"You made WHAT?"
That's the response I got from my hubby on Tuesday night when I told him what I had made for dinner. What illicited this incredulous response? Salisbury Steak. Yes. I admit it. I actually produced this gastronomic anomaly in my kitchen, and served it to my family. On purpose. Allow me to purge my soul:
We are on a tight budget. Very tight. I'm trying to utilize all leftovers, and still make healthy and tasty meals for my family. We get tired of the same old things, day in and day out. I'm trying to shake things up a bit...get creative...even if it means treading on culinary ground a bit shaky. I made a WONDERFUL French Onion Soup the other night. Family loved it! I had leftovers. And some ground beef. Instead of plain old burgers (for which I would have had to get buns and french fries...) or the usual ground meat and tomato mixture over rice or pasta...I decided to try a recipe that had been calling my name. One for good old fashioned Salisbury Steak served with French Onion Soup Gravy. I made the "steaks" with fresh parsley and garlic, and seared them well in a pan. With the drippings I made a roux and added my leftover soup...which formed a delicious flavorful gravy. I served it with cheesy garlic bread and we sprinkled parm cheese over top. It was not the Salisbury Steak of my public elementary school youth. It was flavorful, fresh, yummy and impressive looking. My kids devoured and despite his initial misgivings, my husband declared after wiping the last morsel from his mouth, "Wow. That was surprisingly good! Do we have leftovers?"
I daresay I was almost embarassed to admit I had attempted to make a TV dinner-type food...one that has had such a "bad rap"...but I was really surprised with the results, and I definitely will be making it again.
Tell us Fellow SE foodies....admit...confess....purge your souls....what meal do you regularly make your family that "gourmands" may scoff and turn their noses up at? We're all family here....
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51 Comments:
Tuna casserole. It's primal childhood comfort food.
Plus, if I'm not *really* in the mood to cook but feel like I should for whatever reason, I throw together some kind of casserole and call it "goo" or "moosh" modified by a major ingredient - often, "ground turkey moosh."
I will never be ashamed of not making myself crazy trying to cook something "gourmet".
wellred at 11:38AM on 11/21/08
Salmon cakes, and the salisbury steak sounds really really good!!
Markbb at 11:43AM on 11/21/08
Beef Tips in the crock pot. Nothing like it for a taste of nostalgia. But somehow, mine don't taste like the ones I ate from the melamine lunch trays!
And juliebugsmama, I LOVE Salisbury Steak!!
hungryinhouston at 11:43AM on 11/21/08
i will admit that on occasion we have eaten hamburger helper.
there, i said it.
french tart at 11:45AM on 11/21/08
@french tart -- well done. don't you feel cleansed? :o)
juliebugsmama at 11:47AM on 11/21/08
@ french tart
My roommate made that the other night! My parents refused to make that sort of thing for me when I was little, so I jumped at the chance to try it. I took one bite and decided that it would make for excellent "eat while drunk" food. Not bad at all.
Alyrmc at 11:49AM on 11/21/08
Oh and I guess I should confess to preparing Ramen with curry powder and chickpeas as my "when totally broke" meal. It's pretty awful...but when I was vegan I craved flavor like nothing else, so I have a high tolerance for weirdly seasoned and overly salty food.
Alyrmc at 11:51AM on 11/21/08
@Markbb -- Hubby loves salmon. I'd like your recipe if you'd part with it.
juliebugsmama at 11:51AM on 11/21/08
heh. my husband is a chef, and there are days when we get home and life's been a bitch so we resort to hamburger helper or pizza hut. yeah, if my mom knew, she'd have a fit. we never ever ever had that growing up.
french tart at 11:55AM on 11/21/08
Feel no shame, you did a fine thing, JBmama. Your family certainly is not suffering, in fact they are happy. It's the poor saps who never bothered to learn to cook who will be suffering now that they can't afford to eat out all time or pick up expensive pre-cooked dinners from the gourmet store. I predict economic conditions are going to get a whole lot of folks into their expensive Viking kitchens which have barely seen a spot of grease other than in the microwave real soon. Let them learn from trial and error how to feed themselves. We've got a jump on them all.
Nothing wrong with Salisbury Steak or the pinto beans and ham hocks my grandfather raised me on or his fried chicken with milk gravy. I learned the simple basics from him--and how to survive. He had a hot plate and an electric skillet and turned out honest good food at all times. While I can now make Paella if I want to with seafood and imported smoked paprika and saffron--I don't need that sort of thing most of the time. It can wait for special occasions.
robincat at 12:12PM on 11/21/08
If I were to recreate, it would be the Swanson TV dinner - fried chicken, mashed potatoes, corn and a brownie. Dad "cooked" those on evenings when Mom had to go to PTA or whatever - a rare treat to eat in front of the TV, which was never allowed any other time, and I loved the greasy food and chocolate dessert - what kid wouldn't? We even got TV tray tables just for the Swansons!
PerkyMac at 12:20PM on 11/21/08
@juliebugsmama This is from a can
Cocktail Shrimp puree'd and add mayo with dry mustard powder,egg,chopped scallions or red onion and Old bay for seasoning.
Mix all the above with a can of salmon and form into pattis and refrigerate...when ready to fry dredge the pattis in panko and frie until golden brown..don't overhandle cause they will fall apart, and don't walk away when frying they'll burn quickly. Sorry for the crappy format on the recipe
Markbb at 12:29PM on 11/21/08
@thanks Markbb -- I'll have to try them.
juliebugsmama at 12:34PM on 11/21/08
What's to scoff? You made a delicious and nourishing meal for your family that was enjoyed by all. Isn't that what's important? coincidentally I have leftover homemade French onion soup and a pound of ground beef in my freezer. I now have inspiration for those items.
Last night I came home so very late and hubby is having oral surgery on Monday, so our dinner was cream cheese omelets with buttered toast, vicodin for hubby (poor baby), hot tea for me and off to bed.
wookie at 12:36PM on 11/21/08
Sounds like you made a perfectly delicious meal. I agree, there's nothing to scoff at. It's like trying to imply something negative about someone for having the middle name Hussein.
simon at 12:41PM on 11/21/08
My mom used to make this dish she called "chinese hot dish" ... even though there was pretty much nothing even remotely asian about it. It had Liption chicken noodle soup (the dehydrated stuff I think) sausage, pimentos ... I want to make it again but need to get the recipe from my mom. Weirdest thing though, one of my roommates in college who was perpetually making things on that level or far below (like a lot of hamburger/tuna helper things that looked BEYOND nasty) saw me eating it and noted how disgusting it looked ... even though it actually was on par with or a small step up from the quality of most of the food she ate.
joyyy at 12:53PM on 11/21/08
haha, well said simon. @jb'smama, I agree with everyone else on your yummy sounding dinner and applaud your innovation. @Perk, weren't the nights when Mom worked and Dad "cooked" fun? Our dad made S.O.S. from his army days. Yes, that is ground meat with milk gravy on toast. We loved it. I made it for my boys one night and it was a huge hit. Due not in small part I'm sure , to the name.
But my big confession, Manwiches.
carolrsfMISSESTEXAS at 1:09PM on 11/21/08
I boil a chicken. I used to do this when I was young, single and saving for my first house (early 90s).
1 small chicken
8 cups of water
2 envelopes of onion soup mix
1 large chopped onion
1 bay leaf
2 lbs of slived potatoes
1 cup of veggies mixed, string beans
some not so pretty tomatoes
10 cloves of garlic
Clean up the bird and wash it then boil the water then add everything to the pot, bring it down to simmer and leave it alone for a hour or so.
Everyone used to fight over this it had great gravy.
We used to grab a baguette and just stuff our faces.
The crowd got so big, I had to make 3 chickens. Which still at 2 bucks and change were still a bargain.
JerzeeTomato at 1:51PM on 11/21/08
Skillet lasagna. It's a recipe from Cook's Illustrated that even they were slightly embarrassed about, but it's quick, tasty, reasonably healthy, and my husband can cook it. What's not to like?
Ok, what makes is really embarrassing is that we use jarred marinara sauce instead of making our own. The instructions are all right there, but we actually prefer to use the jar.
There, I've said it.
(of course, last night I had a lovely cave-aged gruyere and prosciutto panini with... Campbell's tomato soup. I don't like my homemade tomato soup because it doesn't taste like the can. What can I say? I'm a study in contradictions.)
cyberroo at 1:55PM on 11/21/08
Frozen pizza! Sometimes it's not bad, and sometimes it is just worth it.
Laurel E at 2:06PM on 11/21/08
Faux stroganoff with Amy's cream of mushroom soup, ground beef or turkey, mushrooms & egg noodles. Usually with steamed broccoli. It's fast & the kids (and adults) like it. @ Markbb, we have salmon cakes at least once a month. Always one of my five year old son's favorite meals!
Melinda at 2:21PM on 11/21/08
all i have to say is aint no shame -- we are all on serious eats because we love food. but it doesn't have to be all truffles all the time!
plus -- the salisbury steak sounds like you put a lot of work and love into it, and clearly it was delicious!
megannesta at 2:26PM on 11/21/08
Sorry to hear that the cheddar is tight juliebugsmama,
I'm ashamed of my additiction to Chef Boyardee Beeferoni--
I get some really weird looks at work and I just say: "Yeah, I could never have it growing up so I'm eating my fill of preservatives now"
When my budget runs low; we buy lots of ground beef too for chilis and pasta sauces I can freeze. We also buy stew-meat and make giant portions of stew...I've seen some casserole suggestions out here too!
hungrychristel at 2:29PM on 11/21/08
French Onion chicken...go ahead, gourmands, scoff! :)
Hillary
Chew on That
Chew on That at 2:44PM on 11/21/08
Kudos to a fellow Leftover Repurposer. I often will make more roast, or chicken than the 3 of us can eat for one meal, and then use the leftovers to create another meal. My DH and son are constantly impressed at what appears on their plate midweek an hour after I get home from work. Hash from leftover corned beef and roasted veggies, or adding salsa to leftover diced chicken and make delish chicken burritos, etc. It's a lifesaver!!!
lamora at 5:04PM on 11/21/08
@Jbugsmama - definitely nothing to be ashamed of. Everyone is feeling the strain on the pocketbook strings these days. Your dish sounds flavorful and economical so I say "kudos".
On the subject, my stepmom used to make a dish that consisted of cambells cream of mushroom, sliced mushrooms and chicken breasts over white rice when I was growing up and I remember ALWAYS looking forward to having it for dinner and eating the leftovers all weekend...
mayoxqueen at 6:07PM on 11/21/08
Salisbury steak is okay, but I like Swiss steak even better. Mmmmmm
Christy at 6:15PM on 11/21/08
I like ramen noodles. Made according to package directions. (I'm going to hide now.)
charm city cupcake at 9:33PM on 11/21/08
While I like organic produce and artisanal bread as much as the next person, I have been to 3rd world countries and grew up poor and what is more important than "gourmet" food is having enough and healthy food to eat. Some of the best ethnic dishes (including French cuisine) developed from ordinary folks using all parts of the animal and all parts of the vegetable. Also some TV-dinners are making a comeback at high-priced retro diners.
For my part, I doctor up ramen (steam-dried ramen which is healthy/ cheap). Instead of using water and the entire spice packet, I use boxed chicken or beef broth, add frozen veggies/ chopped fresh veggies (beans/ cabbage/ bean sprouts/ tomatoes), throw in leftover meat, garnish with cilantro, squeeze some lime, add black pepper/salt and eat away.
Also mac and cheese out of the box mixed with cooked frozen peas or sliced up hot dogs is good.
Also, we don't eat out a lot due to trying to keep healthy and I find that not eating out means we have more left to spend on high-quality groceries.
darkchocolatefan at 9:55PM on 11/21/08
I do mac & cheese out of the blue box with cooked ground beef, green chiles, chopped canned tomatoes, possibly sweated onions, garlic & celery, cumin and chile powder. Chili mac?
I too love tuna casserole *hangs head in shame* but I squeeze in some fresh lemon juice, add a little sour cream to the cream of chicken soup, and put in lots of the frozen mixed veggies (not just peas). Somehow it makes me feel less ashamed.
The salisbury steak sounds delicious. I do swiss steaks from time to time (yum) but I'll have to try that one.
buffy at 10:44PM on 11/21/08
I do shit on a shingle all the time. Whatever shit on whatever shingle. Usually bechemel with random meat, peas, etc. over random bread. Also ramen w/ a little milk, white vin, and any spice...mabe frozen peas...boxed mac n cheese w/canned tuna...poverty cusine rules!
sailordave at 10:53PM on 11/21/08
When I first moved back to NYC I passed through a rough patch financially, and one of my favourites dishes combined meat ravioli or tortellini from Balducci, combined with (wait for it) a tin of seasoned Goya beans, of which I had a constant supply on hand.
I'd still eat that any day, if I could get hold of either ingredient here (although for some reason Goya has changed their seasoning to include 'smoke' flavour, which is not an improvement).
The salisbury steak actually sounds good, and you put a lot of effort to make it so.
I think that people who genuinely care about and are interested in food do not reflexively turn up their noses (or look down them) at at ANY dish for being 'too humble'. Plenty of the dishes that self-styled gourmets coo over arose from dire poverty. What counts is the attitude of care involved in the preparation (which is pretty relative, in itself; e.g. on some days, someone with a newborn may be going all out if they do anything more elaborate than a peanut butter and jelly sandwich).
mongoose at 5:16AM on 11/22/08
Two words: Hot Pocket.
It's everything Jim Gaffigan says...and more!
fatitalianbroad at 8:04AM on 11/22/08
grilled cheese with a bowl of oodles .
dearrie at 11:40AM on 11/22/08
I make something I call Chiffy Helper which is a from-scratch Hamburger Helper type dish.
I guess I do a version of SOS to some degree but my vessel of choice is macaroni :D.
Plenty of the dishes that self-styled gourmets coo over arose from dire poverty.
Absolutely. Then they got shee-sheed and restaurants charge an arm and a leg for them.
therealchiffonade at 1:57PM on 11/22/08
@fatitalianbroad--first of all, love the screen name! Second, I love Jim Gaffigan's Hot Pocket bit!!
buffy at 6:56PM on 11/22/08
I stretch Campbell's tomato bisque soup with macaroni, and sprinkle a little parmesan on it. It's surprisingly good. I do the same with their bean n' bacon soup.
Two of my favorite meals growing up were 1) a big mound of mashed potatoes with whatever leftover meat we had, chopped up and put over the top with gravy; and 2) Rice-a-roni, also with whatever leftover meat we had (leftover pork chops, pot roast, chicken, etc.)
I'm in my 30s now. While visiting my parents a few months ago, we went to the grocery store and for some reason, it all came back to me. I remarked to my mom about these dishes, and she got all teary about when we were strapped for cash (well, the first time we were). All I knew was, I got a huge mound of potatoes! When we sit down this Thanksgiving, I'll remember to be extra thankful for people's ability to be resourceful when we need to.
BangieB at 7:39PM on 11/22/08
I just made tuna casserole last night, it's definitely a comfort food for me.
My Mom made something that sounds an awful like the Chinese Hot Dish mentioned above, but we just called it sausage noodle casserole.
Heatherdee at 11:54PM on 11/22/08
I used to love the salisbury steak from...Hungryman's or Stouffers? I can't remember I would have to look at the box, I know they still make it. I would make sandwiches with the leftovers the next day, they were so good. Stouffers anything is my favorite. Scrambled eggs with sliced up hotdogs mixed in it served on toast with cheese on top. Kraft mac and cheese with ketchup mix into it. Stove top stuffing. The Campbell's chicken and dumpling soup, actually any Campbells soups I love. Wonderbread sandwich anything. Canned raviolli. Anything ramen. 7-11 hotdogs with that liquid cheese (?) drowning the dog. Leftover mash potatos and some cabbage bubbles and squeak.. I could go on forever.
pjracz10 at 4:58AM on 11/23/08
Goodness but your Salisbury steak sounds delicious! A triumph of time and attention and technique.
I worry that many of us (and I think I've done this to an extent and need to get over it) have conflated a great many things into one group of "food to be embarrassed about." Making Salisbury steak from scratch is no different in kind than making duck confit from scratch. Making a tuna noodle casserole from good ingredients isn't something to be embarrassed about because it doesn't seem like something that would end up on the menu at a $100 a head restaurant. The basic elements of the dish might well end up on the menu at such a restaurant after all.
Even many of the foods we feel we have to _admit_ to liking or eating just don't seem that bad to me. Sure, we all know (or I hope we do) that a steady diet of Hot Pockets isn't going to help increase your chances of being really healthy all the time.....but is it really all that different than the pepperoni roll that's been under a heat lamp at the corner pizza shop all day?
I think we should all try to cut each other a lot of slack about preferences and likes and encourage people to explore where they feel comfortable and to cook more, whatever it is.
ccbweb at 1:57PM on 11/23/08
in reading this i guess i realize i was a lot poorer growing up than i thought lol foods such as leftover turkey/chicken w gravy over toast or mashed potatoes was a treat when i was little, a favorite cold-weather meal or after thanksgiving.
another cheap fix - mac and cheese with canned tuna thrown in. easiest tuna "casserole" ever.
listener at 3:33PM on 11/23/08
I invented a Chili Enchilada dish out of hamburger, taco seasoning, canned no-bean chili, and Velveeta wrapped up in tortillas. We have it every few months, we love it and my DH welcomes the leftovers which is unusual for him. Once when my husband told some friends about this yummy Mexican recipe I knew and they asked me for the recipe, I revealed the ingredients and gave them all a good laugh. So I made it into a "Mexican Dip" in the crockpot for our next get-together and they ALL loved it!
dzm388 at 4:58PM on 11/23/08
I for one am thrilled that you brought this up, so often it feels like everyone on this site has nonstop money for exotic or fancy items that I can't even find here in mid america! I adore cooking but not every meal is a masterpiece
My confession is mac and cheese out of the box and not fixed up at all! The kids will always eat it and some days are busy and hard and I am unable to do more then boil water. Ahhhh I feel better now!
luv2cook
love2cook at 12:19AM on 11/24/08
If I make blue box, I tend to add either more melted cheese or, get this: soy sauce. It has a flavor other than salt, and it makes it tasty. No, it isn't healthy, but when you want something quick and easy it doesn't have to be.
One thing that bugs me that maybe shouldn't though, is people who buy stuff like Prego or Ragu spaghetti sauce. You know what's in those jars? Tomato puree, a few herbs, and a few preservatives. If you have time to heat up Ragu, you have time to mix a can of crushed tomatoes with some oregano, garlic powder, and black pepper. I know this isn't the thread to rant, but I just made a simple tomato sauce for dinner and it made me think.
Things like blue box or packaged rice mixes are different to me, because the interaction between the ingredients is not something one can easily recreate at home. That said, when I make something from a box (or heat up some Campbells' soup, uh huh I said it) I will read the ingredient list and add some more of whatever herbs are listed, since they tend to lose their flavor some sitting in the box.
nightowl at 12:33AM on 11/24/08
Oops.... this wasn't the thread I tried to post this in. Odd. Sorry, y'all!
nightowl at 12:37AM on 11/24/08
I try to keep a frozen Stouffers Lasagna (the newer one that has lots of real ricotta in it) on hand as one of our "there's no time to cook and/or the cupboard is bare" staples. Always good with a salad and bread.
My other staple is a box of chicken Rice a Roni mixed with a can of white meat chicken and some frozen peas, with a bit of curry powder thrown in. Not bad at all for quasi-ethnic.
Then, if we're REALLY out of everything . . . grilled cheese sandwiches with Campbell's tomato soup hits the spot! The soup is better with a dollop of creme fraiche (my guilty pleasure) on top ; )
gourmetgal at 4:11AM on 11/24/08
Here in Korea, cheese is available, but it's expensive, even the Kraft-like yellow processed slices.
I'm a bit of a cheese snob, not gonna lie, because I worked at a place called the Cheese Shop for a few years during high school and college. I loveeee good cheese and have despised American cheese as long as I can remember.
Well, when my dad came to visit, he got on the military base, bought me a tub of country crock (oh dear) and a package of Kraft American singles.
Grilled cheese has never tasted so good.
I will add, it was on delicious, hearty whole wheat bread. I love getting seeds stuck in my teeth hehehe
machellebelle at 7:59AM on 11/24/08
I used to make a meal from leftover roasted chicken, some green and black olives, butter, leftover pasta and some parm cheese. It was great. At some point I'm going to make it for my daughter.
Honestly, just because you enjoy good food doesn't mean that it must be gourmet all of the time. My wife thinks that I spend too much time making fancy foods, she doesn't seem to understand that most dinners I make take less then 30 mins from start to table during the week.
I have found that the Bertolli Marinara with Burgundy is quite nice. I always keep a couple of jars in the house. Recently I used it as a base for a quick puttanesca style sauce which everyone in the house devoured.
Convenience foods are just that.
Alan
aholsber at 10:10AM on 11/24/08
Thank you all for your encouraging and kind comments, and your complete absolution of my "TV-dinner" type meal. From now on I will say it loud and say it proud...I made homemade Salisbury Steak for my family and they loved it!
juliebugsmama at 10:51AM on 11/24/08
That chicken, cream of mushroom soup and rice dinner was the first thing my roommate and I ever made. We were freshmen (in 1974 so Riunite wine was the wine of choice with this) and our boyfriends were coming for dinner. Oh, did we think we were fancy-dancy. I think the rice was Uncle Ben's. I still have fond memories of that night.
machellebelle, was The Cheese Shop in Ithaca NY by any chance?
joannabar at 3:50PM on 11/24/08
@joannabar- no actually, The Cheese Shop in Williamsburg, VA
I went to school near Ithaca, I miss that place. I love the Brewery, Lost Dog, and the Bakery. And of course cliff jumping in fall, ahaha :)
machellebelle at 10:05AM on 11/26/08