Served: Restaurant Job Search
I blog by day and wait tables in a New York City restaurant by night. I'm excited to bring you Served, dispatches from the front of the house. Enjoy!
“You look dapper,” I told Andrew, my friend from school, who always looks dapper. On Friday, though, he was all dressed up and looking especially suave in a vest and a cherry-colored shirt.
“I just had an interview,” he explained. Turns out the interview was at the sister restaurant of a place where I worked for two years. “Was it X. who interviewed you?” I had to know. X. is the general manager there now, my former boss, and a friend. Sure enough, Andrew had met with X. I promised to put in a good word for him.
After graduating, Andrew ran the front of the house of a restaurant for several months. Then, the restaurant closed. Now he’s looking for another job. To state the obvious: timing is not so good.
In May, I too will finish school. Hooray! But wait! What’s next? My job waiting tables rocks. It is also part time. I just found a great apartment in a great neighborhood (the East Village!). Now I need a job with which to pay my rent. A full time job.
Oh Job, Where Art Thou?
I just got home from an interview at a place where I would be thrilled to work. I arrived a few minutes early, and sat with someone else waiting for her interview. She too was a few minutes early. After my brief discussion with the chef/owner and a partner, the latter held up a big camera and gently asked, “So that we will remember your face, can we take a picture?”
“Sure,” I said, not wanting my face to be forgotten. The partner snapped a Polaroid and added it to a tall stack of awkwardly grinning faces. The chef walked me out, shook my hand, and directed his attention to the growing line of job applicants there to meet with him.
I think we had a good conversation, which I obsessively replayed on the subway ride home. But of the twenty, or fifty, or a hundred other conversations they had that day, was it exceptionally memorable? Could it possibly be?
I cursed my lack of photogenicity. The Polaroid would not help my case.
I’m Not Alone
Over a wonderful bottle of Borolo, my chef friend and I discussed the grand deluge of people looking for restaurant jobs. He’s the chef of a restaurant group, so he oversees a few different spots. His sports bar needed a bartender.
So he posted an ad for a bartender on Craigslist. An hour later, he received nearly four hundred responses from wannabe bartenders. “Really? Four hundred?” I asked, not sure if I could believe it.
“Four hundred,” he insisted. So he took down the ad and skimmed resume and after resume. “We interviewed about fifty.” That’s a lot of people wanting to tend bar. To me, an almost unimaginable number. At least, as chef friend confirmed, he found an exceedingly competent bartender.
What’s A Girl to Do
As for now, I have a great job a few nights a week. My restaurant is busier than ever. It feels like home; and the money is good.
And May is still months away. But uncertainty is not my forte. I know that once I have a plan, a gazillion pounds of anxiety will dissolve from on top of my shoulders. Until then, I might want to invest in a massage.
It’s comforting to know I’m not the only one without post-school employment. In the scary economy, graduate school is tempting. My favorite poetry professor still insists I pursue an MFA in poetry. But after a whole life in school, I can’t wait for a change from the academic scenery.
If a rewarding, challenging, fun and lucrative job in New York is not in the cards, it’s mildly comforting to know I could stay with friends in Orcas Island in their chicken coop turned house and learn to bake, or travel to Mexico and study Spanish, or work on an organic farm in Australia.
But I want to be here. I want to live in my small but lovely soon-to-be pad in the East Village. I want to be in the capital city of the food and restaurant worlds, taking part in all the action. I'm knocking on wood, crossing my fingers, and sending my resume to everyone I know.
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17 Comments:
It's hard everywhere. Good luck in your search. I hope you find something!
Amybear at 9:42AM on 02/24/09
Best of luck to you - I feel certain in my bones that you will find a job that satisfies your obvious curiosity and enthusiasm for the world, as well as pay for that lovely flat. I have been meaning to post about how much I look forward to your articles each Tuesday - and I sure hope that no matter where your career takes you, that you continue to write for this forum or others. Like Amybear said, things are tough all over and many of us will be reinventing ourselves both ways out from the middle over the next couple of years. But I think I like you just the way you are! God bless!
Maureen at 10:51AM on 02/24/09
Good, better, best of luck to you -- I'm hoping the putting out good vibes will help me karmic-ly, as I'm graduating in May, too. Scary! But you sound like you've got a couple of great opportunities, so you'll be fine. =)
kfarrel3 at 11:25AM on 02/24/09
@maureen (and all), many many thanks!
Hannah Howard at 11:27AM on 02/24/09
I'd say keep your fingers, eyes and toes crossed, but it's hard to walk that way. Know that I as well am sending out the positive thoughts for you. I understand your wanting to be in your favorite place, but it is nice to know you have alternatives as well. During these times we sometimes have to travel a different path, but it can be exciting and one we can enjoy! Just keep your options open as you are doing. Best of luck!
Ezzie at 11:53AM on 02/24/09
I'm surprised that they're photographing job applicants...I think most employment lawyers would cringe at the thought because it smacks of discrimination. See:
http://www.vault.com/nr/newsmain.jsp?nr_page=3&ch_id=400&article_id=19237&cat_id=1083
chgoeditor at 12:00PM on 02/24/09
A bit of unsolicited advice: do not go to graduate school without doing a cost-benefit analysis. Will the money you spend and sacrifice by going to graduate school be returned to you, either in future earnings or even intangible benefits? Graduate school is an investment in yourself - and not all investments are good ones. Too many people blindly go to graduate school.
Times are tough everywhere. I love my job, but I make less money now than I have since I graduated college...now with $25K of student loans.
hellojodi at 12:07PM on 02/24/09
I was thinking the same about the photos...then I thought, it was mandatory for physicians to present their applications with photographs when I took care of coordinating physicians, international and domestic, to be interviewed for staff positions in my section.
It's not really that different, but feels weird to have a quickie Polaroid.
Cassaendra at 12:15PM on 02/24/09
To be honest, I didn't know they sold Polaroid film anymore!
Maureen at 2:08PM on 02/24/09
Yeah that polaroid thing is a little weird ... live where you will be happy, and be open to to different jobs and opportunites that are out there. I moved to a small mountain town 2,000+ miles away from home, school, and all my professional contacts. Being here makes me happy and even though it took a lot of effort, I ended up with a madly satisfying job that I never thought I would have ended up in in a million years.
@hellojodi - I agree. I am trying to put off grad school until a) not having a master's is significantly holding my career back or b) I get truly, hopelessly burned out - hopefully I will be at least 40 when either happens (I hate school ...).
Best of luck to you!
joyyy at 2:33PM on 02/24/09
I'm graduating in May, and as far as my experience has gone getting into graduate school, you would be applying now for Spring 2010, as most schools set their deadlines for Fall 2009 in January at latest. hellojodi raises a fine point, and I would like to make another. Try to think ahead about what you want in 30-40 years. I honestly cannot say what life would be like with a MFA in poetry outside of writing stuff to sell or being a community college professor, but I noticed from family members and friends around him that a terminal job as a server or other member in a restaurant seems to take its toll. After a bit, it seems that all the standing up gets to you, not to mention the occasional burn or other random accident. And too many seem to have no concept of retirement. I'm not saying that you should go for the MFA, but it might be worth giving it, being a server, and a few other occupations a second thought. I hope everything goes well for you, and thank you for always updating us on the life of a server.
Jikuu at 3:40PM on 02/24/09
Hey Hannah, I know it's not much consolation, but you're better off than print media (my field). At least your industry will never become irrelevant.
piccola at 9:21PM on 02/24/09
Grad school?
I mean...that's what lots of people do when the economy is down.
wunami at 10:06AM on 02/26/09
I'm curious if you mentioned your blog in your interview. If I were a prospective employer, I would not want an employee blogging about the details of my restaurant. I do career counseling and offer this - PLEASE, don't ever talk about it in an interview!
zina1017 at 3:06PM on 02/26/09
When I graduated from college in 1999, I got a job in another restaurant. I had worked in a bar through college and thought it was time to work somewhere where I served more dinners than drinks. I ended up working there for 7 years. I did find a job in my field, but I was unable to quit the restaurant. I could still use the money and I find that I miss it.
Barbieri13 at 12:44PM on 03/02/09
I know how you feel...the economy really sucks. I graduated a semester early instead of graduating in the coming May, but now I wish I hadn't because I haven't been able to obtain a full-time job. Thankfully, I've been accepted by grad schools so I am looking forward to working on a master's degree (that will benefit me, of course). With the spare time I have currently, I am volunteering and taking up activities which I won't be able to do once I get a "real" job...Anyway, good luck! And keep up with your blog, I enjoy reading it! :)
esyooee at 1:04PM on 03/02/09
First ...I really enjoy your blog!
A really, really, really long time ago as a new graduate, I landed a job that I loved. I waited for five years before I went to graduate school in a field that is different from, yet similar to, what I was doing. By doing that, many more doors were opened to me. I am so glad that I took the time away from being a student to mature. I made better decisions for myself.
By the way, until I finished grad school, I always worked a second job as a food server!
lindy123 at 9:19PM on 03/02/09