Is there a food trauma in your past?
Is there a food you were forced to eat as a child that you have never been able to smell, look at, or be in the same room with since?
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When I was three years old, my mother gave birth to my brother. While she was in the hospital, I stayed with my grandmother. When she told me I could not go to see my mother, I proceeded to heave my dinner, which was hot dogs. I didn't eat hot dogs for 25 years after. Now, of course, I'm making up for lost time!!
Mich23 at 10:23AM on 01/31/08
Reminds me of a funny story. My parents were visiting friends, kids eating in another room - there were 8 to 10 of us. They gave us chow mein out of cans. We weren't allowed outdoors until we all ate every bite and we all hated it. My sickly 7 year old baby sister who probably weighed 40 lbs. (we called her Garbage Can Pat 'cause she could and would eat anything and didn't gain weight) ate everything on the table so we could go out! What a trooper! My mother swears she had a hollow leg. I love Chinese food, but haven't had chow mein since. I wonder if she has? I'll have to ask.
At home, Mom was a fabulous cook, but we had to eat everything. Today, we all do eat everything, except the baby of the family. The rest of us were grown and I believe they were way more lenient with him. He and his family just visited me. I served a fruit salad. His middle boy didn't want any. My brother told him he had to eat one piece. He sat there and gagged and gagged and gagged. It was terrible. Not the time or place.
PerkyMac at 10:31AM on 01/31/08
Too many food traumas.
These are the ones I had:
1. Chocolate milkshakes- I thought it was mud......I've since been able to get over that one quite well!
These I still have:
1. Odd colored anything: Blue popsicles, blue and "grape" Kool aid, that soft drink Big Red... weird stuff like that.
NutellaGirl at 10:35AM on 01/31/08
I cannot remember anything that totally freaked me out as a kid, although just about everyone I know has "something". My mom used to make split pea soup and the icky green sludge grossed me out but they didn't make me eat it. Now I eat everything that's not nailed down.
I did manage to scar my son with eggplant, however. Our rule was that you had to at least taste it. He may have sat at the table for two hours that day. Many years later, one of his girlfriends made him a fancy Italian dinner, all her family recipes that I'm sure she was very proud of. The menu happened to include eggplant parm. Obviously, the relationship didn't survive. My work as a mom is done.
frederika at 10:53AM on 01/31/08
Canteloupe and papaya. My mother apparently bought into the theory, while I was growing up, that the only available fruit in the summer months was canteloupe, and that we need to eat an entire one every day as a family. I never really liked it to begin with (I have never really been a melon fan at all), and to this day, the mere smell of it makes me sick.
As a result, I can't stand papaya, either, because to me the smell is the same. I just can't stomach it.
Traveller at 11:03AM on 01/31/08
my mom loved asparagus on toast, the canned variety, she made me taste it once and I thought I would die! never was able to eat the stuff untill 2 yrs ago when I had grilled asparagus at Claim Jumper in Phoenix. OMG now you can't keep me away, unless its canned!
huney_bumper at 11:20AM on 01/31/08
Mom had a friend over, and when she left, there was half a glass of something left on the table. I was thirsty and curious so I drank some. Tasted awful. Mom caught me, and told me it was a urine sample. I spent the rest of the day spitting, brushing, rinsing, spitting. True story.
Cruel, don't you think? Taught me a few lessons, for sure. Wonder if that's why I'm not much of a drinker?
PerkyMac at 11:25AM on 01/31/08
I had a really nasty experience with chicken teriyaki when I was in 8th grade. I've never been so ill in my life. 19 years later, I still won't eat anything with teriyaki sauce.
Had a similar experience with a meal at a friend's house about a year later. Her father made a dish called "tofu surprise." Oh dear lord. Fortunately, this is not a common menu item, and I have not encountered it since.
Kerosena at 11:26AM on 01/31/08
My poor mom slaved over a spag dinner for her in-laws (from out of town). After all this effort, she wanted to impress them with the good behavior of her children, their grandchildren. As I was the youngest, I sat at the head of the table in my high chair. Mom told me I HAD to eat, and I didn't feel like it. I tried... and then projectiled down the entire table. Dinner was obviously ruined at that point, and I hated my mom's spaghetti thereafter. I still do. Thank God I do all the cooking now, and pesto beats red sauce any day of the week.
cucinacecilia at 11:32AM on 01/31/08
huney_bumper - what's this thing with the grilled canned asparagus that is so awesome? Tell, tell! My mom always had canned asparagus at home for us and I don't remember liking it so much, but my parents weren't mean like me . They didn't make us eat stuff we didn't particularly like. And I think I grew up to be a pretty well-rounded eater and snooty little foodie in spite of all that. She would be so proud. ha ha...
frederika at 11:56AM on 01/31/08
Applesauce. My mother is a saint, but one lunch we were in a tiff and she lost it and screamed at me to stop crying and eat the applesauce, or she'd really give me something to cry about. I forced it down and nearly threw up.
More than 40 years later, and I still can't stand the stuff, But I will put a spoonful on potato pancakes, as long as there's sour cream on there as well.
Dee at 12:37PM on 01/31/08
Bad scrambled eggs. I was raised vegetarian, and I was also a somewhat picky eater when I was little, so I didn't get much protein. My mom made me eat scrambled eggs every other day, but she made them so poorly - they were really dry and brown and had that gross crusty stuff on it from the sides of the pans. They were so horrible that I had to wash them down with red Kool-Aid, as that was the only thing that was strong enough (flavor-wise) to mask the taste of the horrible eggs.
I very rarely eat scrambled eggs now. But I do love a good poached egg.
charm city cupcake at 12:55PM on 01/31/08
To add to the applesauce theme - Apple butter - like Dee, I got into it with my mom one morning. When I think about it now, she was probably exhausted with dealing with two young kids (and my little sister had ear problems) and I decided I didn't want toast for brekkie (being an uppity 6 year old or so). AND I dissed my mom's jams and apple butter (homemade I should add) that were on the table. My mom lost it completely. I felt so badly, I choked down some apple butter on toast. I felt nauseous the whole day.
And I learned to eat what Mom had out, and keep the editorial comments to myself.... (grin)
Maureen at 1:00PM on 01/31/08
PerkyMac- Just a quick question; what was a urine sample doing on the kitchen table?
Anyway, that aside for me it was fish. Everything seemed to have been overcooked 40 years ago and fish was at the top of the list. I guess people thought you had to cremate it to kill the germs or something! These days I love most fish, especially rockfish, flounder, sea bass.....
RichardCrystal at 1:02PM on 01/31/08
Yikes Richard - it wasn't urine! Did others think that too? It was an alcoholic drink of some sort that looked like ginger ale to me. Mom said that so I wouldn't just drink something unknown. I believed her though, because it was the right color and the taste was terrible to a little kid.
PerkyMac at 1:07PM on 01/31/08
Wow...I guess it's true confessions time.
Before my mother and dad split, my dad was prone to fits of anger. One night at dinner, my mother made something she called a "Scratch Rice-A-Roni" which, of course, in no way resembled the salty, crappy stuff my eleven year old palate craved. My dad got angry and grabbed a handful of the rice mixture, and threw it across the room. To this day, I can't watch someone throw food. A switch gets flipped.
I even got the heebie jeebies watching the "food fight" scene in Animal House but eventually got my psyche to understand that particular instance was in fun.
As far as food I got forced to eat as a kid and can't look at now - There really isn't anything that qualifies. As an adult, I like most all of the foods I had to choke down as a kid.
chiff0nade at 1:12PM on 01/31/08
PerkyMac..LOL...That's what I thought, Hon! In retrospect it's really quite funny. Traumatizing for you no doubt..but funny none the less!!
RichardCrystal at 1:17PM on 01/31/08
I have one that will amaze you. One Christmas when I was ten my dad and uncle decided it was time I was a grown up and could have a glass of red wine at dinner. No, not a small watered down glass, a full adult size glass of red wine. I couldn't leave the table until I finished it, because it was an "expensive bottle of wine". I drank half a glass over two hours of sitting at the table then got sick. When my dad brought me home to my mom, well, you can imagine the rest. To this day I still don't like wine but I do use it to cook!
evilchefmom at 1:51PM on 01/31/08
My mother’s chili was/is awful. Recently I let her know that as a child my brothers and I agreed it should never be called chili, it should simply be called shitty.
jasonbrink at 1:54PM on 01/31/08
Unsweetened apple sauce. I hated taking medicine as a child, so my mom would smash baby aspirin and mix it into the apple sauce. So, so bitter. I can eat sweetened apple sauce now, but the thought of unsweetened just makes me gag.
segalbraith at 2:03PM on 01/31/08
The only time I will buy the "try some of everything on the table" logic is when there are not unarguably disgusting things on the table. I used to swear as a child that my grandmother purposely set out dinner with the nastiest things she could find, just so we had to eat them -- pickled red beet hard boiled eggs (just thinking about them swimming in that purple-ish liquid makes me naseous), random mixtures that I would refer to now as chutneys which nearly always contained horseradish, lukewarm soupy rice pudding....bleccchhh!
At 7 or so, I overdid it one Thanksgiving with pitted, whole black olives. I heave at the scent to this day.
savecara at 2:32PM on 01/31/08
I've said this before on here, I think...but my mother told me as a child that Tuna in a can was cat food. To this day I still gag when I see or smell someone eating it.
jcrisco at 3:17PM on 01/31/08
Persimmons. I didn't like them as a kid but my mom forced them onto me. Now I won't eat them anymore.
mrsbao at 3:22PM on 01/31/08
Pepper. My grandmother smoked and I was convinced that the pepper in her food was ashes (even though she never smoked in the kitchen). I've since gotten over the phobia but for years and years I refused to eat anything that had visible specks of black pepper.
sbelle at 3:23PM on 01/31/08
Beef liver.....yuuucccchhhhh.
bessfour at 3:32PM on 01/31/08
@RichardCrystal........she was a pretty clever lady and I learned a lot from her. Just ask my kids! haha
PerkyMac at 3:36PM on 01/31/08
Ugh, fish chowder! My mom is a very good cook but she used to make gross milky fish chowder all the time (cheap to make when you live by the ocean) when we were little and ugh, gross. I have always hated milk by itself, and milk with fish bits in it (it is a texture problem so clams were OK) just about killed me. I can't remember whether she also made me drink a glass of milk with it. Probably, she was very big on the required milk.
I am now at the point at which I can eat soups with fish in them, but they cannot be creamy, I will gag even now, in my mid-thirties.
wellred at 3:55PM on 01/31/08
Hot dogs, chili dogs, etc. especially those with the red food coloring. My mom made hot dogs every saturday, without fail. I hate the smell, taste, and texture of hot dogs/balogna. I've never really liked any lunch meat, and I think it's because they (and hot dogs) all have that same smell. And dairy milk (don't drink it because I can't stand the smell). I lived on a farm; we had milk cows, and there was always so much milk.
beth1 at 4:26PM on 01/31/08
Cilantro. The first time I came into contact with this seemlingly excotic herb I was twelve. My aunt cooked a Thai noodle dish at my family's house. I was responsible for washing the dishes before dinner and completed the job hastily, to say the least. After the first bite I tasted soap, spit the noondles out and ran to the sink to wash the soap out of my bowl - I thought that I had not rinsed the soap out of the dish! This scene was repeated twice before someone realized it was the Cilantro!
speedyreedy at 4:39PM on 01/31/08
sorry i meant the grilled fresh is awesome not canned yuk!
huney_bumper at 5:47PM on 01/31/08
Love this question & reading all the comments--Thanks!
Liver & onions....don't even mention those 2 words in my presence!
JEP at 5:55PM on 01/31/08
I could not eat mayo for years I had fallen down as a child an was knocked out for hours the tec who took my head ex rays when I woke smelled like mayo......
rabbitriddle at 6:43PM on 01/31/08
when i was younger i would not eat anything red, because i was convinced it was spicy including things like strawberries. haha, thats what growing up in a korean family will do to you. luckily i got over it and now i quite enjoy rouge colored foods
sustarz at 6:51PM on 01/31/08
we had some really wacky "backyard neighbours" when i was growing up. we lived second house from the corner so there were about 5 backyards that attached to ours. one of those houses had a family with a boy and girl close to the same age as my brother and i. one time my brother was at their house (about 7 years old) and he double-dipped. the son ratted him out to his mom, and she reamed my poor brother for it. then, that summer i (age 9) was over at their house and the cherry tomatoes in her yard were ripe for the picking. she kept insisting i try one, and i kept insisting i didn't like tomatoes. she finally just shoved it into my mouth and forced me to eat it. i got my revenge though, as i promptly got sick on her. haven't been able to eat a tomato since.
lexophile at 7:29PM on 01/31/08
and then there was the time that i (age 13) was at my friend's house sleeping over and for dinner her mom insisted i eat zucchini stewed in tomato and absolutely would not let me leave the table until i was done. then for breakfast she forced me to eat runny eggs with cheez whiz on a dark marble rye. oh the horror!
lexophile at 7:32PM on 01/31/08
Yes pig's liver. My dad used to buy it, slice it and cook it for dinner. I didn't mind it, it was quite nice.
However, one time the gall bladder in the liver had ruptured and all the bile had leeched into the liver itself. It was so disgusting, I've never been able to eat it ever again - ewwww... I can taste that disgusting taste now...
ssnmr77 at 7:37PM on 01/31/08
Cooked spinach makes my teeth hurt..my mother thought this was a way to get out of eating it, but it was (and still is) true. At age 38 I can admit 'hurt' may be a bit strong but eating cooked spinach does not feel good! I also hate the taste but that's a whole other matter. My theory is the high iron content? Through raw is not so bad...
mrsmoosie at 7:51PM on 01/31/08
reading through other comments i have to say i have also always hated liver. mom once tried to lie to me and convince me it was "breaded fried steak". i didn't buy it for a second.
also, i absolutely hated mushy boiled broccoli. one night i was particularly snarky about it, so mom insisted i had to eat it before i could watch 90210. i sat at the table until i heard the intro song in the next room. then i stuffed it in my mouth, chewed, and drank milk to help swallow it. to this day i still can't stand mushy broccoli.
lexophile at 7:58PM on 01/31/08
mrs moosie - i hate how cooked spinach feels on your teeth. it feels like it leaves a film on your teeth. ick!
lexophile at 8:04PM on 01/31/08
does this count? i ate a magic brownie at a 60's party once and it was so potent, and i was so miserable for hours after i ate it, that i was never tempted to indulge again. {in the magic part -- i still love brownies!}
cybercita at 8:37PM on 01/31/08
Oh my gosh. My aunt. She was an evil woman. So, I spent a few summers with her and her family. Anyhow, I'm 14. The fair came to town. A big deal in a tiny town. So she makes dinner. We must ALL clean our plates or we can't go to the fair. Dinner? Liver, whole fish she threw into a pot of boiling water. Boiled until sludge zucchini, beets. We all forced it down, none of wanting to let down the group. I didn't try fish again until I was in my mid-20's. To this day, I can't even look at liver without getting queasy, I will only eat zucchini when it's still kinda crisp. I do love beats though.
chisai at 8:57PM on 01/31/08
chisai..........I love all of those foods, but never prepared like that, and not together. Blech, yukkk and ewwwww!!! She truly was evil! You poor dear, I'm so sorry you had to stay with Auntie Cruella and endure such harsh punishment. I hope there was a Prince Charming and a glass slipper to remember too. ;)
PerkyMac at 9:36PM on 01/31/08
This was my grandfather's story, but since he died forty years ago he won't mind if I relate it?
He was born in a sod house in the desolate North-West corner of South Dakota in the late 1800's. As you might expect, fresh fruit and vegetables were not readily available.
One of the highlights of each year was the arrival of a shipment of bananas. One year my grandfather's family obtained enough so everyone was allowed to eat their fill. My grandfather was a hungry twelve year-old at the time, and availed himself of the opportunity to devour so many bananas that he become violently ill.
For the rest of his life he could neither stomach, nor nose, bananas.
srhcb at 9:40PM on 01/31/08
This is also not my story, but my mom's. My grandmother apparently used to make some kind of casserole with canned tuna, frozen peas, sour cream, mayo, rice, and ground beef (plus some other stuff that I can't remember). My Mom and her siblings imagined it was some kind of Swedish import and named it "Smorglob." Delicious, I'm sure... :-P
ChristineB at 12:24AM on 02/01/08
@EvilChefMom...OMG, today that would qualify as child abuse!
When my brother was about four, a neighbor gave him a few sips of wine at Christmas Eve and he told my mother "my legs are dizzy."
(Getting ready to duck...) My brother and I loved our mother's liver and onions. She knew how to cook it so it didn't qualify as shoe leather. She cooked the onions way more than the liver and it was always great. I have not had L&O in a restaurant that came close to hers.
chiff0nade at 9:02AM on 02/01/08
chiff....I'm ducking also. Mom had an iron deficiency and cooked l&o once a week. We'd smell it the instant we walked in the door and want to hide. Sometimes we had to eat it, and sometimes she'd make us something else. It must be an acquired taste, because I later learned to love it. She started it with bacon. It was never overcooked and always delicious. Later, I went to weight watchers and also had to eat it once a week and I cooked it with V8 or tomato juice, sans the bacon and gravy. I still love it, but don't eat it often.
PerkyMac at 9:41AM on 02/01/08
My favourite food when I was a kid was my mom's spaghetti sauce. I had eaten a big bowl for dinner with a glass of milk one night, but then later came down with a stomach ailment. Unfortunately my dinner didn't stay down. For some reason, the sight and smell of the sauce and milk mixed together seemed too disgusting for words. I couldn't eat a anything tomato-y with anything milky for years. Even tomato soup made with milk/cream would bring back the memory of the smell. Thankfully I'm over it now.
psychsarah at 10:01AM on 02/01/08
We had liver once a month at home for the iron content. I have not eaten liver since I left home almost 25 years ago, except as pate. I've tried, but I can't do it. My husband LOVES it, so he often orders it in restaurants if it is available. At least I can now stand watching that.....
Re the kids and hooch thread - I have one of those stories myself. For a year when I was about 8, my family lived in Manitoba, which at that time, allowed parents to serve alcohol to their minor children in restaurants. I had been allowed to drink a sherry glass of wine on special occasions since I was about 4. My dad had been living in Manitoba for a few months before we moved, so had missed out on an occasion in my life that he felt warranted celebration. So, my mom got me all dolled up and he took me out for dinner. Ooh, I was so excited - a big girl dinner with Daddy. And then HE saw fit to order an entire bottle of SAKI, and split it with me! I was 8! I might have weighed 50 pounds TOPS (I was a tall exceedingly skinny child). Needless to say, I got completely loaded. I ended up sitting on his lap, giggling and laughing, and generally embarrassing him. He made the mistake of showing me a brand new 50 dollar bill that he had - they were redesigned that year to have the RCMP musical ride printed on the back. I would NOT let him use that to pay for dinner. The man ended up scrounging change out of the seats of the car to pay the tab.
We arrived home, and my mother took one look at me and said "She's drunk!" And I was. The next day was NOT pretty - between the hungover child, the contrite husband, and the miffed mother.
Didn't put me off the wine tho! (grin!)
Maureen at 10:10AM on 02/01/08
Me too, but I was too young to remember. I was 2 or 3 and we were visiting Mom's huge family in Canada. Always a party, with family, neighbors and friends. Alcohol flowing. Huge living room. I toddled around and was passed from person to person. The priest saw me drinking from a glass and took me to Mom who realized I was falling over drunk. She loved to tell that story.
Sorry frederika, my second drinking story on a thread about food trauma. It's fun to remember old stories.
PerkyMac at 10:37AM on 02/01/08
When I was four or five, my mum insisted I eat this stuck-together blob of spaghetti, sauce, and grated parmigiano that had formed about the last bit of unmelted butter in which the spaghetti was routinely tossed before serving. I haven't been able to eat most cheeses to this day. I'm not super keen on the tossing-pasta-in-butter concept, either.
And there was something with scrambled eggs that I cannot remember, it sort of lurks as an edge of the mind memory... but I DO remember that on one occasion, many years after my loathing of eggs was well-established, being served eggs for breakfast by the (not very easygoing) mother of friend, after I'd slept over at the friend's place the night before. I could feel the blood drain from my face, but my motto was 'manners before personal interests' (or something of that sort). In a sort of daze, I bolted the eggs as politely as possible, praying that I wouldn't be sick at the table, since the only things I had ever read that involved redressing dishonour involved suicide, and I recall wondering how I could possibly word an appropriate suicide note to my parents if such a contingency should arise.
Well, yes... I probably DID read the wrong sort of books for an impressionable child :D
mongoose at 1:39PM on 02/01/08
I had no idea this post would be so therapeudic! I haven't checked it in like 24 hours and it's amazing how many folks have been purging (sorry about that reference!) their bad food memories.
To this day, my daughter, who I thought would have been way too young to remember since she was in a high chair, still has issues with scrambled eggs and milk. She swears, as do I, that she recalls when she was coming down with a bit of a bug, she was eating eggs with a milk chaser. Next thing we knew, eggs and milk were coming out her nose. Oh, I remember that so well. Guess it is no wonder she was an eggphobe for most of her life.
frederika at 3:16PM on 02/01/08
One time my parents went out of town and my brother made me dinner. He made salmon.
He didn't cook it right or something because it made me sick and I haven't been able to think of salmon the same way ever since!
Hillary
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Chew on That at 3:26PM on 02/01/08
My mother loved pizza, so every Sunday we'd go to the same restaurant and eat the same pizza (Chicago-style pizza with everything in it). At the same time, I DETESTED onions. My mother never forced me to 'clean my plate' since she didn't believe in that, but to eat only as much until I felt sated. However, there was one exception -- this did not apply to onions. I had to eat every single onion slice.
The crunch of the nearly raw onions would make me dry heave, so I would swallow the strands with gulps of soda. Sometimes they wouldn't completely go down, so I'd end up gagging on them and have to pull them out from my throat lest I vomit, and then start all over again. The feeling of the onions reverse slithering out of my throat was pretty bad, not to mention the slap in the face at the table that I got for my atrocious table manners.
I hate pizza to this day, as well as onions and cheese.
Cassaendra at 12:19AM on 02/02/08
For me, it's venison. I was about 12, and we had gone to dinner at a family friend's house. It was my first time to have venison, and I didn't really think it was great or terrible. However, the ancient, bottled poppyseed dressing that the hostess hauled out of the back of her fridge caused everyone in my family who tried it to get severe food poisoning. Because venison was involved in the meal, I haven't been able to stomach it in any form other than sausage ever since. (I think the spices in sausage trick my head into accepting it.) I also don't trust bottled poppyseed dressings, but I'll occasionally make homemade dressing without any lingering fears.
jcwest47 at 7:11PM on 02/02/08
It's interesting to hear so many of these stories, often with a similar theme. It's common knowledge that we avoid things that have a bad association as a sidekick, but this thread makes it very clear-- and even clearer how intense, and not always happy, childhood is.
Once my mother made me sit at the table until I finished the tiny amount of fish on my plate. I sat there until the wee hours of the morning, elbows sore from resting them on the table. I eventually pretended to swallow it and instead stored it like a chipmunk in my cheek so that I could spit it out in the morning. (Practically a miracle, since my mother actually checked my mouth!) Well, I woke up with the fish smeared all over my pillow, since it had fallen out of my mouth sometime in the night and then I'd apparently lolled all over it.
Gross! Didn't teach me, though, because I tried it again later with creamed spinach.
Christina at 9:08PM on 02/02/08
MrsMoosie and Lex... the film or chalkiness on your teeth from cooked spinach is caused by oxalic acid, which spinach contains a lot of. It's actually not very high in iron (only compared to other vegetables), and oxalates make most of spinach's iron unavailable to the body.
Anyway. Yes, association is a huge one, isn't it? As a child, I was almost obsessed with eggnog. When I was about 9 or 10, we went to a Christmas Eve party at the home of my parents' friends. I was the only minor present, and the adults were all drinking, so I was pretty much free to run amok. There was an enormous punch bowl full of eggnog, which I dipped into pretty much every 15 minutes. Must've drunk at least a half gallon of that stuff! Later that night I came down with a GI bug and got to experience all that eggnog again. I didn't drink eggnog again for about a decade.
LoCo at 10:17PM on 02/02/08