How Old Is Too Old To Trick-or-Treat?

Photograph from HeyGabe on Flickr
This adorable girl definitely fits in the proper age range of trick-or-treaters. But you know who you are: you're still holding that bucket, with a Blackberry in the other hand. Just put on that mask and poof! They'll never know! Ageless. Time to get all the Twixes before the toddlers do!
Though there really shouldn't be an age limit on dressing up, trick-or-treating is another story. Some old woman will eventually call you out: "Aren't you getting too old for this?" And while there's an inner child in all of us, maybe she's right.
I pushed the limits and went through high school (because I believed my costumes were so thoughtful, awesome, and worth candy). But what do you think? What's the trick-or-treating age limit?
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I think 12 is about it. I was very tall at that age, and that wretched old woman did ask me if I wasn't a little old, and I was annoyed at having to justify myself. Still am, now that you've reminded me. Happy Halloween!
Likeswords at 9:16PM on 10/31/08
Twelve was also my last go-round. At 5'6" at that time, I was also tall and got some weird looks although 12 seems like trick-or-treating infancy these days. I'm not an old woman but I've had moments of ire when I open the door and the "youngsters" confronting me with outstretched hands look like college kids. Smart aleck college kids.
So...I guess 14 would be my answer. I look forward to my dotage when I can give the overgrown trick-or-treaters a piece of my mind though. You know, when I have my hair in a bun and an aged cat tucked under my arm as I answer the door. ;0
holdthemayo at 9:28PM on 10/31/08
Costumes have no age limit (but act like a grownup when you're old enough for a job and save the dress-up for after work).
Trick-or-treating can go through about junior high. High schoolers are old enough to help out with candy distribution instead.
MollieBeth at 9:34PM on 10/31/08
if you're a young man and your voice has changed, you're already too old. Unless you're Peter Brady, and it's "time to change
then its time to change..sha na na na na na na sha na na na na na"
A couple of years ago two boys rang our doorbell about 10:15pm they were wearing jeans, gloves and hoodies, with the hoods up. I wasn't in the mood for a home invasion, so I just let them take what they wanted from the bowl and wished them well on their candy journey... then I triple locked the door and turned on the alarm, and turned off the porch light.
so if you're old enough to be mistaken for robbers... you're already too old. too.
:P
Southern_bella at 9:38PM on 10/31/08
Too old? How about too young?!?!?! I don't understand what would ever make a parent think that an infant needs to go trick-or-treating! My daughter is 11 months old, and is helping hand out candy her iN cute costume...but taking a baby house to house for candy is insane. If the kid can't walk, or say trick-or-treat, they DON'T need to be getting candy! I don't mean that to include special needs kids, just a generalization. All night I saw parents holding bags out for little babies- NO WAY!
mhurst826 at 10:04PM on 10/31/08
Maybe 12--unless you're the older sibling required to take the younger ones trick or treating. Then you're entitled to a "finder's fee."
beth1 at 10:06PM on 10/31/08
I don't really care how old a trick or treater is, I just want to see a real costume or some real effort...putting on a football jersey (the one you wear every Sunday or Monday) does not count as real effort. Two hours ago I ran out of candy and had to send my husband to buy more candy...while he was gone, a group of 5 teenagers arrived, I simply told them I was running low and I didn't want to disappoint the little ones tonight, "you understand, right?" of course they did...I also told them to come back in 20 minutes since I was having more candy delivered.
Some of my neighbors really get into it with cemetaries and ghouls and smoke machines and sound machines and coffins and severed limbs and cadavers with entrails...good stuff...makes us all feel like kids again.
wookie at 10:06PM on 10/31/08
If an older kid is escorting younger kids, then I have no problem with giving the older kid some treats, too. Might as well get something without needing to extort the toddlers for the good stuff.
And if there's a little kid/baby/toddler in tow along with a bunch of grade-schoolers and a mom, that's fine, too. But yeah, if the parents are trick-or-treating with an infant and no other kids, it's odd unless they're visiting friends' homes and showing off the kiddie.
And kids in high school seem to old for trick or treat, too. It's funny, but it seems like the girls give it up younger than the boys. I've had guys show up in previous years that seemed a bit old, but never the older girls. I guess the girls are more worried about zits and calories.
It's almost 9 pm here, and I think we've set a new record. The first doorbell ring was 2 kids, and the second doorbell ring was four kids. That's it.
Good think I stocked up on fun-size candy bars. They'll be just perfect for chocolate chunk cookies.
dbcurrie at 11:00PM on 10/31/08
My younger sister is 22 and went out trick-or-treating this year. I thought that was kind of pathetic.
locura at 11:51PM on 10/31/08
I'm 16 and I went trick-or-treating with my younger brother. Didn't get any weird looks but a lot of compliments on my costume. I plan to go next year too, since it's my last year of officially being a kid.
usinda at 11:56PM on 10/31/08
16
foodinmouth at 12:05AM on 11/01/08
I don't care if you're 100 as long as you are wearing a cool costume that you put some thought into .
We had over 350 tort's tonight and most of them had really thought out their costumes. We passed out giant pixie stix to the older crowd. They loved it!
floridayaya at 12:05AM on 11/01/08
One house on our block was passing out cups of wine for the parents. That's the kind of trick-or-treating I like.
iahawk89 at 12:24AM on 11/01/08
When I was offered beer instead of candy I hung up my cape.
Mike13241 at 12:42AM on 11/01/08
Last Halloween, everyone in our group dressed up. My then 4-year-old was Spiderman, his 8-year-old friend was a vampire, his dad and my husband were luchadors, I was a witch, and my dad (Grandpa) was a scary doctor in a bloody lab coat with a bag of severed limbs (he's a doctor in real life). Only the kids collected candy, though. We all had a blast. So, technically, the oldest trick-or-treater in our group was 56 but didn't collect any candy.
buffy at 12:42AM on 11/01/08
High schoolers? Really? My mom made me stop when I was 11 because I'd hit 5'6 and kept getting "aren't you too old to be trick or treating?" I didn't feel too old but it was awkward. Halloween wasn't/isn't fair to tall kids.
Krista at 1:05AM on 11/01/08
16 is a good age to stop.
Two older ladies came to my house today. I'm 19, what the hell. I shouldn't be passing out candy to someone older than me....
disneydreamscometrue at 1:56AM on 11/01/08
I don't care how old a trick-or-treater is, as long as he or she is wearing a costume.
KateNonymous at 2:01AM on 11/01/08
I'd say once you're in high school, you're too old - unless you're the "chaperone" for a smaller child and then I think you can have a bag too, if you want.
masha339 at 2:23AM on 11/01/08
I passed out candy this year, (full sized candy bars!), for the first time because I usually go out trick or treating, and I'm twenty. I love trick or treating! To me, it's not about the candy, it's about the experience. Heck, I passed out candy to 40-50 year old parents tonight. I don't think it's ever too old to have a little fun. I'm pretty short so I've only experienced being told that I was too old once.
hefloats at 2:26AM on 11/01/08
I don't get many kids, and would love to see more Trick-or-Treaters. Why do people get upset when teens trick-or-treat? Kids grow up so fast nowadays, it's nice to see some childish delight in things. I stopped around age 12-13 but I regret trying to seem more grown-up before I was grown up.
As for kids without a costume--c'mon, high school boys with black t-shirts looking sullen are the scariest costumes you see all night!
HeartofGlass at 5:24AM on 11/01/08
Sorry, but if you've got a D-cup and a naughty nurse costume making all of the 10 year old boys wonder what that funny feeling in their tummy is, you are too old. I saw that last night and commented to my wife.
dockanz at 6:35AM on 11/01/08
I think everyone of all ages should have the privilage to go trick-or-treating. It's one day a year meant for everyone to dress up and act like a kid again. It's a great way to keep people together and have fun!
ZenBuddha at 9:11AM on 11/01/08
Well, I last night I kind of figured that if you've got the boldness to walk up to my door and say "Trick-or-Treat" regardless of age, you got a treat. My only regret was that I'd made little packages with Play-Doh and a few candies inside, and had I really thought about it, I would have put together an older bowl of chocolates or something like that for the older kids- and of course the parents, they should get a little something now and then too!
ErikaWaz at 9:45AM on 11/01/08
It was 16 for me, but I remember definitely getting some glares from people. I'd say 14 is probably reasonable.
emmab at 9:49AM on 11/01/08
This thread reminds me of helping my mom dole out candy when I was home one Halloween from university. It was getting later in the evening and the hoards had reduced to a trickle. Door bell rings and my mom opens it and looks at the young man on the step, dressed as a hobo. My mom is a teacher and as such, knows a lot of the kids in her town. She says "Jimmy, don't you think you are a bit old for trick or treating!" in her best school teacher voice. The lad, who was probably about 17, reverts right back into little Jimmy and says "But Madame (all female French teachers in my town went by Madame), my niece!" He points down to a darling little 2 year old dressed up as a bunny. His single older sister's child. Mom and I both burst out laughing and loaded them up with loot.
I think 15 or 16 is old enough to quit trick or treating.....
Maureen at 10:38AM on 11/01/08
I went once in high school. And we weren't lame about it. We actually had decent costumes. Not just putting on a mask or something.
I think that was about the limit though. After that, it's probably only acceptable if you are chaperoning. But then I guess you wouldn't be holding out a bucket for candy in that case.
wunami at 11:33AM on 11/01/08
The last time I went I was 12 or 13. I didn't have a proper costume and just wore my pajamas. I felt pretty lame and too old by then so decided that night that that was the last time I trick or treated. Last year I was handing out candy and some 17 year old with facial hair and no costume was came by. If you have facial hair and no costume, that's not trick or treating, that's just begging for food. Loser.
LHSK12 at 12:04PM on 11/01/08
12 years of age.
I don't mind the younger teens taking part, but 12 is the honest cut off point.
My last trick or treat experience ended at 11. When I was 12, my mother presented me with Van Halen tickets. The show was Halloween night in Hampton, Va. 1982.
That was better than all the candy in the world at the time.
Raiders757 at 2:18PM on 11/01/08
mmm i'm with the contingent that says as long as you put effort into a costume, there's no real age limit.
i'm not gonna lie, i went out with friends through sophomore year of college! but we always had pretty awesome costumes. plus, our dorm was in boston's beacon hill neighborhood, and in 2004 theresa heinz-kerry was sitting outside the kerry brownstone with security guards handing out candy. i got a bag of m&ms! so we thought that was too cool to pass up. these days i'm more into halloween parties, though.
sarahlucy at 2:55PM on 11/01/08
i was about 12 when i stopped. but our senior year of high school a couple of my friends and i got dressed up and drove around town trick-or-treating at our friend's houses. all of their parents loved us and were amused. we were very ironic about it. nowadays i'm more of a party person, but i still love wearing costumes!
gastronomeg at 4:05PM on 11/01/08
I don't think you're ever too old. I just hate it when I see older kids skulking around with no costumes going door to door for candy when they're not even dressed up. Or when older kids dart out in front of little kids to get to the doors first for candy. I trick or treated until I was 27, but mostly, it was to walk around the neighborhood and see everyone else's costumes. I rarely took any candy after I was like 12, I'd just go along in my costume with my friends. We always all dressed up and went all out on the costumes, so the neighbors always liked seeing what we'd come up with.
JigsawJones at 4:22PM on 11/01/08
13 is a good age, once you hit high school you're too old. That or once you go from the "cute witch" costumes to "slutty witch" costumes, whichever comes first. I knew someone who went trick or treating until he was 18, he was an odd fellow.
ag3208 at 8:20PM on 11/01/08
I was 12 in grade 9, and that's the last time I went. Once you have boobs, it's just not the same.
piccola at 9:27PM on 11/01/08
My brother and his girlfriend are 20 and 21, respectively, and went out last night and I gave them hell for it, though when I play the "Guess how old my brother is" game with people who haven't met my brother, many people answer within the 13-16 age range. When I asked how their night was, they surprisingly didn't get anyone saying they were too old, but compliments on how great their costumes were!
I think if you have the economic power to buy candy (around high school and beyond) then you shouldn't go around and get a garbage bag full.
Vincci at 11:41PM on 11/01/08
The age limit for trick-or-treating? Umm..
32 or 33 i guess...?
Zenchef at 2:32AM on 11/02/08
No age limit but put some effort into the costume. If I think you are a little too old to be out, I might insist on a little entertainment before I hand out a treat, sing me a song, dance a couple of steps, tell me a joke. The first of the group usually balks, but by the time the 2nd or 3rd starts they are all into and laughing. And if they don't want to play - go home.
maduckie at 10:08AM on 11/03/08
I last trick or treated for myself when I was 15. I knew I was too old for it and I didn't give a damn, I was at a party and we all decided it would be a brilliant idea to run around the neighborhood for one last hurrah. We got denied at a few homes for being too old though, heh.
Honestly, after 8th grade you're too old. If you really want to trick or treat, take your younger siblings out or something (that's what I did!).
O_Leaozinho at 1:45PM on 11/03/08
I went trick-or-treating this year, and I'm 20. I put a fair amount of effort into my costume, and we drove 45 minutes to get to the nearest town that wasn't my college. Trick-or-treating is more fun than illegal boozing, and we're not really in it for the candy, just for entertainment. After three neighborhoods, no one said no to us. We might have gotten less candy than the little ones, but that's fine with us.
Narwhal at 1:48PM on 11/03/08
My Mom made my siblings and I stop when at 12.
Fatfudge at 2:52PM on 11/03/08
I think it's hard to decide when its the right time to tell your child their to old especially if they are still acting as a child should act at the age of 10 and 11, and believe me I am very thankful for that. I didn't think my daughter was too old to go trick or treating seeing some of the other kids in the neighborhoods trick or treating until this past Halloween. We had so much fun I took both my daughter and little sister out trick or treating it was the last house that we decided to stop at considering it was getting late. The young woman answered the door and took a good look at my girls and stated "No, you guys are too old to be trick or treating." then she shut the door in their faces. I was in total shock. Of course it's her right to decline to give her candy away, it just really made my girls feel bad, they didn't understand and it left them feeling a bit angry. I sat and talked with them about maybe having that halloween night be the last time they did trick or treating, and that they could do parties instead. They were happy in the end and it didn't seem to matter much, even though they still talk about it.
dewilliams at 9:16AM on 11/04/08
I think there should be no age limit, I think even grannies should show up, we could give them baby food for their dentures, you know? It's only one day out of the entire 365 days that we get to meet our neighbors? Why some people are rude about giving out candy to others is beyond me. But like someone mentioned, definitely come dressed as something, not just your regular clothes/uniform, at least put some effort into it. :)
cardamom at 9:50PM on 12/30/08