There are 10 of us and I think there was enough food to feed 2 or 3 times that number of people!
Everything was great, from the chicken wings and homemade summer sausage to the meatloaf and authentic flautas. We had a wide range of foods and everyone was stuffed to the gills.
So what's the consensus? Do you dread choking down your cubicle mate's "famous jello salad" or can your co-workers lay out a mean spread like mine?
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What a timely topic! We had our office Christmas luncheon yesterday. The people in our office prepare some of the worst food I have ever tasted. I ended up eating potato chips and Csesar salad. I brought the salad.
So, I am on team Loathe!
izatryt at 9:01AM on 12/18/08
I always make something I really like to eat, just in case. I remember one time someone brought some chicken thighs, skin on, that they had cooked to death and then drenched in garlic butter. I was amazed at the shriveled up dryness of the chicken. No amount of butter could cure that dish. On the other hand, there have been some seriously good eats at other potlucks, so I say make something you like and hopefully you'll be treated to some fine food from people with different backgrounds.
dhorst at 9:21AM on 12/18/08
check their fingernails and their hair -- if they look well cared for - i'll eat what they bring ..... also if they come in with cat or dog hair on their clothes - forgettaboudit. (i have many rescues here and do NOT get their hair on my clothes, especially when i'm cooking).... but usually i enjoy tasting other people's food -- especially if it's something exotic (and i don't mean snakes or frogs....)
pooch at 9:23AM on 12/18/08
We always have an "Oktoberfest" here in the office, and there seems to be an overabundance of store bought potato salad and soggy macaroni dishes. But, every now and then an inspired dish will grace the table and surprise us all. I think it may be worth it for those unexpected tasty morsels...like this year someone brought an amazing brocolli salad which I took way more than my share of.
juliebugsmama at 9:46AM on 12/18/08
@juliebugsmama ~ did the broccoli salad have bacon and raisins?
PerkyMac at 9:54AM on 12/18/08
Ours is today. The cheesecake is already in the refrigerator and when I leave the computer, I'm putting together a riff on Nigella's leftover turkey Vietnamese noodle salad to bring. We're lucky; lots of people at the office like to cook and work there part time which means they can bring in stuff they've just made, like me. One fellow is a demon smokemeister, and his tenderloin is a dream.
I've worked in places where the reverse was true, to be sure, and I sympathize with you all, but I love this party and the silly gift exchange.
lemons at 10:00AM on 12/18/08
We did potlucks often in one office where I worked and a co-worker (who had 10 kids and barely weighed over a hundred pounds and looked the same age as her oldest child) used to bring in a beef tenderloin that she brought straight from the oven. I swear that was the best meat I have ever tasted, bar none. I wanted to eat nothing else and lick the roasting pan. I can't believe I never got her recipe. I'm pretty sure she got it from a butcher, and money was no object in her household. I've made it and it was to die for, but never quite as good as Joanie Dolan's.
PerkyMac at 10:00AM on 12/18/08
I am VERY picky about food, so I am extremely glad that my office doesn't do this, or else I'd offend a lot of people by refusing to eat their infamous weirdo dish.
Southern_bella at 10:01AM on 12/18/08
@Perky -- Yes, it did. I know that's a pretty standard brocolli salad, but it was quite tasty nonetheless, and a welcome respite from the rest of the rather blech food on the table. Hence, the greed.
juliebugsmama at 10:06AM on 12/18/08
We had ours last night! It was really fun - though I'm lucky to work with great people (all with clean fingernails :) and most of them seem to be really good cooks. I made the Butternut-Cheese Pie from Cooking Light (doubled it and made it in a 9x13 pan), and it seemed to go over well, was one of the first dishes to disappear. One lady made the best meatballs I've ever had, and there were a couple of great desserts too. So put me in the "like" column, I guess!
CookiePie at 10:13AM on 12/18/08
@juliebugs ~ I asked because I LOVE that salad.
PerkyMac at 10:13AM on 12/18/08
Ours are a little hit or miss. We had one dismal fundraiser potluck where there was only weird cold salads (I had pea salad, potato salad, pasta salad, etc). The lady who heads our social committee makes this decidedly bland kielbasa soup ... she keeps bragging that it's so easy because you just toss pasta, a can of beans, a can of tomatoes, and some sliced, browned kielbasa in and people always tell her it's good ... but while it's not *bad* per se ... I can never finish even half a bowl.
Our most recent potluck was to send off our newly married, much loved custodian. We covered four tables with food (~100 people in the office) ... so it seems the better the reason for the potluck, the better the food. Several people brought fried chicken, we had four crocks of meatballs, the super bitchy lady from hr makes a MEAN chili, and TONS of other food. I brought in a cold israeli couscous salad (mimicks the chop salad from cowboy ciao for any phoenicians reading this) and it was gone pretty quick.
mmmm food.
joyyy at 10:37AM on 12/18/08
I like them although ours mainly consist of food I will eat but probably not cook for myself. Our fare usually consists of recipes you would find on the side of a Velveeta box or a Cambell's soup can. You will ALWAYS find the hamburger/Velveeta/Rotel nacho dip and meatballs drowning in some type of .sauce. The stuff usually isn't the most flavorful and would never be considered health food. I have tried to bring in things with a little more creativity, but the people in my office are not very adventurous eaters. I have had success with kicked up versions of dishes they are familiar with. I guess I would say I love getting together with them, but on the food itself I would lean towards loathe.
kyle25 at 10:59AM on 12/18/08
I don't really care for them, I am very leery of other peoples cleanliness and I really don't like the idea of eating something made by people that for all I know don't have a clue about cross contamination. I am kind of a germ freak. :)
stewmeat at 11:09AM on 12/18/08
I have a standard of eating other peoples food. You can judge me however you want, but it is what it is.
I look at the person and their workspace. If they are a generally grimy person, with unkempt hair, skin, nails, spots/stains/animal hair on clothes and just a generally bedraggled look to them, Im not eating it. If their workspace is a hot mess and they are always losing things, misplacing documents, handing in work with coffee stains, Im not eating it.
If I have been in the persons home and it is also a hot mess, animals roaming around, Im not eating it.
Now, generally, if I know a person is as freakin neurotic as I am about the way I look, behave and keep my home, I might give it a whirl after close inspection. Otherwise, I just stick with what I know. (I or my close circle of other good cooks/co-workers have made).
ChelleyD01 at 11:12AM on 12/18/08
We have a wide variety:
Some people make their family recipe of baklava and it's great.
Some people pick up a cheesecake sampler from their local grocery store.
I try to pick out the stuff that looks good and isn't from the deli counter.
saraann at 11:19AM on 12/18/08
My work team recently had a pot luck holiday party. The boss brought spiral cut ham and my co-workers brought cornbread, "garbage" mashed potatoes (they had sour cream, chives and bacon in them), asian noodle salad, and green bean casserole. I brought home made mac & cheese. Everything was wonderful and we had enough food for an army
amethiste at 11:21AM on 12/18/08
So to all you people who judge your coworkers so harshly and refuse to eat their food (whatever, by all means, please do what makes you happy/sane) ... do you also abstain from eating in restaurants since you can't inspect the kitchen or the cook's nails/home?
joyyy at 11:22AM on 12/18/08
@joyyy no, but it is just a mental thing. I can rationalize that kitchen is full of professionals who have been trained in the art of food preperation. The ones that bring in food of the office party are slovenly pigs! ;)
In reality though, I have worked in kitchens and seen what goes on, it is surprising I even eat out at all. I have also witnessed countless home cooks grab raw chicken with tongs, then use those same tongs to plate the chicken. These are the same people that think rinsing their hands with water = clean.
Either way its a crap shoot.
stewmeat at 11:30AM on 12/18/08
I kind of feel badly for those of you forced to work with such grungy co-workers. These are office jobs?
bobbob at 11:46AM on 12/18/08
Also, now that I think of it, one of the few other people at my office who I have ever heard talk about food and cooking with a love and passion that rivals my own is also the, dare I say, grossest guy in the office. He smokes a LOT (I used to smoke and quit, and this guy helps put any cravings I get to bay) and is constantly coughing, rarely even bothering to cover his mouth. I think I'm safe just stealing his recipes since I never see him bring stuff in for potlucks. But still. blech
joyyy at 11:54AM on 12/18/08
I like it. Most people try to bring something that is their specialty, and I like to taste and get new ideas. I also like getting compliments on my food :)
But I understand those who loathe it, too. Some people just don't like eating things from unfamiliar kitchens. I have one co-worker who is super picky, and another who is a germophobe. I don't take it personally if they don't want to join in, and I hope others don't mind if I'm not into their broccoli salad (sorry juliebug & perk).
Kerosena at 12:20PM on 12/18/08
Potlucks are great when you can trust the people. :P
I don't pick up food that I suspect I won't like, e.g., cilantro all over the dish. I don't feel as guilty about skipping over someone's dish as I do when I can't hide throwing away someone's dish that doesn't match my tastebuds.
Potlucks at my workplace can sometimes be a bit dramatic depending on who is hosting it. Someone is always in the dog house and their platter ends up on the floor or thrown back in the fridge for no real reason. I stopped contributing because if it's not me, it's going to be someone else...it's not right. Well, that, and I usually end up with diarrhea a couple hours later.
Cassaendra at 12:31PM on 12/18/08
potlucks, much like buffets in general, gross me out.
i'm generally pretty wary (and skeptical) of other people's cooking.
gastronomeg at 12:32PM on 12/18/08
I love to sample other people's cooking! Having worked here for 15 years, I know whose broccoli salad to avoid. But we have a core group of very good cooks. Our holiday luncheon this week featured some incredibly good butternut squash braised in butter and thyme, an awesome parsnip saute, and a few other truly excellent dishes. I skipped the dried out turkey and yucky cornbread dressing. But there was a smoked ham that was to die for. I need to find out its provenance.
Knitter at 1:00PM on 12/18/08
OK, are some people really foodies, or are they just OCD?? I was not aware that I had to look like a professionally packaged TV chef in order to have my potluck contributions be acceptable.
I work full time and have 3 kids. Some mornings I throw my hair in a ponytail. Some mornings I don't have time to put makeup on. Some of these mornings may possibly be potluck days - most likely because I stayed up late the night before, after my kids had gone to bed, making something I hoped other people might enjoy.
Most days at work I wouldn't notice if your hair was "unkempt," or if your nails are "grungy," because I am busy doing my JOB. I need this job. I support a family of 5 on less than $30K a year. Potlucks mean that for the price of whatever I bring, I get the kind of lunch I can rarely afford. I have food likes and dislikes too, but I would never think of being judgmental about what was brought, and certainly not about who brought it. I am merely GRATEFUL that so many people are willing to share.
Tis the season for a little compassion, folks, don't you think?
akk328 at 1:18PM on 12/18/08
Can we start a separate section for the voting threads?
ccbweb at 1:32PM on 12/18/08
Great arguments for and against. I guess I didn't really concentrate on who brought what and how clean he/she is. The purpose of our carry-in was bittersweet as we were saying good bye to someone who has worked here for 30+ years. I wasn't about to judge a single dish that graced the table and wouldn't regardless of the reason for the dinner.
I can understand how some people's dishes don't suit the taste of others. I can honestly say I enjoyed everything I ate at ours, which is why I suggested we do it every week. My co-workers objected, however, because we'd probably all end up severely obese if we ate like that on a weekly basis!
AuntJone at 1:45PM on 12/18/08
My point exactly, AJ...you were focusing on the occasion and the sharing, as it should be.
akk328 at 1:51PM on 12/18/08
We have them several times a year and they are hit and miss. One was a soup theme and we had about 8 types of soup and the rest filled in with salads, breads, desserts. We have our share of store boughts, but would rather have staff participate and enjoy rather than thinking they needed to bring something over-the-top, from scratch in order to take part.
One of the best potluck stories isn't from work but from a social group that gets together every month for dessert and conversation. This took place back in the late 1950's or early '60's. (the group, mainly farm wives, has been together in some form for close to 80 years) They had a Sunday night potluck and brought the husbands to share the meal. EVERY member brought a pie! No meats, no vegies, no salads, just pie. Since then they usually send around a sign-up sheet so there's a little protein! I'm sure the old farmers loved the pie, but would have appreciated some meat and potatoes first.
dutchgal at 2:04PM on 12/18/08
I am staying perched atop my pedestal. I will also say, AGAIN, that I am easily the single most bitter and hateful bitch in the entire Western Hemisphere and I am perfectly okay with that. I can, and shall, remain judgemental when it comes to what I CONSUME, especially when I sincerely doubt some of the people I work with can change a printer cartridge without it turning into the Spanish Inquisition let alone follow good food practices, up to and including avoiding food borne illness.
Compassion? Screw that AND "the season". It is what it is and people are what they are. Save the lecture on good nature toward all. Foul is foul.
ChelleyD01 at 3:31PM on 12/18/08
For the most part, potlucks are fine with me. I don't expect everyone to bring in home-cooked marvels, but there are always a few shining stars at every event. And of course, there are a few that should be avoided. But that's fairly easy to do at one of these events, without hurting feelings.
Then again, hubby had a company potluck yesterday, and he's been ill since. Not sure whether it's a food issue or the flu, but he's not a happy camper today.
dbcurrie at 4:33PM on 12/18/08
I always take everything and eat it, I was brought up to not judge what someone brought I was brought up to be thankful that I have food at all , because there are many that do not.
pjracz10 at 5:16PM on 12/18/08
@Chelley~I think you and Dr. Greg House have something in common! The powers of observation and deduction along with a very blunt delivery of the truth. Baa, Humbug. I can't wait for a new episode of House. I'll be jonesin' until mid January. Please, please give us House addicts our fix with your acerbic wit ; )
dhorst at 5:49PM on 12/18/08
It's a funny thing. I can't stand to breath the air any where near someone that is hacking and coughing, but I will eat potluck at our parties without even thinking about who prepared it. To think that I won't touch the doorknob that "hacky gaggy wheezy" has touched but will eat food that they made... hmm..
floridagirl at 6:26PM on 12/18/08
@floridagirl ROTfl you should send this into a poet contest you would win 1st prize.
pjracz10 at 8:55PM on 12/18/08
i love them. i don't feel obligated to eat everything. and when someone really wants me to try theirs. i just take a little and cover it with my napkin if it's god awful, and hope they don't notice.
dearrie at 9:00PM on 12/18/08
Have to ask this, are the people who are verging to the OCD in this thread the same people who, ooh and ahh over those Mexican foodcarts they've "discovered" in the city?
Mares at 9:43PM on 12/18/08
pjracz... glad I could make you laugh. :) Seriously though, it is so weird the things that these threads make you realize about yourself. That should have been a no brainer to have realized, but I never thought about it until this. I guess I just get so worked up and excited about food, I lose any common sense I may have had. I am definately checking fingernails tomorrow!
floridagirl at 12:42AM on 12/19/08
It may be the other half who is cooking the meal. The past few pot lucks at work, my husband has made the dishes. That way he controls what goes in, how much we are spending, and doesn't get angry at my stories of how the first group of ppl took all the shrimp and left the chicken, noodles, etc. of the pad thai or all the raspberries and blackberries and left behind the kiwis.
I never understood why people go to pot lucks and pick through and take ALL of the "expensive" stuff.
Once, I brought a cheesecake from Cheesecake Factory to celebrate my coworker's birthday. My husband was angry because of the amount of money we spent - it wasn't THAT much. Anyway, someone brought a platter of deviled eggs, someone else brought a cake, and most people just brought themselves.
While we were setting up the table for the birthday person, someone from the other office (not part of the group celebrating) came by and took half my cheesecake and ALL of the deviled eggs. We had told her the party hadn't started, but she put everything on one of our platters and walked off with it. At least she said thanks...I guess.
Cassaendra at 8:51AM on 12/19/08
ALL the deviled eggs? Wow...that gives me a stomach ache just thinking about it.
akk328 at 9:12AM on 12/19/08
@floridagirl ROTFL (still love that what you said above) I agree w/you, but the way you worded that could be first place winner of a poetry contest, well said. Pat on the back Floridagirl.
@Cassaendra WTF, that is just crazy, she took all the eggs? Didn't anyone say anything?
pjracz10 at 7:42PM on 12/19/08
@Cassaendra ~ Unless she was my boss, I would have tackled her to the ground. Heck, for deviled eggs, I'd even tackle my boss.
PerkyMac at 7:55PM on 12/19/08
Oh my! What are you putting in these deviled eggs? The whole darn plate? Aren't you glad that you weren't sharing office space with her. I mean, whew! Can I get a little "toot toot"....
floridagirl at 10:48PM on 12/19/08
Once...while working with 10 co-workers, we would alternate the baking of a birthday cake for a co-worker. One year it landed on a dear lady, now long retired. She brought in a beautiful sheet cake with fluffy chocolate frosting. The cake was cut into squares and plated. We all were standing around celebrating the birthday girl, cake in hand. We suddenly noticed the center of the cake. There was a deep depression and the dear lady had filled it with frosting to level the top. Someone mentioned the 3 inches of "oh it's delicious" frosting in the center. The dear lady then proceeded to tell us that she had made the cake the night before and laughingly told us that she woke up the next morning and one of her cats were sleeping on the cake!!! Me, being always the most outspoken of the gang...was speechless, cake-filled fork halted halfway to pie-hole...staring slack-jawed at that laughing confession. She even regaled us with the fact that it took her an hour to pick out all the cat hairs.
Since then...I'm very wary about co-workers...even the ones that don't glibbly relate the shocking truth!!!
lamora at 12:02AM on 12/20/08
I am a freak clean person when I make food for guests, can you imagine them getting sick? Also have a food handlers certificate, from the poorer days. The problem we had recently at a potluck, they had all the children line up to make a plate before the adults, no sneeze guard no hand sanitizer, we bolted.
Shelleyanne at 10:05AM on 12/20/08
@lamora ~ throughout this thread, I kept thinking that I would probably trust most of the people I ever worked with to bring clean, safe food to a potluck. Maybe not so good for you, or even culinarily (is that a word?) edible, but the sleeping cat and cat hair plucking got through my thick skull. Oh dear God! I know people who love their pets so much, they would likely do the same. I need to rethink (my Mom would challenge that word in Scrabble) my laissez-faire position.
PerkyMac at 10:16AM on 12/20/08
I was looking forward to mine! I was going to bring caramel flan (everyone at my work likes dessert and it doesn't require heating or special serving tools). Unfortunately it was canceled due to lack of interest.
ag3208 at 9:07PM on 12/22/08